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    from this point forward or not? Is he %iting his nails with worry,and wondering if you are going to "all him or not?#

    -%viously he isnt, she replied.

    &o, why are you sitting here and wondering whats going to happenne't? I asked.

    ou see, the pro%lem isnt that you slept with him too soon* thepro%lem is that, you have gone from %eing "ompletely "onfident to%eing someone who now is a little desperate.

    Its not what happens immediately after sleeping with a guy thatmatters, its what you do for the ne't few days, or weeks thatmakes the %ig differen"e.

    /ost women shift from the high gear to a low gear, and a"t veryneedy. &ome do it "ons"iously, while some do it un"ons"iously.

    But, Im also not saying that its wrong to feel that way. I mean,its not easy to wake up one day, and realize that youve %eentaken advantage of and feel used at the same time.

    ou see, there is a method you "an use, not (ust with this situation%ut any situation you might en"ounter with a man, that will put you

    in the position of power almost instantly. I "all it the !0ole reversalmethod#.

    Before I tell you what it is, I must tell you what you will gain whenyou put it into a"tion1

    Here is the %iggest %enefit 2 )his method will give you the perfe"tidea, on e'a"tly what to do, in various situations around a man, toturn things in your favor.

    I know its a pretty %old "laim, %ut this is 3445 true.

    o you know those situations, where you feel utterly powerlessaround a man, and sit there s"rat"hing your head wondering, whatyou "ould do to get the result you want?

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    6lus, do you often feel a%solutely misera%le, %e"ause you"ant figure out what to do?

    7rom this point on, you arent ever going to have that issue arounda man, ever again.

    Be"ause, the method Ill show you will eliminate this issue fromyour life forever.

    &o if you are ready, let me e'plain e'a"tly what this method is, andhow it works.

    $s you already know 2 this method is "alled the !0ole reversalmethod# , and it %asi"ally means that whenever you en"ounter adiffi"ult situation with a man, you reverse the roles and take on his

    role.

    In other words, you adapt his attitude, a"tions and mindset.

    )o e'plain it %etter, lets follow up with the same e'ample ofsleeping with a man too soon.

    /ost women usually get a little desperate after they have sleptwith a guy, simply %e"ause, on some level they feel that theyvegiven up the goods, and now the guy might not like them as mu"h.

    )his "ould %e true in some "ases, however, if you play it smart andfollow this !0ole 0eversal# formula, his attra"tion for you wontwear off, rather, it would get more and more intense no matterhow many times he has slept with you.

    $s this formula simply states 2 with any situation, you must adaptthe attitude, a"tions and mindset of the guy youre dealing with.

    In the "ase of sleeping with him too early, try to fo"us on what

    attitude, mindset and a"tions a man adopts after hes slept withyou?

    /ost guys tend to a"t a little aloof, a little dry, and sometimes tryto make e'"uses when you "all them.

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    )herefore, %efore even waiting for him to a"t, or rea"t this way,you should adopt those attitudes %y default.

    Whi"h means, you should a"t a little aloof, dry and almostuninterested right after you+ve slept with him.

    When you do that, not only will you sho"k the guy a little, %ut youwill also stand out and impress him.

    8et me e'plain this further /ost men sort of e'pe"t a woman toget needy or desperate, after theyve slept with her. )hey e'pe"t aseries of desperate phone "alls, or te't messages from her. In fa"t,they put their shield up, even %efore, you get in tou"h with themagain.

    &o in short /ost men are following a "ertain pattern and e'pe"t"ertain %ehaviors from you. But, when dont a"t as he wase'pe"ting you to a"t, you suddenly %reak through his patterns, andfor"e him to think.

    &imilarly, when you dont a"t like how other women a"t, yousuddenly appear like this out of the ordinary, and different womanto him.

    He would instantly la%el you as someone different, %e"ause you

    dont "ome with the standard flaws, other women "ome with.

    )herefore, when you %reak through his standard patterns, anddont rea"t like most women usually rea"t, you get his un"ons"iousattention.

    9ow, would think a%out you a lot more, and will give you adifferent kind of treatment altogether.

    )his same pro"ess "an %e used in any situation you en"ounter with

    a man. $ good friend of mine had trou%le, with keeping meninterested after the first few dates.

    &he used to go out a lot* however after a while, most guys wouldlose attra"tion for her.

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    While hearing her story, I realized that she was doing everythingright, other than one thing.

    &he was a little too eager to get started and was too fo"used onthe end goal. :ven %efore the date would start, she would worryand stress over whether, the guy would like her or not %y the endof the date.

    &in"e she was too out"ome dependent, she was un"ons"iouslysending out a very needy vi%e, and every guy she would go outwith, "ould smell this neediness from a mile away.

