41
Self- Hypnosis Jen Years Certified Consulting Hypnotist Zen Jen’s Mojo Dojo Lesson 1

Self-Hypnosis Jen Years Certified Consulting Hypnotist Zen Jen’s Mojo Dojo Lesson 1

Embed Size (px)

Citation preview

Self-Hypnosis

Jen YearsCertified Consulting HypnotistZen Jen’s Mojo Dojo

Lesson 1

Self-Hypnosis

Hypnosis

Professionals

About Hypnosis

Imagination

Exercises

Stages of Change

Your Success

Step 1 Self-Hypnosis

Course Agenda

Assessment

Goal Setting

Step 2 Self-

Hypnosis

Developing

Suggestions/Scripts

Writing Your Script

Step 3 Self-Hypnosis

Lesson 1 Lesson 2

Lesson 3

Hypnosis Professionals

Self-Hypnosis

Certified Hypnotist

Certified Hypnotherapist

Board Certified Hypnotist or Hypnotherapist

Self-Hypnosis

You who

Why

Self-Hypnosis

Improving Self

Confidence/Esteem

Overcome anxiety, stress, fears

Pain management

Change habits like smoking, nail

biting

Manage weight

Get Your Mojo Back!

Benefits of Hypnosis

Self-Hypnosis

What is hypnosis? Change in consciousness State of receptivity is created Introduction of meaningful and beneficial

suggestions Accepted by the unconscious/subconscious Believed by the conscious mind

AAI Scientific Cultural Services Ltd. 2010. Retrieved from http://aaiscs.com/NF/about-neurofeedback.html

Self-Hypnosis

Changes the repeating loop and internal script that influence your behavior.

When in a state of deep relaxation, your mind will be open to suggestions that change the unproductive running script to a positive one.

Self-hypnosis or any form of hypnosis cannot force anyone to accept anything that they truly do not want to do. You are in state of relaxation, but alert and in control. It is a means to change your own habits.

How does hypnosis work?

Self-Hypnosis

Let’s try it out….

How’s your imagination?

Self-Hypnosis

Another check of your imagination….

Self-Hypnosis

3TU Data Intelligence. 2013. Stages of Change. Retrieved from http://dataintelligence.3tu.nl/en/iv-acquisition-advice/stages-of-change/

Are You Ready?

Self-Hypnosis

How do you ensure success?For self hypnosis to work for you, several things that must happen.

1. First, you must let go of any false preconceptions that you have about hypnosis.

2. You must always think positively and believe it will work. You also have to want it to work.

3. You must be willing to relax and focus and enter a trance state.

4. You also must be highly motivated to reach a specific goal – no vague generalities allowed.

Self-Hypnosis

Now let’s relax…

And 1st Step…

Self-Hypnosis

Jen YearsCertified Consulting HypnotistZen Jen’s Mojo Dojo

Lesson 2

Self-Hypnosis

Assessment

Let’s break down our wishes into behaviors, emotions, sensations, images, and thoughts…

….so we can make some goals

Self-Hypnosis

BASIC Assessment

BEHAVIOR

AFFECT

SENSATIONS

IMAGERY

COGNITION

Self-Hypnosis

BASIC Assessment

Situation or Problem to be Assessed:

This is your wish.

Example:I am a smoker and wish to become a non-smoker.

Self-HypnosisBASIC Assessment

BEHAVIOR:

What are you currently doing regarding the situation?

When did you first behave that way?

What is happening at the time?

How do you deal with it?

Who is with you?

Where do you go?

Example:I smoke 1 ½ packs per day - I smoke Camels - I smoke during stressful situations, especially at work, and with my co-workers

Self-HypnosisBASIC Assessment

AFFECT:

What are my emotions related to my behavior?

What makes you sad?

What makes you cry?

What makes you fearful and opposite?

When would that event not upset you?

Example:I’m angry at myself for continuing to smoke – I get pleasure from smoking – It reduces anxiety

Self-HypnosisBASIC Assessment

SENSATIONS:

What are the physical symptoms related to my behavior?

Think of the 5 senses:

Which sounds are pleasant/unpleasant?

What sights are appealing or not?

What about the tastes – like/dislike?

What physical signs, if any, do you have as a results of your behavior?

Example:I get headaches – shortness of breath – hacking cough – I don’t like the taste – My clothes/stuff smell bad

Self-HypnosisBASIC Assessment

IMAGERY:

How do I image myself related to my behavior?

These are the mental images that influence our lives.

Close your eyes and evaluate your self image during that behavior. Just what you see, not what you feel.

Where are you?

Who is with you and what are they doing?

Example:I imagine myself as being successful when I smoke – smoking represents authority to me.

Self-Hypnosis

BASIC Assessment

COGNITION:

What are my thoughts related to my behavior?

Try not to use the word “should” or “could”.

What do you think about what you are doing?

What would you like to do instead?

Example:My thoughts are that I’m doing a dumb thing and at some point will get ill if I continue smoking… I better stop.

Self-Hypnosis

Goals

Now we know what we really want and how we feel about it. Let’s make some goals and objectives!

Self-Hypnosis

Goal Setting

A goal is a general statement about the outcome you wish to see.

Objectives are the commitments you make to achieve your goal.

Self-Hypnosis

Goal SettingGOAL:

What do I want to achieve and by when?

Example:I am an ex-smoker on January 31, 2013.

