May 2010 Senior Living Magazine Vancouver Edition

PLANNED GIVING EDITION

Celebrating Donors and Doers

Volunteer &Entrepreneur

Vancouver’s 50+ Active Lifestyle Magazine

MAY 2010

Better to Give

Patricia Whittaker

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50+ Canadians lead the way in helping others and being strongly connected to community.

5 Better to GiveWhether it’s time or money, people grateful for their own lives enjoy giving back.

8 Types of Charitable Gifts Donating to charity isn’t just about handing over cash; fi nd out other ways to make an impact.

10 Keyed Up for the Piano Passionate about music since childhood, Ellen Weiser returns to the piano a little wiser.

14 Scenic SeattleA hop, skip and a jump away, Seattle offers interest above and below ground.

16 Go North Young ManAside from its obvious beauty, northern British Columbia is steeped in culture and tradition.

22 A Glimpse of YesteryearKay Green returns to the old Vancouver Island sawmill that played the backdrop to her life.

24 A Woman of Infi nite VarietyWhatever the arena, Patricia Whittaker gets involved to affect change in her community.

30 Swifter, Higher, StrongerVolunteer Barbara Ellsworth went to Olympic lengths to be a part of the Games.

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to refill their cup on a regular basis. Bringing more joy and lightness into the caregiving situation has a positive impact on both the caregiver and the person receiving care. There are proven physiological benefits to play and laughter, such as stress reduction, lowered blood pressure, a boosted immune system and improved brain function.

Vince encourages family caregivers to ask themselves the following questions:

Where might you initiate more joy and playfulness in your life and when caregiving?

What is it you love to do, but don’t make time for any-more? What energizes you?

When the person you are caring for becomes playful or joking, do you play along? Can you see some of the humour in your situation?

How might you do things differently, if you saw your care recipient as a creative and resourceful person and you began “caring with” them rather than “caring for” them?

So laugh, have more fun and remember playing isn’t just for kids.

Next month: Travel Tips for Family Caregivers

Barbara Small is the Program Development Coordinator for Family Caregivers’ Network Society located in Victoria, BC. www.familycaregiversnetwork.org

BY BARBARA SMALL

THE FAMILY

CAREGIVERRemembering

to Play

Caregiving is both emotionally and physically de-manding. Caregivers typically ignore their own needs and focus their attention and energy on the

care recipient. They let go of activities, hobbies and inter-ests that are joyful and energizing for them. Even spending time with friends can be forgotten. This unbalance can lead to burnout and impacts the amount and quality of care that the caregiver can provide. To avoid this, it is essential for family caregivers to remember to take time for themselves, to have fun and remember to play.

Life Coach Vince Gowmon’s “work” is to help others bring more play, lightness and joy into their lives. Vince helps fam-ily caregivers recognize how play is a cornerstone to effective caregiving because it reminds caregivers to embrace self-care and levity. Play can help enhance the relationship between the caregiver and the care recipient when time is taken to initiate fun activities, respond in a more playful way and change up the “usual routine.”

Vince views play as a lifestyle choice rather than simply a series of activities. It means creating a more open life with a “Yes, and” attitude (open to possibilities) rather than creating blocks with a “Yes, but” attitude (excuses and limitations). It involves being flexible and receptive to what life brings.

Many people were raised to live life the “the right way” – work hard, live by a lot of shoulds and musts and use the logical side of their brain only. We stop being spontaneous, lose our creativity and don’t trust our intuition when making choices or decisions.

Family caregivers are used to putting everyone else first and getting lost in the demands of caregiving. Then they burn out. Remembering to play gives caregivers an opportunity

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According to a report released by Statistics Can-ada, those who give the most are more likely to be older. They volunteer more hours per person

than any other age group, and the majority of those who volunteered said they responded because of an advertise-ment they read.

Throughout the years of publishing Senior Living, we’ve come to understand these statistics first hand. As we’ve written about the lives and achievements of older people, it is more common than not to discover that these people are strongly connected to their communities and exhibit a deep desire to help others in some fashion.

It is for this reason that our May magazine contains a “planned giving” editorial feature and an invitation from a number of charities to consider them as worthy candidates for your charitable dollars.

As government tightens the purse strings, private citi-zens have become the lifeblood of many non-profit organi-zations. Their continued contributions are keeping the doors of many charities open, and ensuring important causes con-tinue to move forward.

Some have thoughtfully included their favourite cause as a beneficiary in their will or estate plan. In doing so, they will continue to make a difference in the lives of those that follow. This has come to be known as “leaving a legacy.”

These legacies ensure research continues in the effort to eradicate diseases, buildings continue to be built to house the impoverished, stray and unwanted animals continue to be fed and adopted, kids from low-income families con-tinue to go to camp – and the list goes on.

What particular cause pulls at your heartstrings? This month, take some time to find out how you can make a dif-ference, not just today but ongoing.

Here are more of the findings discovered by Statistics Canada:

Those who give the most are more likely than others to be older.

Although donors with higher household incomes tend to donate larger amounts in absolute terms, those with lower

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Our Readers Are Among Those Most Likely To Give

»incomes give more when their donations are expressed as a percentage of total income.

The most frequently reported motivations for making do-nations were feeling compassion for those in need, wanting to help a cause in which the donor personally believes, and wanting to make a contribution to the community.

Donors also give because they or someone they know has been personally affected by the cause of the organiza-tion or because of religious beliefs.

The reasons most frequently reported for volunteering were to make a contribution to the community, to use skills and experiences, and having been personally affected by the cause the organization supports.

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were to explore strengths, to network with or meet people, or because friends volunteered.

Volunteers also identified a number of benefits that they received from their activities. The most common benefits were the development of interpersonal skills, communications skills and orga-nizational or managerial skills.

Generally, the likelihood of giving tends to increase with age, with the do-nation rate rising from a low of 71 per cent for 15 to 24 year olds to highs of 89 per cent for those 45 to 54 and 88 per cent for those 55 and over.

A similar pattern exists for average donations, which were lowest among 15 to 24 year olds ($142) and peaked at $611 for those over 65.

Canada’s top donors – the 25 per cent who donated at least $364 and ac-counted for 82 per cent of all donated dollars – are an essential source of rev-enue for many charitable and nonprofit organizations.

These donors tend to be older, to have higher household incomes, and to have more formal education. They also are more likely to be employed, widowed, and to attend religious ser-vices on a weekly basis.

The likelihood of being a top donor increases with age. For example, 31 per cent of those who are over 65 were in the top donor category, compared to only 6 per cent of 15 to 24 year olds.

