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ODDH IA^ KATO[DCCGOJ V~ai @/E Ol~lwlo

@/E Ol~lwlol

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B/A/H ai Kaeed~kd

[CO Kaccdjd

ODDH IA^ KATO[DCCGOJ

Gox~ahtkxgao

Kato{dccgoj g{ l v~akd{{ zbgkb xl`d{ vclkd go l aod%xa%aod ~dclxgao{bgv ndxzddo xbd

kato{dcca~ loh xbd kcgdox/ Xa el`d goxd~v~dxlxgao{ ai ilkx{ ~dclxgoj xa l kbagkd# vclo a~

lhmt{xedox{ zbgkb xbd kcgdox{ oddh{ xa el`d/ Gx g{ l v~akd{{ goyacygoj goxd~%vd~{aolc

~dclxgao{bgv/

Kato{dcca~ bl{ l hddv {do{d ai ~d{vdkx ia~ xbd kcgdox loh bg{ ylctd{ ) had{ oax go low zlw

xl`d bge!bd~ ia~ j~loxdh ) el`d bge iddc goid~ga~ a~ go{tcxdh# kato{dccgoj lge{ lx xbd kcgdox{

{do{d ai {dci ~djl~h# kato{dccgoj {batch nd nl{dh ao V~gokgvcd ai D|tlcgxw/ Kato{dcca~{batch oax caa` hazo tvao xbd kcgdox{ ylctd{ ) ndcgdi{/

Kato{dccgoj g{ kaeegxxdh xa {dci%lkxtlcg{lxgao l{ l nl{gk btelo ylctd/ Gx lkkdvx{ xbd

zdl`od{{ ai elo ) xbd ~dlcgxw ai gohgyghtlc hgiid~dokd# oax l{ l blohgklv ntx l{ lo

avva~xtogxw ia~ elo xa cgyd l ea~d v~ahtkxgyd ) k~dlxgyd cgid/

Kato{dcca~ {batch oax xl`d xbd ~d{vao{gngcgxw ia~ xbd kcgdox{ kbagkd loh ndblygat~ loh xbd

kato{dcca~ ndcgdyd{ xblx xbd kcgdox g{ l{ goxdccgjdox l{ xbd kato{dcca~ loh xblx jgydo v~avd~

l{{g{xlokd xbd kcgdox zgcc nd lncd xa el`d ~lxgaolc kbagkd loh xl`d ~d{vao{gncd hdkg{gao{/

Dhtklxgao bl{ l ygxlc ~acd xa vclw# gx bl{ xa `gohcd xbd t~jd ia~ v~d{d~ygoj aod{ hgjogxw# xbg{

klooax drg{x zbd~d xbd~d g{ oa i~ddhae# zbd~d xbd~d g{ oa {dci%~djl~h ) zbd~d xbd~d g{ oa

~lxgaolcgxw/


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Oddh Ia~ Kato{dccgoj

Gx g{ x~td xblx xbd kaokdvx ai kato{dccgoj g{ kaevl~lxgydcw l odz aod go Gohgl/ Aod jdod~lxgao

lja xbd za~h kato{dccgoj zl{ tobdl~h ai/ Gx g{ lc{a x~td xblx xbd cgid{xwcd blyd kblojdh

kao{ghd~lncw go xbd vl{x idz hdklhd{ ) xbd~d g{ etkb ea~d v~d{{t~d xa vd~ia~e# kaevdxgxgao

g{ goxdo{giwgoj go lcc zlc`{ ai cgid/ Loh xbd~dia~d xbd~d g{ l bgjbd~ cdydc ai {x~d{{ ) {x~lgo/

Gx g{ {lgh xblx ~atoh xbd jcand# ea~d vdavcd ja xa ndh btoj~w ia~ `goh za~h xblo xbd otend~

ai vdavcd zba doh xbd hlw btoj~w ia~ iaah# g~~d{vdkxgyd ai zbdxbd~ zd l~d ~gkb a~ vaa~#

watoj a~ ach# bgjbcw kaevdxdox a~ edhgak~d# zd lcc oddh {aedaod zba g{ zgccgoj xa cg{xdo/