BENEFITS:

What benefits will I derive from achieving my goal?

Example:I’ll feel better – I’ll feel clean – I’ll save money – My body and clothing will smell better and my social life will improve

Self-Hypnosis

Objectives

Be sure to remember when you write your objectives, keep it:

Positive

Simple

Believable

Measurable

Reward Centered

In Present Tense

Self-Hypnosis

Objectives

THINKING:

What must I be thinking to achieve my goal?

Example:I must rid myself of the idea that I am attached to getting pleasures from smoking – I must acknowledge that I own the habit instead of it owning me.

Self-Hypnosis

Objectives

FEELING:

What must I be feeling to achieve my goal?

Example:I must feel that being an ex-smoker is OK – I must experience that giving up this bad habit and addiction will give me a better feeling about myself.

Self-Hypnosis

Objectives

ACTION:

What specific steps – By what deadline must I achieve my goal?

Example:I must set up a withdrawal system for quitting (e.g. 30-20-15-10-5-0). I must buy cigarettes only in the morning and break up all but my daily allotment. I must drink lots of water, eat fruit, and take vitamin C daily. Grubbing and giving are no longer okay.

Self-Hypnosis

Step 2

25

Self-Hypnosis

Jen YearsCertified Consulting HypnotistZen Jen’s Mojo Dojo

Lesson 3

Self-Hypnosis

Build Your ScriptWith Suggestions

What are you going to tell yourself?

Use your goals and action objectives to build positive suggestions.

Self-Hypnosis

Suggestions

Goals

Beliefs

Feelings

Attitudes

Behaviors

Reinforcement:Any action or

thing that strengthens a

habit – positively or negatively

Encouragement:

Motivational tool to manipulate an individual’s drive – can be internal

or external

Self-Hypnosis

Reinforcement:Any action or thing that strengthens a habit – positively or negatively – often unconscious and counter-productive

Habit Negative Reinforcement

Oversleeping Watching late shows on TV

Smoking Going for drink after work

Weight Control Using candy to reward self

Reinforcement

To create positive suggestions, we must overcome fear. Fear and resistance exist together. Eliminate either and change can occur.

How do we make these positive?

Self-Hypnosis

Drive Drive Example

The drive to meet the weekly sales goal

InternalSelf-Suggestion – Preparing a

Daily Sales Plan

External Company Sales Contest

Encouragement:

Motivational tool to manipulate an individual’s drive – may be internal

or external

Encouragement

What are some examples of internal and external

encouragement for you?

Self-Hypnosis

Writing Your Suggestion/Script

Now, take your Goal Setting form and look at the Action Steps again.

ACTION:

What specific steps – By what deadline must I achieve my goal?

Example:

I must set up a withdrawal system for quitting (e.g. 30-20-15-10-5-0). I must buy cigarettes only in the morning and break up all but my daily allotment. I must drink lots of water, eat fruit, and take vitamin C daily. Grubbing and giving are no longer okay.

Self-Hypnosis

Writing Your Suggestion/Script

Take your Action Steps and check:

Is it Positive, Simple, Believable, Measurable

And does it Carry a Reward? Is it in Present Tense?

Example:

I must set up a withdrawal system for quitting (e.g. 30-20-15-10-5-0). I must buy cigarettes only in the morning and break up all but my daily allotment. I must drink lots of water, eat fruit, and take vitamin C daily. Grubbing and giving are no longer okay.

Self-Hypnosis

Writing Your Suggestion/Script

Take your Action Steps and check:Does it Carry a Reward?

Go back to the Goal Setting form – Benefits Section

Example:

I must set up a withdrawal system for quitting (e.g. 30-20-15-10-5-0). I must buy cigarettes only in the morning and break up all but my daily allotment. I must drink lots of water, eat fruit, and take vitamin C daily. Grubbing and giving are no longer okay.

BENEFITS:

What benefits will I derive from achieving my goal?

Example:I’ll feel better – I’ll feel clean – I’ll save money – My body and clothing will smell better and my social life will improve

Self-Hypnosis

Writing Your Suggestion/Script

Rewrite your Action Steps as a Suggestion Script and use present

tense verbiage:Example:

I set up a withdrawal system for quitting (e.g. 30-20-15-10-5-0) which allows me to save money. I buy cigarettes only in the morning and break up all but my daily allotment. I drink lots of water, eat fruit, and take vitamin C daily which allows me to feel better. Grubbing and giving are not okay. These things allow me to feel clean, smell better, and my social life improves.

Self-Hypnosis

Now Put It All TogetherTake your suggestion and enter it

into the Reinforcement Script:

Example:

I set up a withdrawal system for quitting (e.g. 30-20-15-10-5-0) which allows me to save money. I buy cigarettes only in the morning and break up all but my daily allotment. I drink lots of water, eat fruit, and take vitamin C daily which allows me to feel better. Grubbing and giving are not okay. These things allow me to feel clean, smell better, and my social life improves.

Self-Hypnosis

Step 3

Example:

I set up a withdrawal system for quitting (e.g. 30-20-15-10-5-0) which allows me to save money. I buy cigarettes only in the morning and break up all but my daily allotment. I drink lots of water, eat fruit, and take vitamin C daily which allows me to feel better. Grubbing and giving are not okay. These things allow me to feel clean, smell better, and my social life improves.

Self-Hypnosis

YOU ARE READY FOR CHANGE

I’m here to support you.

Thank you for sharing.