The 65 and older top donor group made up only 5 per cent of the total population but contributed 20 per cent of the total value of all donations.

There are a number of personal and economic characteristics that distin-guish those individuals who are most likely to volunteer and who volunteer the greatest number of hours from oth-ers.

Higher levels of volunteering are associated with increased age, higher levels of education and household in-come, being employed and having children in the household.

Generally speaking, the likelihood

of volunteering decreases with age while the number of hours volunteered increases.

Fifty-eight per cent of 15 to 24 year olds volunteered, compared to 36 per cent of those 65 and over. However, those 65 and over volunteered an aver-age of 218 hours while 15 to 24 year olds volunteered an average of only 138 hours.

Just under half of volunteers (45 per cent) said they approached an or-ganization on their own initiative to become involved as a volunteer, while 48 per cent were asked to volunteer by someone.

Those who approached the organi-zation on their own learned about the volunteer opportunity in a variety of ways – 14 per cent said they became involved because they responded to an advertisement such as a poster or in a newspaper, three per cent responded to a public appeal on TV or radio, 3 per cent learned about it on the Internet, and two per cent were referred by an-other agency.

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Better To Give

BY KEVIN MCKAY

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Seventy-six-year-old Keith Quan landed in Canada in 1950 happy to arrive at the Golden Mountain, but dismayed to discover he had to work hard to attain

the wealth he thought would come easy. Keith and his family have donated money to a number of charities over the years.

“I always support the Heart Fund because my dad died of problems with his heart so that has special meaning for me,” he says. “I also like to give to the Children’s Hospital and the Cancer Society.”

After his retirement, Keith found another way to give by donating some time to SUCCESS, which helps new immi-grants fill out forms and improve their English.

“When I taught my classes, the students enjoyed it so much. That’s how I got the satisfaction out of it,” he says. “They liked what I was doing and I enjoyed doing it.”

Unable to maintain a weekly teaching schedule, Keith still volunteers with other projects and says, “I told them to call me if I can be useful to them.”

Involved with a number of charities over the years, a unique opportunity was presented to Alf Webb of Mill Bay and his business partner Ralph Cleasby.

“I’m a real estate developer. A fellow came up with the idea of building a spec house with the profit going to char-ity, and Ralph and I took the idea and ran with it,” says Alf. “We received significant help and support from the entire Cowichan Valley community for the project and decided the proceeds would go to Canuck Place. We wound up making $80,000 on the deal and donating it all to Canuck Place. It was a great feeling to be able to do this and it was the most significant charitable cause I have ever been involved with.”

Lucy Prentice is another supporter of Canuck Place, a fa-cility that opened its doors in November 1995 as the first free-standing children’s hospice in North America. Now rec-ognized worldwide as a leader in the field of palliative care,




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Canuck Place relies on the generosity of donors, in-cluding people like Lucy. Though she and her twin sister were born in Winnipeg over 92 years ago, they moved to Vancouver at such a young age, she con-siders herself a native British Columbian.

Canuck Place is currently building a second lo-cation in Abbotsford, but Lucy remains loyal to the original hospice.

“The hospice in Shaughnessy is my baby,” she says. “They always need something and when I choose to help, I want to know it will be there. Ev-ery August, they host a huge fundraising night with about 450 guests and they take over an entire floor of a hotel with an excellent dinner, entertainment, a silent auction and a live auction, if you want to bid on anything.”

Every year at the dinner, Lucy makes up her mind to purchase something that they need at Canuck Place.

“Last year, it came to my attention that the old stove in the place had been in use for so long it was becoming potentially dangerous. I donated $10,000 towards a new commercial stove with two ovens and all the bells and whistles. The staff hosted a lun-cheon in my honour at Canuck Place and presented me with a special chef’s apron and a beautiful bou-quet of flowers. They told me I had done more for them than any other individual donor.”

Lucy has another plan to help the hospice out. She has taken out a large life insurance policy with Ca-nuck Place.

“As far as I know, I am the only person who has one of these policies with them. Once every year, I pay a premium and I get a tax credit on half of the premium amount when I file my taxes. I have named

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Canuck Place as the beneficiary and, when I die, the insur-ance company will pay them out.”

Lucy has her own special reasons for choosing Canuck Place as the beneficiary.

“My twin sister had two children, a boy and a girl. My niece died when she was seven years old of a disease some-what akin to leukemia. It was a very tragic and sad time in our family,” says Lucy. “Some years later, I had some dear friends

who lost their child to leuke-mia at the age of six. These deaths got me concerned about help-ing children’s charities. I was searching

around for a charity to give to when one of my brothers-in-law told me about Canuck Place. I read up on them and we went to see them together and I haven’t been sorry since. It is an excellent cause and I don’t regret helping one bit.”

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Tangible Property – artwork, furniture, equipment, collections, automobiles, musical instruments, artifacts, certified historic structures; Donor is receipted for fair market value, 50 per cent of gain is taxable but offset by tax credit from donation.

Charitable Remainder Trust – cash, securities and real estate; Donor receives net income from property for life or a term of years; may be receipted for present value of the remainder inter-est issued at time trust is established; Property is not subject to probate.

Residual Interest in Real Estate or Artwork – principle resi-dence, other real estate, artwork; Donor is able to continue us-ing property for life or term of years, can receive a receipt for present value of residual interest issued at time of gift. Donor avoids tax on a portion of capital gain if they retain life interest. Property is not subject to probate.

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I have always loved music. Musical notes scattered on a page fascinate me. Along with the joy, however, there is also frustration. My almost 60-year-old hands and

slightly-past-middle-age mind sometimes have difficulty synchronizing and creating the sound the composer had in mind when a particular piece was written.

The piano has been blessed with a celebrated past, a mag-nificent present and a glorious future, a work of art that does the music of the four Bs (Beethoven, Brahms, Bach and the Beatles) incredibly proud.

My parents believed that their eight-year-old daughter had enough musical desire to warrant the expense of piano les-sons. They were offered after school every week at the exor-bitant cost of $2 apiece.

I was petite, though you’d never think it to look at me now. As a result, I only had to concentrate on the keyboard, since the pedals were so far from my feet. They wouldn’t become an issue until I finally had a growth spurt.

I still recall the red John Thompson piano book and the gold stars my teacher, Mrs. Cowan, placed beside each piece I managed to play with a minimum of mistakes. I would proud-ly carry my music dictation book (lined on one side, music staff on the other) and my “John Thompson” back and forth, week after week, dreaming of one day being able to play as well as Mrs. Cowan.