Xbd~d g{ hdigogxdcw l ylktte go xbd l~dl ai deaxgaolc {tvva~x xblx oddh{ xa nd itcigccdh go nw

lcc ai t{/

Dlkb aod ai t{ lx {aedxged a~ xbd axbd~ g{ kaoi~aoxdh zgxb v~ancde{ ai yl~gat{ hgedo{gao{#

xbdw j~az loh ~dkdhd loh {a had{ at~ kavgoj lngcgxw/ [aed ai t{ elw nd lncd xa kavd zgxb

kd~xlgo v~ancde{# zbgcd axbd~{ elw igoh xbde{dcyd{ xblx xbdg~ v~ancde g{ xaa etkb xa blohcd/

Kaox~gntxa~w ilkxa~{ ia~ xbd {xlxd ai liilg~{=

Xahlw dlkb aod ai t{ go {x~d{{/ At~ {akgdxw g{ oax lo drkdvxgao# xdkboacajgklc lhylokdedox#

bgjbd~ cgxd~lkw ~lxd# lengxgao xa lkbgdyd ea~d loh ea~d# elxd~glcg{xgk atxcaa` nw xbd {akgdxwzbgkb d|tlxd{ {tkkd{{ xa zdlcxb loh {xlxt{/ Bgjbd~ drvdkxlxgao{ i~ae axbd~{ katvcdh zgxb l

n~dl`hazo go xbd x~lhgxgaolc ilegcw {w{xde/ Go xbd{d kblojgoj xged{ dyd~w edend~ kaed{

baed iddcgoj vdox tv# bdokd zloxgoj xa vat~ atx ntx oa aod bl{ xbd xged a~ vlxgdokd xa cg{xdo/

Kaccdjd {xthdox{# xbd k~dle ai xbd {akgdxw loh xbd{d lhacd{kdox vavtclxgao{ l~d tohd~

x~dedohat{ v~d{{t~d l{ xbdw l~d drvdkxdh oax aocw xa {tkkddh ntx lc{a xa ndkaed xavvd~{ go

xbdg~ kcl{{ loh kat~{d/

Lhacd{kdokd=

Lhacd{kdox bl{ xa lkkdvx loh vd~ia~e hgiid~dox ~acd{ go l ~lxbd~ ba{xgcd loh tokaeia~xlncd l{

zdcc l{ hdelohgoj {akglc {gxtlxgao{ aod bl{ lk|tg~d l zghd ~lojd ai {akglc { gcc{ ia~

{tkkd{{itc eloljdedox/ Ai xbd{d xl{`{ ai tohd~{xlohgoj loh iaccazgoj {akglc oa~e{# xbd

gohgyghtlc oaz bl{ xa cdl~o l{ xa baz xa {lxg{iw xbd nl{gk loh axbd~ oddh{# cgyd l blvvw cgid

loh el`d v~aj~d{{ zgxbgo xbd i~ledza~` loh ~djtclxgao{ {dx nw {akgdxw/ Bd klooax cgyd go

g{aclxgao# loh bd bl{ xa mago xbd elgo{x~dle/

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Lhacd{kdox{ {batch nd lccazdh xa j~az lkka~hgoj xa xbdg~ azo goxd~d{x/ Lhacd{kdox{ zlox

i~ddhae ) lkxgygxgd{ xbdw zlox xa doxd~ goxa {vaoxlodat{ ~dclxgao{bgv{ zgxb axbd~ vd~{ao{/

Xbdw zlox xa nd vazd~itc ) lengxgat{/ Xbdw {baz l oddh ia~ liidkxgao ) lxxdoxgao# ~dmdkxdh

lhacd{kdox{ l~d cg`dcw xa dokatoxd~ hgiigktcxgd{ go elow zlw{/ L jaah baed elw ha jaah xa

bge ) l nlh baed elw liidkx bg{ {akglc ) edoxlc lhmt{xedox/ Loh xbd~dia~d bdlcxbw lxxgxthd{

go lhacd{kdokd l~d odkd{{l~w xa {xloh tv ndxxd~ xa ilkd xbd v~ancde ai xbd za~ch/

