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Object Lesson
Complete Pink
Dot to Dot
RABBIT
RABBIT
Camp or
ClubA child who has active,
engaged, attentive parental figures offering advice, encouragement
and guidance
(someone guiding them from dot to dot)
Table Talk
Think back to your childhood… who helped you connect the dots as you grew up? Who helped you make life choices?
Have you always known what dot to follow next? If not, who did you ask for help?
Who are some of the people that get to “help with the dots” in our Camper/Club Kid’s lives?
Loving the Camp/Club Rabbit
Our goal is to celebrate the healthy connections and adults they have in their lives and be one more part of reinforcing what healthy
relationships look like.
Complete Purple
Dot to Dot
FLOWER
FLOWER
Camp or
ClubA child whose parents have
been disrupted from parenting, but who still has
active role models engaging in their life,
stepping into some of the gaps.
Table Talk
Think back to your childhood… did you have any “missing numbers”? (i.e., alcoholic parent, latch key kid, emotionally absent parent, etc…)
Who in your life stepped into those gaps?
Loving the Camp/Club Flower
Our goal is to stand in the gap along with other family members and caregivers as one more healthy voice while parents seek help / get
healthy. Mentoring is ideal for a flower.
Complete Yellow
Dot to Dot
DUCK
DUCK
Camp or
Club
A child who has had poor examples, shown “wrong numbers” and has a messy path as they try to navigate adult-topics
with a child’s heart and mind.
Ready and even eager to follow patterns set by others. This child may not have any healthy examples or role models, and may
bear the responsibility to help raise younger children.
Mentoring is needed for a Duck, but the relationship may be more challenging.
Table Talk
What are some of the “wrong numbers” we see in kids at Camp/Club? (i.e., sexuality at a young age, acting in a parent role)?
What are some of the challenges for us as a staff when we encounter that? (i.e., overly sexually charged child)?
What are some of the “healthy numbers” we can model for them at Camp/Club? (i.e., healthy boundaries)?
What are some of the challenges for the kids experiencing Camp for the first time (i.e.: a meal schedule, or a schedule at all)?
Loving the Camp/Club Duck
If their #8 is “to cut” sometimes we show them number 8 is “to hug.”
Be a safe, steadfast example. Just be there.
Complete Turquoise Dot to Dot
STARFISH
STARFISH
Camp or
Club
A child without a compass, who is largely on their own, doesn’t believe they are valuable or
precious.
This Mentor needs to be steadfast and willing to go the long-haul with likelihood of NO feedback or reciprocation from
the child.
Table Talk
Think back to your childhood… how would it be to have no numbers? Zero guidance?
What are some examples of kids you’ve seen at Camp/Club with no guidance?
What are some tangible ways at Camp/Club we can help lead to THE NEXT DOT?
Loving the Camp/Club Starfish
Emphasis that it’s not our job to see their whole picture or figure it all out, God knows it and sees it. We can pray for them, love them unconditionally and remain faithful. Our consistency and love may
just help get them one dot closer to their true, original design.
NUMBERS Represent person who is guiding to the next DOT
1. God has a design for EVERY SINGLE CHILD WE MEET.2. God’s image is inside them no matter what “Image” they
bring to Camp/Club.3. This is NOT about us creating a “pretty picture,” nor to say
that every child’s path is pre-set and we just have to help them “figure it out.”
4. This IS to say that God has a plan, a design, for each child He brings to Camp/Club.
5. This IS about having HELP to choose the right dots, not about controlling which dot a child will chose.
6. WE GET TO MEET THEM AT WHATEVER DOT THEY ARE ON, EVEN IF OFF THE GRID, AND HELP SHOW THEM ONE STEP CLOSER TO GOD’S DESIGN FOR THEIR LIVES.
7. We have the PRIVILEGE of walking alongside the children as their stories unfold and their images become clearer.
WE DON’T SAVE THEM… WE SHOW THEM ANOTHER WAY
DOTSRepresent choices and life milestones
The Royal Family KIDS Dot to Dot
OUR MISSION
LAUNCH MORE CAMPS & CLUBS
BRING EVERY FOSTER CHILD TO CAMP & CLUB
SPEAK IN MORE CHURCHES / CONFERENCES
GET IN FRONT OF MORE ADVOCATES
INCREASE PUBLIC ENGAGEMENT/MARKETING
ENSURE SCALABILITY & SUSTAINABILITY
KEEP THE ‘GOOD’ – DROP EVERYTHING ELSE
AGREE WE WANT TO MOVE UPWARD
Our mission… is to see EVERY FOSTER CHILD, age 6-12, experience a life-changing camp, club and mentor.