To purchase a piano, however, used or otherwise, was more than my parents could manage. A piano? They could barely afford the air I breathed. And so, I would practise at my friend Miriam’s, a couple of houses away. We shared our practice time, and then the inevitable happened - Miriam and her piano moved away. And with that, my lessons ended. How incon-siderate, I thought! Did she have no concern for my feelings? I could’ve been the next, well, the next someone.

Though my lessons ended abruptly, my love of music con-tinued. The desire to learn never subsided. When I reached Grade 6, I discovered I had a decent singing voice. I was cer-tainly no threat to Streisand, but I was able to carry a tune.

My Danesbury debut, as I like to call it, in reference to my elementary school, plus wanting to throw in alliteration wherever possible, was a semi-decent version of “Getting To Know You” with my dear friend, Bernice, whose musical skills I envied.

With the transition from Grade 6 to Grade 7 came anoth-er opportunity for musical renewal. The junior high school music program had an interesting way of deciding how stu-dents would participate. The level of one’s vocal expertise

determined which group of instruments he or she would be assigned. For example, students who sang well were placed in Strings, followed by Band and, for some unknown rea-son, those who were not good singers were placed in Vocal. Go figure!

I was assigned to the Strings group and chose to play violin; again, my small stature was an issue. Although the viola produced a beautiful sound, I did not have the proper dexterity. There was also the added panic of having to learn an alto clef when I knew that the “treble” was more than enough “trouble.” As for the cello and bass, the thought of playing an instrument that towered over me didn’t, shall we say, sit well.

I’m sure that world-renowned violinist Itzhak Perlman didn’t lose much sleep over my talent. However, we do share the same birthdate and that’s where the similarity ends. I did fairly well with the violin and enjoyed it immensely. Bernice and I were half of a string quartet, and we would practise dur-ing lunch and any other time we could squeeze it in.

I cannot account for the reason why my musical involve-ment stopped at that point and didn’t continue until twenty years later.

By 1985, I was married with a daughter who was three at the time of my next musical go-around. Again, I ven-tured into the world of piano lessons, this time including a course in Royal Conservatory of Music theory. My teacher, Anna, thought I should write the exams, which, if success-ful, would give me lovely certificates, as the saying goes,

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suitable for framing.I took her advice. However, this time I wasn’t a petite

eight-year-old. I was surrounded by children whose feet, like mine at the single digit age, had difficulty reaching the floor.

While I tried my utmost to fit practicing into my already tight schedule, my three-year-old decided I should be devot-ing my time to her. She expressed this to me in her subtle way. Whenever I would practise, she would take my hands off the keyboard. Perhaps she knew something I didn’t.

Not being one to give up easily, I am proud to say that I am yet again at the piano, taking lessons every other week. While struggling with one particular piece, my teacher, Kath-leen, asked me, “So, where is it that you’re having the most trouble?” I answered, “Somewhere between the first key sig-nature and the double bar line at the end of the page.”

“That’s the whole song,” she replied. “Correct.”My theory is that anyone can play what’s on the page. It

takes a unique talent to play something other than what’s written there.

The most exciting part is that I am composing. I’m realistic enough to know chances are slim that I’ll be taking my place among past and present musical giants. Not to worry. Whether it’s playing the standards of Tin Pan Alley or turning blank pieces of paper into Tin Pan wannabees, in the words of lyri-cist Fred Ebb, I’m having a “perfectly marvellous” time!

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“Harry, let me tell you something, when two guys are having a beer and one guy says, ‘Harry, how you doin’?’ the correct answer is, ‘Not bad. You?’

“So, you got married since I saw you last, huh? I wished you’d talked to me first.”

Okay, so that was not my response to Harry’s near-death experience. I was stunned. And I was grateful that while most victims die from this horrible in-fection or spend the rest of their lives on a machine, Harry walked out of that hospital and is fit enough today to throw batting practice in the Inter-County League.

I was so happy that my friend Harry had cheated death, that I offered to do something I detest almost as much as streptococcal toxic shock syndrome it-self. I agreed to play golf.

I weaseled out of actually playing, of course, but I did emcee Harry’s char-ity golf tournament, Play It Forward; we raised $10,000 for the people who saved his life. It was no surprise that the only organ this wretched disease didn’t go near was Harry’s heart.

As I conducted the live auction, Harry barked a medley of Frank Sina-tra’s songs in the background. And we made a deal. First, we’re going to keep in touch and see each other a lot more. And second, whenever we meet and I ask him how he’s doing, he’s promised to reply, “Not bad. You?”

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“NOT BAD. YOU?”

BY WILLIAM THOMAS

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So I said, “Harry, how you doin’?”

Harry Muir of Delaware, Ontario, was a promising pitcher in the Toronto Blue Jays organization when he was featured in a film I wrote more than a dozen years ago called Chasing The Dream.

Harry stood out from the crowd of kids trying to throw and hit their way into major league baseball, not so much for his arm but his heart.

So, Harry calls me out of the blue last spring to get together over a beer. Oh, and I forgot to mention Harry’s other natural talent – barking like a dog.

The Baby Jays were playing in Utica the season we had the cameras on them and it was my job to get local colour into the film – the guy who remembered Babe Ruth barnstorming through New York State; the guy who drove Mickey Mantle to Oneonta for Mickey Mantle Day and blew his six-pack budget in the first ten miles...

The Utica ballpark manager had no such gems, but he did have a dog – the only season-ticket-holding dog in all of baseball.

And there he was, chasing foul balls and making a noisy nuisance of himself – Prince – a large, badly coiffed, beige French Poodle. But he had his season ticket secured to his collar to validate his unique status.

Except, on this day, Prince was to-tally out of control because another dog had breached his territory and was threatening his claim to fame.

It turns out Harry Muir was barking from the visitors’ dugout and driving Prince berserk. When a groundskeeper

was sent to the field to apprehend the new dog, the one without a season tick-et, everybody agreed Harry had a better bark than Prince.

We met in the bar of my hotel, and it was terrific to see Harry again. So I said, “Harry, how you doin’?”

And Harry said, “Well, eight months ago I had this sore throat and I felt dizzy. My wife was at work, so my dad drove me to the hospital, and all of a sudden, they’re running me into the trauma room and everybody is in a panic, and they hook me up to about 10 machines and they’re shooting drugs into me from every direction.”

Even before testing his blood, a bril-liant diagnosis by Dr. Mithu Sen had her staff treating Harry for streptococcal toxic shock syndrome. That one doesn’t eat flesh, but is usually fatal.

