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11/4/2019 NOVEMBER 2019 ONCJC NEWSLETTER Our Website: www.oncjc.org Contact Emails Club Information [email protected] Newsletter Editor [email protected] Dance Lessons [email protected] Website [email protected] DO YOU HAVE A BIG BUT? Please note that this butonly has one T. Last month I suggested that we should look to see what is beyond the Yes. What is keeping us from looking beyond that yes? Well it could be that we have a big but, getting in our way. For example; I would love to work at the check-in table BUT, I might miss my favorite song to dance too. I would chair a Wednesday event BUT, I don’t have anyone to help me. I would run for the Board BUT, I don’t have time. Do any of these things sound familiar? Are we using our BUTs to get out of helping where we are needed? Each member should check their BUTs at the door and look to see what might be beyond the Yes.Butting out, John Inks 2019 Board Members Delbert Stewart, Bob Poulson, Cheryl Minnich, Jeff Pifer, Ruth McGraw, Maria Mayo, Bennie Rock, Carol Kyle, John Inks SPLINTERS FROM THE BOARD OCTOBER 2, 2019 1. Post event report reviewed. Copy is on file with minutes. 2. New members shoe bags have arrived. If current member wants second bag or a replacement, the cost is $5/bag. See any Board member if interested. 3. Pre-event report for Christmas was reviewed. 4. Reviewed tax-exempt status and when it can be utilized in the future. 5. New Activities Chair, Cori Voltz, presented ideas for 2020.

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11/4/2019

NOVEMBER 2019 ONCJC NEWSLETTER

Our Website: www.oncjc.org Contact Emails Club Information [email protected] Newsletter Editor [email protected]

Dance Lessons [email protected] Website [email protected]

DO YOU HAVE A BIG BUT?

Please note that this ‘but’ only has one T.

Last month I suggested that we should look to see what is beyond the Yes. What is keeping us

from looking beyond that yes? Well it could be that we have a big but, getting in our way. For

example;

I would love to work at the check-in table BUT, I might miss my favorite song to dance

too.

I would chair a Wednesday event BUT, I don’t have anyone to help me.

I would run for the Board BUT, I don’t have time.

Do any of these things sound familiar? Are we using our BUTs to get out of helping where we

are needed? Each member should check their BUTs at the door and look to see what might be

beyond the ‘Yes.’

Butting out,

John Inks

2019 Board Members

Delbert Stewart, Bob Poulson, Cheryl Minnich, Jeff Pifer,

Ruth McGraw, Maria Mayo, Bennie Rock, Carol Kyle, John Inks

SPLINTERS FROM THE BOARD

OCTOBER 2, 2019

1. Post event report reviewed.

Copy is on file with minutes.

2. New members shoe bags have

arrived. If current member

wants second bag or a

replacement, the cost is $5/bag.

See any Board member if

interested.

3. Pre-event report for Christmas

was reviewed.

4. Reviewed tax-exempt status and

when it can be utilized in the

future.

5. New Activities Chair, Cori

Voltz, presented ideas for 2020.

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2019 ONCJC ACTIVITY SCHEDULE

DATE ACTIVITY CHAIRPERSON

Nov 6 Board Meeting Open to all members

Nov 6 Veteran’s Salute Linda and Joe Sepesy

Dec 4 Elections

Dec 14 Christmas Dance Ruth McGraw/Carol Kyle

*** 2nd Wednesday of each month is BIRTHDAY CAKE & CLUB SHIRT NIGHT

NOVEMBER DANCE LESSONS

Date Main Floor Lessons

7:00-7:30 pm

Third Floor/Room 315

7:00 pm to 7:45 pm Line Dances

6 Train Swing Christine G.

and Monica S. Beginner and Beyond Lessons Colorado ChaCha – Train Swing

13 Motown Singers Jimmy F. Beginner and Beyond Lessons Train Swing – Motown Singers

20 The Stroll Jimmy F. Beginner and Beyond Lessons Motown Singers – The Stroll

27 Line Dance

Review

Linda S. and

Mary F. Beginner and Beyond Lessons The Stroll – Train Swing

DOOR GREETERS

Nov 6 Linda Thomas and Paul Jewel

Nov 13 Nova Buchanan and ?

Nov 20 Deb McGill and Ron Adorni

Nov 27 ?? and ??

DJ Schedule Schedule is subject to

change due to

additional DJ’S &

vacations

ONCJC DJs – Ed, Mary, Jerry, Lou, Roy, Dave THEY MAY FORGET WHAT YOU PLAYED,

BUT THEY’LL NEVER FORGET HOW YOU MADE THEM FEEL!

Nov Dec

6 LOU C./ED C 4 LOU C./ED C

13 MARY F./DAVE W. 11 MARY F./DAVE W.

20 ED C./LOU C. 18 ED C./LOU C.

27 DAVE W./MARY F. 25 NO DANCE

CLUB APPAREL AVAILABLE ON LINE

Control and click on the following link: www.embroideryondemand.com/ohio-north-coast-jitterbug

Select an area and start shopping. The ordering format is easy to follow. Items shipped directly to you.

Several men and women shirt styles. Sizes XS through 4XL. Men’s tall available in select shirts. Sizing

charts listed where available. Caps, totes, shoe bags, jackets and other items also available.

All items embroidered with ONCJC red, white and blue club logo. Club Logo will be embroidered on

left side of shirt. Larger version of ONCJC logo available for back of jackets and certain shirts.