    )herefore, most guys used to pull away, while she used to pushharder and harder, to keep the date going.

    $fter a few hours of talking with her, I e'plained this same formulato her in a lot of detail, and asked her to des"ri%e how most men%ehaved around her on a date. &he said the following1

    1;ery laid %a"k and a little disinterested.

    1;ery rela'ed.

    1)hey were slow to respond to my questions and gave shortanswers.

    1)hey played a little hard to get.

    I said there you go.

    Based on what youve des"ri%ed so far, the ne't time you go out ona date, I want you to %e very rela'ed, a little disinterested, anddont %e too eager a%out where things are headed.

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    In fa"t, for the first time ever, a guy was eager to see her again,and told her that he loved the time they spent together.

    )he %est part is, that you "an apply this pro"ess to any situationyou might en"ounter with a guy. :ven a situation, where a manplays "onstant games with you, and a"ts hot and "old.

    )here was a lady I helped on"e, who was having trou%le with her%oyfriend of = years. )he issue was that they knew ea"h other toowell, and the attra"tion was on its last legs.

    )hey %arely even kissed ea"h other, and things were a%solutely"old in their relationship.

    When things get to this stage, its usually %e"ause the relationshipla"ks emotional temperature. In other words, when we get toofamiliar with a person, there is no real element of surprise left andas a result things start to get emotionally dry.

    9ow, Im not saying that "ouples who stay together for severalyears dont feel any attra"tion for ea"h other.

    )he ones who make it work are "ompati%le on a "ompletelydifferent level, and have a""epted ea"h other the way they are.

    )his is a su%(e"t for another day, as I "an talk on this, for hoursand hours.

    However, lets get %a"k to the topi" at hand.

    &o, when there are "ouples who know ea"h other too well, andhave almost lost attra"tion for ea"h other, they tend to "hoose oneof two routes.

    )hey either go their separate ways and %reakup, or they try to

    raise the emotional temperature in the relationship.

    /ost people dont get this, %ut some "ouples un"ons"iously fightwith ea"h other, to raise the emotional temperature. I know thissounds pretty weird, however, there are many people out therewho, un"ons"iously end up arguing with their partner, %e"ause they

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    seek some sort of emotional fuel.

    )hey (ust want to raise the emotional temperature up a fewnot"hes, even if it means, using negative means to get there.

    However, this is really unhealthy for o%vious reasons, and doesnt%ring long term results. However, in the "ase of the "ouple Imtalking a%out, the woman had %e"ome (ust too predi"ta%le and itwas working against her.

    )he weird thing was, that her attra"tion hadnt died for her%oyfriend. 0ather, it was as high as ever.

    Why was this, the "ase?

    Well, simply %e"ause, her %oyfriend wasnt predi"ta%le. His a"tionswere hard to read, and she "ould never tell whether, he was goingto %low hot or "old on various days.

    &o after studying her situation, I asked her to prepare a list ofthings her %oyfriend was doing around her, and told her to (ot themall down on a pie"e of paper.

    I asked her to put in, all the little to %ig details in there.

    9e't, I asked her to adopt these a"tions in her own routines for thene't few weeks. In other words, I asked her to a"t e'a"tly like howher %oyfriend was a"ting around her and told her to report %a"k tome.

    $fter a%out the first week or so, she told me that her %oyfriend sather down, and asked her if something was up, as she wasnt a"tingher normal self.

    )hen, after a few more days, he was getting more involved

    in taking noti"e of her, and it appeared like he was giving her a lotmore attention, than usual.

    :ventually things "ompletely "hanged and her %oyfriend starteda"ting like a lovestru"k teenager, who (ust "ouldn+t have enough ofher.

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    &o you see, this pro"ess "an work in any situation, as long as youdo it the right way.

    However, make sure that you dont "onfuse yourself with thispro"ess, and dont over2"ompli"ate things.

    )here have %een women who tried it, and "onfused themselves somu"h, that they "ouldnt figure out what they were doing.

    &o to review the whole pro"ess on"e again, there are only > stepsyou need to do.

    Step 1 7o"us on a guys a"tions or thoughts.

    Step 2 /irror or adopt those a"tions or thoughts.

    )hats a%out it.

    )here is nothing more to do or learn, with this pro"ess. $s long asyou follow these > %asi" steps, you will noti"e that the ta%les keepturning and that guy you used to avoid you, suddenly feels a heavysurge of attra"tion or you.

    ou will noti"e that "ompletely uninterested man, suddenly

    showing interest in you, and you will also noti"e that, getting mento do what you want them to do, starts appearing more and moreeasy.

    o try this pro"ess right now, and Id love to hear some su""essstories from your end soon.

    ood lu"k.

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