Aod ai xbd geva~xlox ilkxa~{ xblx liidkx xbd j~azxb ai lhacd{kdox{ vbw{gklccw )

v{wkbacajgklccw l~d vl~dox{/ Vl~dox{ l~d yd~w geva~xlox ilkxa~ go j~azxb ai lhacd{kdox{/ Xbdw

gobd~gx elow |tlcgxgd{ ai xbdg~ vl~dox{/ Vl~dox{ zba goktcklxd deaxgaolc iddcgoj ai jaahod{{ go

xbdg~ kbgch~do# {tkb kbgch~do cdl~o xa nd i~dd# i~lo`# loh baod{x ) lc{a cdl~o xa nd {vaoxlodat{

go xbdg~ ndblygat~/ Ntx# gi xbd vl~dox{ l~d kach ) ljj~d{{gyd xbd hdydcavedox ai lhacd{kdox{ g{

yd~w etkb liidkxdh ) {tkb lhacd{kdox{ zba l~d liidkxdh nw xbdg~ vl~dox{ ndblygat~ elw

zgxbh~lz a~ hdydcav ljj~d{{gyd |tlcgxgd{ ) lc{a hdydcav deaxgaolc xdo{gao/

Xbd vbgca{avbw ai cgid ai vl~dox{# xdlkbd~{ ) i~gdoh{ elw liidkx xbd zlw ai cgid ai

lhacd{kdox{/ Xbd vd~gah ai lhacd{kdokd g{ l vd~gah ai |td{xgaogoj# l vd~gah ai ~lxgaolcgxw ) gx

g{ l vd~gah ai {dci drlegolxgao/ Lhacd{kdox{ xdoh xa nd hddvcw ~lxgaolc ) cajgklc ) xbdw zlox

xa nd {kgdoxgigk go xbdg~ lolcw{g{ ai v~ancde{ ai xbd za~ch ) elw oax ~dlhgcw lj~dd zgxb xbd

{akglc v~lkxgkd ai ) k~thd {tvd~{xgxgao/

Kato{dccgoj go kaccdjd{=

[xthdox{ blyd ndkaed bgjb%~g{` j~atv loh hdydcavdh edoxlc bdlcxb v~ancde{ ndklt{d ai

{dyd~d kaevdxgxgao# bgjb drvdkxlxgao lnatx xbdg~ vd~ia~elokd go drlegolxgao# to~dlcg{xgk

hd{g~d{ xa jdx goxa kat~{d{ xa zbgkb xbdw ha oax blyd klvlkgxw/ Elow {xthdox{ drbgngx

deaxgaolc loh ndblygat~ v~ancde{ xbt{ va{goj l v~ancde xa xbdg~ vl~dox{ loh xdlkbd~{/

V{wkbglx~g{x{ kaevl~dh xa axbd~ edhgklc {vdkglcg{x{ l~d yd~w idz go at~ katox~w# xbd doxg~d

katox~w bl{ l~atoh xb~dd xbat{loh |tlcgigdh V{wkbglx~g{x{# ea{x ai xbde l~d kaokdox~lxdh go

t~nlo kdox~d{/ Xbdw igoh gx drx~dedcw hgiigktcx xa ha kato{dccgoj ia~ egoa~ tv{dx{ ndklt{d

xbdg~ xged g{ ylctlncd loh xbdw zatch ~lxbd~ kaokdox~lxd ao edoxlc gccod{{ loh go v~d{k~gngoj

edhgklxgao# it~xbd~# l yg{gx xa l V{wkbglx~g{x {xgcc kl~~gd{ l {xgjel go at~ {akgdxw/ Low vd~{ao

kao{tcxgoj l V{wkbglx~g{x g{ clndccdh l{ elh a~ go{lod g{ aixdo caa`dh tvao zgxb idl~ loh

{t{vgkgao/

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Aocw l idz kaccdjd{ v~ayghd kato{dccgoj {d~ygkd xb~atjb x~lgodh kato{dcca~{/ Xbd~dia~d

xdlkbd~{ blyd xa aiid~ bdcv loh kato{dccgoj {d~ygkd# xbd x~lgodh xdlkbd~{ l~d bdcvgoj xbd

{xthdox{ loh ~did~ {aed {xthdox{ zgxb {dyd~d v~ancde{ xa Edoxlc bdlcxb v~lkxgxgaod~{/

Lklhdegk v~ancde{ ai kaccdjd {xthdox{=

Elow xged{ go {vgxd ai klvlkgxw ) {`gcc{ {xthdox{ l~d {ddo blygoj l zghd yl~gdxw ai v~ancde#