Items are non-refundable once logo is applied. Any questions can be directed to Sharon

at 636-343-5309. ALL SALES FINAL!

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Dance Floor Reunion Delbert Stewart and Joe Sepesy first met while attending USAF ROTC classes at Kent State

University in the autumn of 1968. One afternoon, instead of studying, they were playing

pool in the rec room, knowing fully well that their days at KSU were numbered – bad grades,

money concerns, the draft – in general, their futures.

During the game Delbert told Joe he would not be able to afford another quarter at Kent and

that he was concerned about the draft and having to go to Vietnam. Joe told Delbert he had

already decided to enlist in the US Army to attend Warrant Officer Flight Training (WOFT).

“Why don’t you enlist – fly helicopters in the army? All you need is a high school diploma,

pass an aptitude test and physical exam.”

With very little thought, Delbert said, “That sounds pretty good to me.” So, the two

teenagers agreed to enlist in the buddy program and were sworn into the US Army on

December 12, 1968.

Officially, Delbert and Joe were soldiers, not in uniform yet, but still soldiers. They had

enlisted in the Army’s delayed-entry program and would not report for active duty until

March 6, 1969, when a guaranteed slot for flight school would be available for them. Their obligation to the Army after

completing flight school would be four years of active duty.

On March 6, 1969, both teens reported for active duty in Cleveland. They were flown to Fort Polk, Louisiana, for basic

training, during which Delbert injured one of his knees. Ten weeks later they were bused to Fort Wolters, Texas, for primary

helicopter flight training. A couple of days later, Delbert reinjured his knee. After convalescing, Delbert left Ft. Wolters to

train as a medic, and later, was stationed in Germany; while Joe completed WOFT and served three tours of duty in Vietnam

as a Huey pilot.

Decades later, Joe became a ballroom dancer and beginning in 2016, attended many Wednesday, ONCJC dances at the

Quirk Cultural Center. He would sit in the same seat, where the partition was folded against the wall. Delbert would sit

three or four seats away, nearer to the corner with Sharon Lichon. Delbert and Joe were unaware of each other’s presence.

In March 2018, Joe and Linda Rios began dating. The couple danced most Friday evenings at the Avon Oaks Ballroom, one

of Joe’s regular dance venues, in Girard, Ohio. Also, in March, members of ONCJC, including Delbert and Sharon Lichon,

began to attend dances at Avon Oaks. One evening, Delbert noticed Joe’s Word Dances books that were on display. Upon

seeing a flyer with a picture of Joe next to a helicopter, he said to Sharon, “I know this guy!”

As Joe was walking off the floor, Delbert approached him with questions about basic training and the WOFT program. It

took Joe about a minute to make the connection. But his memories of Delbert, back to their days of Air Force ROTC at

Kent, began to resurface, becoming clearer and clearer. Delbert and Joe hadn’t seen each another in 49 years!

Delbert told Joe he had frequently thought about him and their military connection which was severed during Pre-Flight

training at Fort Wolters, Texas. “I thought you were killed in Vietnam,” he said, “but couldn’t find out for sure.” The

reunited buddies talked some more and of course, would continue to reconnect regularly on Wednesdays at the Quirk.

Since this remarkable coincidence occurred, Delbert and Joe, with Sharon and Linda, have spent much time together, on the

dance floor as well as enjoying other activities.

***** ***** *****

Another coincidence: Delbert and Joe were both born on May 24, 1950.

On December 1, 1969, the US Selective Service System held a lottery. Three hundred, sixty-six capsules, each containing

a day and month (January 1 through December 31, including February 29) were drawn to determine the order for drafting

young men into military service. Joe and Delbert’s birthday, May 24, was the thirty-first date to be drawn. But both had

already enlisted, thereby minimizing the chances that they would serve as infantrymen in Vietnam.

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2 Joann F

23 Jane A

4 Delores A 24 Beth D

4 Adam G 26 Della C

5 Christine R 26 Heinz C

6 Ron A 27 Suzann G

9 Roy M 28 Nova B

17 Chad J 28 Richard W

18 Clarissa H 29 Frank G

19 LinA. Linda T 30 Linda K

21 Jim P 30 Karen M

21 Bernadine R 30 Cori V

HALLOWEEN HIGHLIGHTS Creativity and fun were on display at ONCJC’s annual Halloween party on Wednesday October 30th! Members and guests

were dressed in everything from “This is my Halloween costume” t-shirts to beautifully detailed costumes and make-up.

Spirits were high all evening with wonderful music and dancing, and outstanding food and treats provided by members and

guests. Prizes were awarded in these categories:

Scariest

Ken Olnek

Most Original

Jim Peticca

Best Group or Couple

Neil and Georgia Brandt

Funniest

Barb Lee

There were so many interesting Halloween treats that it was difficult to pick the most creative! After

much discussion, the judges determined that the creepy “popcorn hands” made by Janis Borkowski

was the winner, nudging out the mummy cookies, the cheesecake eyeball, and the veggie monster.

Everything was fantastic!

Thanks to Judie Connor and her committee, Debbie Graybeal, Kaye

Haskins, Evie Hartman, and Ed Leszek who made this such a fun evening.

Many thanks to all the members and guests who put much time and thought

into their costumes and those who brought wonderful food and goodies

and lent a hand where needed. Thanks also to Deejays Dave Wilson

and Mary Friberg who kept the music going and the dance floor full! It

was a SPOOKTACULAR evening!

For more SPECTACULAR HALLOWEEN PICTURES go to ONCJC.org.

Honorable mention—a work of Art

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