“So, all my organs shut down and now I’m on dialysis and there’s some talk of amputation, but then forget the amputation because now they’re think-ing I’m not going to make it anyway and I go into a coma, so I don’t know what’s going on.”

What was going on was a ‘round-the-clock love-in with his parents by his side, his sister decorating the room with funny plastic flowers and his wonder-ful wife Tracey, placing a framed photo of Harry in his Blue Jays uniform right on the bedside table where he’d see it if – when – he woke up.

“And after 18 days in a coma, I came to, my organs had started working again and they took me off the ventilator. And I lived, Bill, I lived!”

And I said, “Harry, it’s always about you, isn’t it?”

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love are works of peace. God bless you.” –Mother Theresa

Research has shown that there are people who do not have the innate ability to see or identify with others in their dilemmas. How unfortunate for them that they are void of the inti-macy of empathy.

“Empathy is probably hardwired, because it serves two important sur-vival functions: bonding between people, and predicting others’ needs and actions; but, it may be tempered by experience and learning.” –Dr. Ta-nia Singer

Empathy is a contribution, which comes at a high price to those who possess it. Given unconditionally, it has no monetary value, except kind-ness paid forward.

lers on this journey. If we didn’t identify at this deep level, we would be cold and hard-hearted, unable to be moved by other people’s misfortune.

A well-known woman witnessed men and women, even young children, dying in the streets, rejected by local hospitals. She felt the pain they suf-fered and decided to dedicate the rest of her life serving the poorest of the poor. With a few helpers, she founded a home for the dying, so that she could care for the poor and lonely destitute people, re-gardless of whether they were dying of AIDS or leprosy.

For over 50 years, she worked self-lessly helping the poor, and earned the name “Saint of the Gutters.” Later, when people asked what made her hap-py, she said her greatest joy was to care for the poor in the last stretch of their earthly journey, so they were able to die in peace and with dignity.

She told her followers: “Keep the joy of loving the poor and share this joy with all you meet. Remember works of

Doreen Barber is pursuing a Master’s degree in Biblical Counselling at the The Biblical Life College & Seminary.

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Empathy is a gift we all want to receive in times of need. It is a soothing balm when

applied to emotional pain. Identifi-cation with emotions that others are experiencing brings with it under-standing and a desire to support the one we identify with. Most of us can empathize because of a similar situa-tion in our lives and we recall those feelings of hurt, hopelessness, disil-lusionment, pain, desperation, disbe-lief and depression. This deep inner knowledge enables us to express our feelings with sincerity.

The old adage about not under-standing someone else’s problems until you have walked a mile in his or her shoes is a profound truth. I agree with King Solomon that there is nothing new under the sun. Similar problems confront us all. They may vary depending on culture, race, reli-gion and ethnicity, but life always has its challenges. Empathy is one of the ways we identify with fellow travel-

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“We’re rotating at 500 feet (170 metres) above ground level

and, on a clear day, you can see all the way to the Cascade foothills,” claims Colleen Foster, who obviously knows the facts. She should. She’s been shar-ing them for 20 years with visitors like us, who dine at Seattle’s SkyCity Res-taurant.

The 360-degree-view venue, housed below the Space Needle’s observatory, is the perfect spot to graze and gaze – even tonight, when clouds drape the “Emerald City” with a mystical veil.

We dine on wild king salmon and Togarashi-crusted tuna and, while going full circle over the next 50 minutes, spot a number of landmarks we’ve recently visited.

There’s Argosy Cruises, a harbour-side company that boasts a flotilla of narrated tour boats, the Seattle Aquari-um offering close encounters of the sea critter kind, and the famous Pike Place Market where vendors sell wares from monster-size tiger prawns to bountiful bouquets.

In between courses, we rotate past

the downtown core. Burgeoning high-rises soar skyward and create a scenic cosmopolitan skyline, and just a few blocks beyond is our temporary home-stead. The elite Pan Pacific Hotel Seat-tle has provided us with the best of both worlds.

Although we’ve had the city at our fingertips, we’ve been far enough away to escape the inevitable crowds. During our stay, we’ve lounged in an oversized guest suite, been spoiled by a personal steward, and enjoyed pampering at the Vida Spa. What more could a couple of Seattle sightseers ask for? Yes, a little more sunshine would be nice.

Anyone familiar with the Pacific Northwest knows how much it rains, and during these frequent spells, it just makes sense to retreat indoors. Seattle certainly provides many opportunities.

As well as consuming enough caf-feine to own shares in Starbucks, we’ve been immersed in this city’s eclectic culture. Not only is it the birthplace of grunge (a raucous music mix founded in the ’90s), but Seattle also has the great-est number of dance, theatre and music

options per capita in the country. With a choice of 80 live clubs, 15 orchestras and 29 professional theatres, we’ve been culture-sized!

During our visit to Experience Mu-sic Project (EMP), I even felt like a rock star! It’s impossible to spot this venue from our scenic perch as it hugs up to other Seattle Centre attractions at the base of the Space Needle, but you can’t miss it when you’re on land. The 140,000-square-foot (42,672-square-metre) architectural wonder resembles a humongous glitzy guitar, and inside there are enough interactive opportuni-ties to appease any aspiring musician. Even me!

We craned our necks while check-ing out Roots and Branches, a cyclone-shaped, instrument-clad sculpture, and retraced the “Evolution of Sound” with Jimi Hendrix – right back to the ’60s, when Purple Haze had nothing to do with the weather.

But, in my mind, we saved the best part for last. Much of the third floor is

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dedicated to budding artists. And no, you don’t need to be American Idol-worthy to get a piece of this limelight. By moving from sound lab to demo, you can try out various instruments and before you know it, you’ll be onstage singing, “I Will Re-member You” with Sarah McLachlan. Okay, so maybe your story will be differ-ent.

By the time dessert is ordered, we’re rounding our second lap of the city and in the distance we can see Pioneer Square, where we’d submerged beneath the streets earlier in the day.

Bill Speidel’s Underground Tour is a combo of historical tidbits and tongue-in-cheek comedy, and as well as learning about Seattle’s colourful past and seedy seamstresses, we found out why and how the town was raised. Literally! As well as being absurdly interesting, it was an effec-tive way to stay dry.

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wonders the northern part of the province has to offer. From ancient lava beds to First Nations villages with small

fish pegged on clotheslines to dry; to daring spear fishermen, who can be viewed from the highway, risking their lives on rocky overhangs, Northern British Columbia waits to be ex-perienced.

The Big Circle Route, which takes travellers north from Vancouver through Prince George to Prince Rupert and then westward on the ferry across to Vancouver Island and south down the Island to the ferry and home should be on every-one’s to-do list.