~dclxdh xa xbdg~ cdl~ogoj ) {dkt~d jaah el~`{ go xbdg~ drlegolxgao# zbgkb g{ xbd wl~h{xgk` ai

vl~dox{ ) {akgdxw xa lvv~dkglxd a~ hdv~dkglxd xbd {xthdox{ zgxbatx xl`goj goxa lkkatox ai xbd

{xthdox{ axbd~ lkbgdydedox{/

Eloljdedox ai lklhdegk v~ancde{=

Diidkxgyd {xthw blngx{ cg`d l v~avd~ xgedxlncd ia~ {xthwgoj dlkb hlw go xbd {led vclkd go xbd

{led xged zbd~d xbd~d g{ oa hg{x~lkxgao cg`d X/Y# et{gk ) axbd~ hg{xt~nlokd{# dolncd{ xbd

{xthdox xa kaokdox~lxd ) tohd~{xloh a~ cdl~o |tgk`cw/ It~xbd~ xbd t{d ai hgkxgaol~w gok~dl{d{

oax aocw yaklntcl~w# ntx lc{a xbd gok~dl{d{ tohd~{xlohgoj klvlngcgxgd{ ) it~xbd~ gev~ayd{

{x~aoj ) diidkxgyd kaeetogklxgao {`gcc{/

Baz xa hdlc zgxb drlegolxgao{=

[tkkd{{ go drlegolxgao hdeloh{ xba~atjbcw vcloodh v~dvl~lxgao# tohd~{xloh ) ~dlkx go l

klce ) ~lxgaolc zlw ai lo{zd~goj xbd |td{xgao# zbgkb klo nd hdydcavdh nw xlk`cgoj v~dygat{

wdl~{ |td{xgao vlvd~{ ) ndgoj kaoighdox ao xbd hlw ai drlegolxgao ntx oax nd ayd~

kaoighdox/

^acd ai kaccdjd{ go v~aeaxgoj edoxlc bwjgdod=

Dyd~w xdlkbd~ bl{ l ~d{vao{gngcgxw ia~ {blvgoj ) goictdokgoj xbd {xthdox{ lxxgxthd xazl~h{ l

zbacd{aed vd~{aolcgxw loh xbd hdydcavedox ai dyd~w {xthdox {batch nd xbd itohledoxlc

anmdkxgyd/

Etkb klo nd haod xa v~aeaxd {xthdox{ zdcil~d/ Xbd {xthdox{ l~d xa nd elhd xa iddc xbd

kaccdjd lxea{vbd~d cg`d l baed lxea{vbd~d# zbd~dgo {xthdox{ atjbx xa nd elhd xa iddc {lid )

{dkt~d lx xbd kaccdjd l{ xbdw l~d go xbd baed/ Go l zlw xbd kaccdjd g{ xa nd kao{ghd~dh lo

docl~jdedox ai baed lxea{vbd~d# zbd~dgo {xthdox{ x~lgogoj j~atoh ia~ kaeetogxw cgygoj xa

lkbgdyd xbd txea{x i~ae bg{ lkxgygxgd{/ [xthdox{ et{x nd jgydo l {do{d ai ndcaojgoj xa xbd

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kaccdjd kaeetogxw ) bd et{x nd elhd xa iddc l vl~x ai gx mt{x l{ bd g{ elhd xa iddc bg{

ghdoxgigklxgao zgxb xbd ilegcw j~atv{/

Eaxgylxgao=

Jaah eaxgylxgao xa cdl~o g{ xbd `dw ilkxa~ ia~ low gohgyghtlc xa lvvcw aod{dci xa za~` bl~h

loh xa cdl~o low {tnmdkx/ Elow {xthdox{ elw oax blyd jaah eaxgylxgao# dgxbd~ goxd~olc a~

drxd~olc eaxgylxgao# vl~dox{# xdlkbd~{# kcl{{elxd{# ~dzl~h{ loh jaah man{ lkx cg`d drxd~olc

eaxgylxgaolc ilkxa~{/ Lk|tg~goj òazcdhjd oddh xa drkdc aod{dci go kaevdxgxgao# lzl~dod{{ ai

ylctd ai dhtklxgao go xbd vd~{aolcgxw hdydcavedox loh go xbd eloljdedox ai cgid dydox{ l~d

xbd goxd~olc eaxgylxgoj ilkxa~{/

Dyd~w {xthdox bl{ xa nd dokat~ljdh xa tohd~{xloh xbd ylctd ai xbd dhtklxgao loh domaw xbd

v~akd{{ ai cdl~ogoj/ Xbd lhacd{kdox{ {batch nd elhd òazo xblx òazcdhjd g{ vazd~#

zbgkb bdcv{ xbde xa {acyd xbdg~ v~ancde{ loh lxxlgo xbdg~ jalc{/

Anmdkxgyd{ ai Kato{dccgoj=

l' Gok~dl{d kcgdox{ lkkdvxlokd ai {dci kaoighdokd! {dci d{xdde/

n' El`d xbd kcgdox lzl~d bg{!bd~ iddcgoj{# lxxgxthd{# goxd~d{x# vaxdoxglc{ ) cgegxlxgao{/

k' Bdcv xbd kcgdox ayd~kaed hdv~d{{gao# caodcgod{{ ) lcgdolxgao/

h' Doblokd kcgdox{ kaeegxedox{ xa kblojd iltcxw lxxgxthd ) ndblygat~ ) v~dvl~d xa

xl`d itcc ~d{vao{gngcgxw ia~ {dci ) xbd lkxgao{/

d' Bdcv xbd kcgdox l~~gyd lx ) kbaa{d xbd hd{g~lncd ) ea{x lvv~av~glxd lcxd~olxgyd{ a~

lkxgao ) ndblygat~/

Kato{dccgoj g{ oax

Jgygoj lhygkd# aiid~goj {actxgao# Xl`goj kbl~jd ai {aedaod{ cgid a~ {gxtlxgao# ka~~dkxgoj a~

~dv~gelohgoj xbd z~aoj hddh{# {bazgoj vgxw xazl~h{ {aedaod go x~atncd/

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\tlcgxgd{ ai diidkxgyd ) lkkdvxlncd kato{dcca~=

Bd g{ lczlw{ lylgclncd dydo lx eghogjbx/

Bd cg{xdo{ zgxbatx goxd~~tvxgoj ) zgxbatx jgygoj low lhygkd/

Bd g{ oao%mthjdedoxlc

Bd jgyd{ wat geva~xlokd ) odyd~ dyd~ kaevl~d zgxb axbd~ ) had{ oax jdod~lcg{d wat~

v~ancde/

Bd bl{ goigogxd vlxgdokd/

Bd elgoxlgo{ kaoighdoxglcgxw lx lcc xged{ ) had{ oax hg{kca{d xbd vd~{ao{ v~ancde xa

axbd~{/

[xljd{ ai kato{dccgoj=

Kato{dccgoj v~akd{{ klo nd kcl{{gigdh goxa xb~dd elgo {xljd{=


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Lownahw zatch iddc nlh xa {dd` ) ~dkdgyd bdcv i~ae lo to`oazo vd~{ao# {gokd gx g{ l xb~dlx

xa bg{!bd~ {dci d{xdde ) {do{d ai gohdvdohdokd/ Hg{kt{{goj vd~{aolc v~ancde{ zgxb l xbg~h

vd~{ao g{ hgiigktcx/ Xbd kcgdox elw iddc xblx bg{ v~ancde{ l~d xaa tog|td xa nd tohd~{xaah nw

xbd kato{dcca~/ Xbg{ ~d|tg~d{ l cax ai eaxgylxgao ) zgccgojod{{ ai kato{dcca~ xa ayd~kaed xbd

nl~~gd~{# aokd xbd{d nl~~gd~{ l~d k~a{{dh# xbd ~dclxgao{bgv {xl~x{/ Xbd kato{dcca~ {batch blyd lo

avdo egoh ) bd {batch nd i~gdohcw ) goia~elc xa {xl~x xbd ~dclxgao{bgv# ntx bd {batch oax nd

xaa kl{tlc# bd {batch blyd jdotgod kaokd~o ia~ bg{ kcgdox{ zdccndgoj/

Eghhcd Vbl{d

Go xbg{ vbl{d lkxtlc v~ancde g{ hg{kt{{dh# xbd vlgoitc ) hddvd~ iddcgoj{ ai xbd kcgdox l~d

drv~d{{dh# xbd kato{dcca~ {xl~x{ l{`goj |td{xgao{ ) v~angoj hddvd~# lixd~ xbd kato{dcca~ jdx{

lhd|tlxd goia~elxgao i~ae xbd kcgdox nw goxdo{gyd cg{xdogoj dokat~ljd xbd kcgdox xa xlc` ea~d/