After driving east through the fertile Fraser Valley and cattle country in the Cariboo, we fill the tank in Cache Creek so we don’t have to stop until we reach Quesnel. From Quesnel to Prince George is only 125km, but is a bit daunting when we see the road undulating for kilometres ahead. With over 600km behind us, we stay overnight in Quesnel before heading for Prince George.

Often referred to as the Capital of the North, Prince George is the home of the University of Northern British Columbia.

A lively multi-racial town of 80,000 people, it was incor-porated in l915 and is located at the confluence of the Fraser and Nechako Rivers.

The car gears down to climb a very long hill when we leave Prince George and head north. We look ahead to an ex-citing day following the Buckley and Skeena Rivers. If we’re lucky, we may see black bear cubs cavorting beside the road or timid fawns and their doe-eyed mums watching nervously as we drive by.

From here to the coast is where we want to linger longer. We pass through Vanderhoof, Fraser Lake and Burns Lake, small communities each with its own charm. Every small town along the Yellowhead 16 Highway lays claim to one or

more activities, which makes them stand out from the rest – a winter carnival or an annual farmer’s market in the summer.

Next, Topley and Houston appear on the horizon, towns known for ranching and logging. The population of both towns was increased 100-fold by American immigrants during the l960s, and now many of them own huge tracts of land in the area.

After taking a walk-about in Topley, we continue north and arrive in Smithers, a town that began life in l915 as regional headquarters for the Grand Trunk Pacific Railway, now the CNR. The town is headquarters to many government agen-cies and regional businesses. Located about half way between Prince George and Prince Rupert, it hosts many cultural events and big-ticket music festivals.

After having a bite to eat in Smithers, we make a turn to the west to see fascinating places where the interest of most southerners mounts. The scenery in every direction is a photog-rapher’s delight as we drive toward Moricetown, a First Nations village, oddly bisected by the highway. On our right – almost close enough to touch – we see an Aboriginal spear fisherman balancing on a rocky ledge over the Bulkley River waiting to impale an unsuspecting salmon. Our hearts are in our mouths in case he misjudges his footing and plunges into the swirling white water below, but he and his ancestors have been honed in the art of spear fishing for many generations. He catches a 10-15-pound (4.5-6.8 kg) salmon while we watch.

Shaking our heads in amazement, we continue on to the three Hazeltons: South Hazelton, New Hazelton and just plain Hazelton. And right here is a sight to behold! We must drive across the one-way bridge over a canyon at Hagwilget (with the rushing river 262-feet (80 m) straight down at low water) to reach Hazelton and the reconstructed historic First Nation village of ‘Ksan.

The narrow bridge was originally created by the native in-habitants by lashing cedar vines together and the story goes that the men made their women cross the bridge first to see if it was

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safe enough for them to cross.The bridge has undergone many transi-

tions over its long life. One interesting and true story is that before the trans-Atlantic cable was successfully laid in l866, an en-terprising man by the name of Perry Mc-Donough Collins, funded by the U.S. gov-ernment, attempted to lay a cable called the Collins Overland Telegraph Route. His plan was to hang the wire on poles right from San Francisco, north through B.C. and Alaska and over the Bering Strait to Russia and thence onwards to Europe. His crews had reached the area around where the Hazeltons are now located. When Col-lins got word that the trans-Atlantic Cable had been successfully laid, it immediately rendered his huge endeavour obsolete. Totally discouraged, he abandoned many coils of copper wire, which the local First Nations people put to good use strengthen-ing their original vine bridge. It was many years before the government of the day upgraded the hanging structure and now, with the latest improvements finished in 2003, the bridge is completely sound. But looking down as we cross, we are still re-lieved to safely reach the other side.

Before we continue north, we linger awhile at the Hazeltons and ‘Ksan. The whole village of ‘Ksan is a replica of an authentic early First Nations village com-plete with long house, totem poles and carvers perfecting their art. We watch while a totem pole takes shape and even try our hand with an adze. We spend quite a bit of time here absorbing the Native cul-ture and marvel at the survival of peoples like the Gitksan and Wet’suwet’en who, for an estimated 7,000 years, thrived here in the winter snows with their two main-stays of cedar and salmon.

We have coffee on the main street in Hazelton with views of magnificent Mount Roche de Boule and an old timer bends our ears with wild stories about the past.

He tells us the story of “back when” Ladies of the Night took up residence in South Hazelton so they could service the

Left, The Buckley River Bridge on the Yellowhead highway near Houston.


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Hazelton, where the Skeena and Bulkley Rivers clash, and try to maintain dominance, was the terminus for the riverboats ply-ing the Skeena with supplies for railway crews, Collins Over-land Telegraph workers and miners, plus a few settlers. By l914, when the railway began operating, the land opened up and the riverboat’s heyday was over. Sto-ries are told of competitive riv-erboat captains who tried to beat each other to Hazelton once the Skeena ice broke. It became such a race that, at one point, gunfire was heard from the riverbanks.

Reluctantly, we leave the Ha-zeltons and get back on the road. We head for the First Nations vil-lage of Kitwanga, where we can take a truly less travelled road to Cranberry Junction and north to the Alaska Highway, but not on this trip.

Terrace, originally known as the Pole Capital of the World, brags access to a revitalized land via a road now known as The Nisga’a Highway. Formerly the Nass Logging Road, it eventu-ally joins – at Cranberry Junction – the road running north from Kitwanga.

But more importantly for us is the drive up this highway in the new Nisga’a territory to the historic village of New Aiyansh. The road traverses the Nisga’a Memorial Lava Bed Park, an area dot-ted with grotesquely shaped trees and shrubs. The lava is residue from a volcano, which erupted 250 years ago and killed hundreds of people who desperately tried to flee its path. The first provin-cial park jointly managed by First Nations and B.C. Parks, the Nisga’a Memorial Lava Bed Park isn’t a long drive out of our way (only 60 miles [97 km] north of Terrace), and it is adjacent to the village of New Aiyansh, which the Nisga’a people call home. It is here where we saw tiny oolichan fish pinned by their tails to dry on clotheslines. Once you arrive at the village and, if you plan to stay awhile, it is proper etiquette to locate and speak to the Chief to request permission to look around.

Before starting our journey home, we drive 36 miles (58 km) south to visit the aluminum town of Kitimat. And half way be-tween, stop at the Lakelse Hot Springs for a swim.