^dicdkxgao g{ lo geva~xlox {xdv# xbd kato{dcca~ {teel~g}d{ zblx bd bl{ an{d~ydh lnatx xbd

xbatjbx{# iddcgoj{ ) deaxgao{ ai xbd kcgdox/ Xbd kcgdox xbt{ jdx{ l kcdl~d~ ygdz ai bg{ azo

xbatjbx{ ) iddcgoj{ ) xbg{ zgcc bdcv bge hdlc zgxb xbde go l ndxxd~ zlw# kcgdox hdydcav{

kaoighdokd ) ndkaed{ ea~d i~gdohcw/ Lx xbg{ {xljd# xbd kato{dcca~ {blcc jgyd tokaohgxgaolc

{tvva~x xa xbd kcgdox# xbd kato{dcca~ {batch jgyd va{gxgyd {x~a`d{ xa xbd kcgdox# vagox atx bg{

jaah |tlcgxgd{ ) dokat~ljd bge nw jgygoj bge ea~lc {tvva~x ) lc{a jgyd drlevcd{ ai axbd~{

zba blh lc{a ilkdh {gegcl~ {gxtlxgao ) eloljdh xa ayd~kaed xbde/

Dohgoj Vbl{d

Go {aed kl{d gx g{ mt{x l {gojcd {d{{gao loh go {aed kl{d{ {d{{gao{ kaoxgotd{ ia~ elow zdd`{

a~ eaoxb{/ Xbd {d{{gao{ doh go aod ai xbd{d zlw{=

Zbdo xbd jalc{ l~d lkbgdydh a~ xbd k~g{g{ ~d{acydh a~ zbdo xbd kcgdox ~d|tg~d{ ~did~~lc a~ zbdo

xbd kcgdox iddc{ xblx xbd~d g{ oa oddh ia~ xbd {d{{gao{ xa kaoxgotd l{ bd!{bd g{ iddcgoj ndxxd~ a~

zbdo xbd kato{dcca~ iddc{ xblx xbd kcgdox g{ go l va{gxgao xa blohcd xbd {gxtlxgao ndxxd~/

^did~~lc=

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Zbdo xbd kato{dcca~ iddc{ golhd|tlxd a~ xblx bd had{ oax blyd xbd drvd~gdokd xa {acyd xblx

v~ancde# zbdo kato{dccgoj g{ oax jdxxgoj ~d{tcx{ ) kcgdox ~d|tg~d{ v~aid{{gaolc bdcv i~ae l

v{wkbglx~g{x# xbd clw kato{dcca~ ~did~ xbd kcgdox xa lo drvd~x/

Cgid {`gcc{ dhtklxgao=

ZBA bl{ ~dkaeedohdh xbd iaccazgoj ' V^ANCDE [ACYGOJ=

l' Nl{gk {xdv{ ia~ v~ancde {acygoj

n' Jdod~lxgoj {actxgao{ xa hgiigktcx v~ancde{ a~ hgcdeel{

k' Kaoicgkx ~d{actxgao{/

;' K^DLXGYD XBGO@GOJ=

l' Hdydcavgoj klvlkgxgd{ xa xbgo` go k~dlxgyd zlw{/

n' Jdod~lxgoj odz ghdl{ lnatx xbgoj{ xblx l~d xl`do j~loxdh/

k' Lhlvxgoj xa kblojgoj kg~kte{xlokd{/

8' K^GXGKLC XBGO@GOJ=

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l' Cdl~ogoj xbd nl{gk v~akd{{ go k~gxgklc xbgo`goj/

n' El`goj anmdkxgyd mthjdedox{ lnatx kbagkd ) ~g{`{/

k' ^d{g{xgoj edhgl goictdokd ao lxxgxthd xazl~h{ {ea`goj ) lckabac/

4' DIIDKXGYD KAEETOGKLXGAO=

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k' Kl~goj ai vdavcd/

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k' Kavgoj zgxb deaxgaolc hg{x~d{{/


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