We head to the coastal town of Prince Rupert with its native craft stores and fascinating museum, which are a collector’s de-light. But keep umbrellas close at hand because Prince Rupert also boasts a record 10 feet (300 cm) of precipitation per year. It

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To our delight, dolphins dance on both sides of our ferry. After a magnificent journey along the Inside Passage and our arrival in Port Hardy, we mosey down the Island Highway

and stop at Cathedral Grove in MacMillan Provincial Park, where giant Douglas fir and western red cedar stand as age old sentinels. We have time for a short side trip to Campbell River (the town of Bing Crosby and Bob Hope fishing fame). Others may choose the west coast of the

Island in areas such as Long Beach, Tofino and Ucluelet, where activities like surfing, bear spotting and whale-watch-ing are available. When we are ready, we make our way to a ferry terminal at Nanaimo and head for home.

We did it! We saw our own northern backyard and can travel without guilt to Hawaii or Mexico. Plus, we have the bonus of having a store of memories and photographs to share with others who have yet to take their Big Circle trip of a lifetime.

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Listen up, railroad lovers! There are only two steam trains on Vancouver Island, and Port Alberni has one of them. Not

only that, Port Alberni also has the only commer-cially operating steam-driven sawmill in all of Canada. It was designated a National Historic Site in 1989.

At the picturesque harbour in Port Alberni, climb aboard the steam-driven 1929 Baldwin lo-comotive at the restored Canadian Pacific Rail-way train station. The 25-minute journey takes you to the McLean Mill, which sits on a 30-acre forested site.

While there, explore the complex with its orig-inal buildings used by the people who lived and worked there. The sawmill has now been restored to full working conditions; the mill pond and dam have been reconstructed and some of the residenc-es and service buildings have been preserved.

The R.B. McLean Lumber Company was a family-run business that operated from 1926 to 1965. Although small in scale, its logging, milling and marketing operations were similar to larger mills in the province. Much of the original ma-chinery and buildings have survived, making it a rare example of a sawmill complex from the first half of the 20th century.

Kay Green, now 88 years old and a resident of Abbeyfield in Port Alberni, remembers going to school at the McLean Mill in 1930. Until age eight, she had attended school in the near-by community of Bainbridge where her family lived. When it closed, Kay, her two sisters and two brothers walked through the bush to the McLean Mill every morning from Bainbridge Farm, a distance of about three miles (4.8 km).

“We had to carry milk, which was packed into quart bottles and put in flour sacks by our mother,” Kay recalls.

It was an arduous task for the young children, but they did it in all kinds of weather. They didn’t have snow boots, so their mother put their father’s stout socks over their shoes, held up at the knee with elastic bands.

Kay recalls that, at age 14, she came to the end of her school-ing at the one-room McLean Mill schoolhouse. She soon got a live-in job at the Mill’s cookhouse, earning $10 a month and went home to Bainbridge Farm on weekends. Occasionally, she cleaned the “Big House” where Mrs. Muriel McLean lived. It was hard work, but fairly paid; there were no luxuries.

While working at the Mill cookhouse, 16-year-old Kay met a young tail sawyer, Kermit Green. They fell in love and married three years later. Kermit had come from New Brunswick with his family, who were distant relatives of the McLean family.

Kay says she was very proud that as soon as they were married, they had their own house. Close to the Mill, it sat opposite Muriel McLean’s house. It was a one-bedroom, one-story house with an outdoor privy.

Kay and Kermit’s first daughter was born in 1941, and she slept in a crib at the side of their bed. They graduated to a two-bedroom house just around the corner, but by the time their sec-ond daughter was born, they had moved into town and Kermit commuted daily to the Mill in his Model T Ford.

Kermit was a good worker and eventually became head sawyer at the Mill, where he worked until 1965, when the Mill closed. He then got a job at the Somass Sawmill in Port Alberni.

The two houses where Kay and her husband lived can still be seen at the Mill complex. Other buildings at the site include the bunkhouse, cookhouse, teacherage and blacksmith shop, as well as the homes of the boss R.B. McLean, and his son Arnold McLean.

Today, McLean Mill has only one full-time paid employee, General Manager Neil Malbon. There are several part-time paid employees in season, who work on steam machinery, the train, the buildings and the tracks.

Many are seniors, as are the volunteers, most of whom are members of the Western Vancouver Industrial Heritage Society. These invaluable volunteers are expert, skilled and generous with their time. Many have spent a lifetime honing their skills, work-

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College of Performing Arts in Victoria and others from the local Performing Arts High School Program. From June 26th to September 6th, they act out the story of the Mill and do interpretive tours in between.

“With our operating steam train, steam sawmill, steam donkey and Tin Pants Theatre Company, we offer an authen-tic and unique experience that is done nowhere else in North America,” says Neil Malbon. “While the focus is on the forest industry, it’s really all about our community and the people who live and work here.”

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ing in the same trades in which they now carry on as volun-teers. More volunteers provide entertainment: the Old Time Fiddlers, and Phil’s Harmonics String Orchestra. Others work in the kitchen preparing lunches for cruise ship visitors.

In August 2009, a grand opening showcased the “newest” piece of working vintage equipment: a steam-powered don-key engine. Demonstrations by skilled sawyers include mill-ing of specialty lumber, which has a steady market. Visitors can safely view the operation of the steam carriage, which powers the head saws, from a gallery running along the far side of the mill.

For wine connoisseurs, at certain times during the summer and even a couple of times in the “off” season, the steam train makes a stop half way up to the Mill at the Chase and War-ren Estate Winery, Port Alberni’s own vineyard nestled on 10 gently sloping acres with outstanding views of the surround-ing Beaufort Mountains.

The Winter Wine train in November 2009 encouraged pas-sengers to dress in heritage outfits and ride up to the vineyard for a wine-tasting event. This year, extra trips will be made on Mother’s Day and Father’s Day.

There is often an element of danger on the rail journey from Port Alberni to the Mill. The notorious Beaufort Gang, outlawed since at least 1935, have been known to burst out of the forest and hold up the train.

The Tin Pants Theatre Company provides entertainment during the season, some members drawn from the Canadian


When Patricia Whittaker’s first son was born, he and his mother became instant

sensations. Patricia and her family were living overseas, at the time.

“There were not many black people in Singapore,” she says. “When I gave birth to this white baby, the nurses start-ed freaking out. At all times of the day or night people would open my hospital room door and start gesticulating while speaking loudly – in Mandarin.

When we went to register the birth, they had a big list of nationalities, none of which fit for me as they did not have Canadian nor Black. Eventually, I was registered as ‘other.’”

Transferred there for her husband’s job, Patricia enjoyed her three years in Singapore, despite the intense heat. She was involved in the community and even volunteered at a local convent.

“It was very clean, and I loved the peo-ple,” she says. “Singapore is very ‘pro-pre,’ which also means clean in French. It looks perfect, but the essence of Singa-pore lies behind the veneer of perfection. It is like when we tell a teenager to clean their room because company is coming. It looks great until you open the closet. At the convent, the single mothers were ‘hidden.’ The homosexuals were ‘hidden’ down on Bugis Street. No one could see the imperfections at first glance. How-ever, I learned so much about the Chi-nese and Malay cultures and made many strong friendships.”

Singapore is a long way from Canada and it is a long way from where Patricia grew up. Born on Remembrance Day, 1957 on the island of Barbados, she was the second of five girls born to Keith and Sheila Whittaker. A businesswoman, mother, educator, politician and advocate, Patricia’s entrepreneurial spirit can be traced to her mother, who, while raising her family, was a teacher, secretary and grocery shop owner. From her father, she inherited a fierce sense of justice and an

unflinching ability to face life head on. “My father wanted to be in the po-

lice force, but was too young, so he lied about his age. Despite having not completed high school, he worked his way up to become deputy commission-er of the Barbados Police force, which included being chief narcotic officer,” says Patricia.

“People on the island used to call him Dick Tracy. Life as Dick Tracy’s daughter was scary and exciting. There was one incident where a well-known criminal had escaped and came looking for my father. My sister arrived home in his car, got out and the car blew up. We were all scared, but luckily they caught the criminal and no one was hurt.”

One important element from her

youth that helped shape Patricia was the pervading sense of family that exists on the island; she was taught proper behav-iour from a young age.

“Manners were hugely important,” she says. “You could not pass an elderly person without greeting them or your parents would know about it before you returned home. It was the adult’s re-sponsibility to look out for you and to correct your behaviour. We are the sum total of that upbringing.”

Another important factor Patricia recognizes about growing up in Bar-bados is the wonderful education she received. Though she only completed high school there, when she was evalu-ated after arriving in Canada, she was found to be equivalent to a second-year

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university student. “My education has been very use-

ful. I find it extremely difficult to find people here who can write creative and grammatically correct sentences. I had a particular English teacher in high school who instilled in me the love of language and the power of words. My English teacher used to say, ‘I am pushing, are you pulling?’ Little did she know how significant that phrase would be to me as an adult. You have to have a balance. You can’t have everyone all pushing the same way. That phrase shaped the es-sence of who I am as an adult.”

When Patricia arrived in Canada in the mid 1970s, she spent the first several years between Toronto and Edmonton. Perhaps surprisingly for someone from a tropical island, Patricia genuinely en-joys the cold, crisp weather in Canada – even the minus 30 temperatures in Edmonton.

While working for Air Canada reser-vations, Patricia struck up a friendship with a passenger who was impressed with her customer service skills. They met over coffee, started dating and wound up being married for 17 years. Their daughter was born in Toronto and their two sons in Singapore following the transfer.

When the family moved back to Can-ada, they settled in Richmond, hoping to be transferred back to Asia one day. While her children were young, Patricia spent most of her time close to home. Every day, she would bundle her boys in a double stroller and set out with a goal of meeting two new people.

“I made friends and then started ac-tively volunteering in my daughter’s school,” she says. “I soon realized that new people were ostracized and were not naturally embraced. I decided to run for the PAC with a mandate to make things inclusive. I was elected as Chair and made a concerted effort to get ‘dif-ferent people’ involved. It was a great learning experience and taught me about the importance of being involved in my children’s education.”

Patricia started getting involved in other committees and eventually this led to her job as assistant to MP Joe Peschisolido. She knew it was time to leave when he tried to dissuade her from running for office as a trustee with the school board in Richmond, suggesting it would be a conflict of interest to have two politicians working in the same of-fice. Patricia won her election and en-joyed her time on the school board.

“I did enjoy the interaction with the parents and bringing a different perspec-tive. When trustees started talking about Chinese New Year, I made sure to inter-

A Woman of Infi nite Variety vene and advised them that it was also Black History Month,” she says. “If you want to affect change you have to be sitting at the table. I found opportuni-ties to sit at tables and to get involved. I like finding resolutions to problems and making people happy.”

Before the Federal Liberal party asked her to run for office in 2006, Pa-tricia continued her efforts to improve people’s lives. She became one of the first people in the Lower Mainland to teach social etiquette courses to young people, which resulted in great public-ity, placing her on the front page of the Globe and Mail.

At the West Richmond Community Centre, she wrote a grant proposal and secured funding for a program to help seniors avoid social isolation by learn-ing to use the Internet and email, and utilizing the students at the local high school as teachers. The program be-came so successful it is still ongoing to-day. She also worked for the Richmond Women’s Resource Centre, utilizing her skills to affect change there as well.


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“I was successful in finding funding for the Centre, since I know how to put ‘passion on paper.’ I wrote a proposal that focused on seniors who did not speak English, but who were taking care of grandkids. I wanted the seniors to reduce their isolation and learn English and first aid. Meanwhile the chil-dren would learn by playing together. It was a great program.”

The federal election in 2006 was another learning experience that saw Patricia losing to the popular incumbent by just over 5,000 votes – despite almost no help from her own party and very little financial support.

She credits Hedy Fry for letting her know what she was in store for as a wom-an in Ottawa and recognizes Ujjal Dosan-jh for wanting to help her financially, but being unable to due to election rules. “I realized how naive I was and so decided I would fight for the people in a different way,” she says.

Since then, Patricia helped establish an entertainment group she is part of called Mukutano and co-founded a nonprofit or-ganization with a friend to find funding for and establish the Centre for Integration (for-merly for African Immigrants). This Centre is provincially funded and is a place where immigrants can feel welcome and receive training and workshops on how to integrate into the workforce.

After years of unfunded work, the Cen-tre received major funding in 2006, moved to a larger office in 2009 and now operates with 10 employees. All of which means it is time for Patricia to look ahead to her next challenge.

“I need to do what I am passionate about and take my life back,” she says. “I want to have a business called ‘Don’t Lift a Fin-ger!’ – a moving arranger company. I know how to pack. I’ve packed for moves from Canada to Singapore and back. I have it down to a science. I can now help people to downsize and to get organized. I also want to motivate people and to write.”

“I have lots of talents, skills and abili-ties and so when I start something, I won’t stop until it’s finished. I always call my-self Cleopatra from the Shakespearean play ‘Anthony and Cleopatra.’ In the play, Cleopatra is described as ‘a woman of infi-nite variety.’ And so am I.” SL

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ity.” Look for a disclosure that indicates the actual or es-timated amount of the purchase price that the charity will receive to fund its programs.

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• Tax receipts. If you are looking to make a tax-deduct-ible donation, only a registered charity has received a Reg-istration Number from the Canada Revenue Agency and can issue donation receipts for gifts.

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• Think before you give. If you are solicited at the mall or on the street, take a minute or two to think. Ask for the charity’s name and address. Get full identification from the solicitor and review it carefully. Ask to see written informa-tion on the charity’s programs and finances.

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Dear Goldie:I hesitate to write to you about my problem. I am sure you

will see me as a selfish grandmother. For the last five years, I have been the babysitter for my daughter who is working to support her three children ages 10, seven and four. She has a well-paid job, but will need her money for the children’s edu-cation. Their father does not support or contact them.

My problem is that I have no time for my own life. I was active in community organizations, but had to resign. With so little spare time, even my friends are disappearing. I love my family, but after bringing up my four children as a widow working full-time, I really need a breathing spell without all these responsibilities.

What choice do I have? –O.P.

Dear O.P.:I do not think you are a selfish grandmother. On the con-

trary, you are giving far more than is expected in any family: if you never complain, your load will likely increase.

Perhaps your daughter is so busy she does not realize what is happening. You need to speak up for yourself before you have a breakdown in your health. She has a well-paid posi-tion, so could afford to pay for help and still have enough later for the children’s education. If she is in doubt, suggest she see a financial advisor. She also has a legal right to seek finan-cial assistance from their father. You managed with much less available help.

If you can’t make your daughter understand you have lost associates and friends and you may be facing a breakdown, speak to your family doctor, he/she can verify the stress you are under. Make an appointment today.

Dear Goldie:I am 82 years old, a widow, healthy and active in the com-

munity. Two months ago, after a bout with the flu, I thought I should move into a care home and did so immediately. Now that I am better, I realize I acted in haste. I have regained my health, walk every day and travel on the bus to shop in the mall. I want to go back to apartment living again.

What do you think? –B.W.

Dear B.W.:You don’t mention family, so I take it you are self-reli-

ant and it sounds like you are capable of making your own decisions and acting on them. It is unusual for a senior to move back into the community from a care home. If you have not discussed this with your physician, you need to make an appointment before making any plans. If he/she agrees, then you can begin the process of moving.

Your former apartment will likely be unavailable, but an-other might be in that area. Familiar surroundings are impor-tant as you age. Conveniences are a necessity such as a gro-cery store, pharmacy, bank, post office and restaurant. Nearby bus stops should also be considered. Sometimes, taxi compa-nies have reduced rates for seniors, which might be safer for evening travel.

Take your time when selecting a residence in a suitable area that meets all your needs. Best of luck!


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Barbara Ellsworth is a 60-year-old volunteer who recently worked at the Vancouver 2010 Athletes’ Village. She was chosen from among approximately 75,000 around the world who had ap-plied for various volunteering posi-tions.

Barbara has always believed that get-ting involved is a great way to stay ac-tive, meet people and give back to others.

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She practised that creed in Ontario, serving on a local Habitat for Humanity committee and continued when she moved to Victoria three years ago. In short order, she became a front-desk civilian volunteer for the Victo-ria Police Department and co-ordinated 60 volunteers for the 2009 TASTE, Victoria’s Festival of Food and Wine.

That volunteering spirit helped when the call came for Olympic volunteers in the summer of 2008. Prior experience counted in her favour. Even filling out the five-page application required a high degree of com-mitment. Sport-specific venues required at least 13 shifts of eight-10 hours. Hundreds of hours would be expected of those apply-ing for celebration events like the Opening and Closing ceremonies.

There were also mandatory training ses-sions for various steps of the journey plus travel and accommodations at the volun-teers’ own cost. All this, plus an Olympian amount of patience waiting to find out if the application was successful.

Undaunted, Barbara’s persistence paid off. She jumped hurdles along the way, like ferrying to Vancouver for the five-hour introductory training/screening ses-sion where she had to bring a police-vetted security check and passport, plus undergo individual interviews and team-building exercises, conducted at the Pacific Nation-al Exhibition site.

After that day, she went home knowing that two out of three volunteers would go no further in their quest for one of several posi-tions; from VIP drivers to direction-givers to over 1,200 slope side ski groomers or 400 Polyclinic volunteers. In the fall of 2009, Barbara finally heard that she was wanted for a position – host at the Athletes’ Village site on False Creek.

Right up until January 2010, Barbara was required to attend two more three-hour sessions for her site and job-specific train-ing plus a fitting for her uniform and a final draft of her schedule. She was going to have 15 nine-hour shifts – six 6 a.m. to 3 p.m.

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ones and nine 2 p.m. to 11 p.m. ones. Outfitted with an Olympic ring-emblazoned jacket and the Vancouver 2010 blue/green mo-tif vest, toque and long-sleeved shirt as well as black trousers, Barbara started work with her accreditation card accompanying her everywhere, from two to four straight days on and six days off, never more than two in a row, over 20 days, Feb. 8-28.

A week before the official Games opening, athletes trickled in for venue practices. Some of Barbara’s responsibilities included daily briefings reminding volunteers to avoid picture-taking or chatting up the athletes to ensure the village remained a peace-ful refuge, or to be advised of Internationally Protected Person visitors like Arnold Schwarzenegger or grief counsellors after Georgian luger Nodar Kumaritashvili died.

Assignment meetings, such as assisting more than 9,500 se-curity personnel by scanning accreditation cards and bags for the 2,730 guests of the village, checking the Athlete Team Entry/Exit where they loaded on buses to go to and from venues, plus bag check at the Athletes’ Dining Hall. Monitoring accredita-tion at the Polyclinic Doping Control Centre, or at the Welcome Centre for newly arriving athletes, or the Guest Pass area de-ployment to the Canadian Olympic Team Residence concierge desk to check visitor accreditations, necessary as Canada started racking up medals.

Barbara kept a blog of her experience too. There were vol-unteers from afar including Bengaluru, India and Fiji and they plus athlete/celebrities were in a constant mix. It was a heady and whirlwind experience. On Feb. 12, she wrote, “I am just a

little tired. Fifteen days of standing for nine-and-a-half-hour shifts is finally getting to this old girl. I have seen lots of gold medals, held a silver medal and seen lots of bronze. They are heavy and beautiful and the athletes are so humble who carry them. Yesterday, a Canadian Olympian went through secu-rity and set off the alarm. Her friend behind said out loud, ‘it’s probably the gold medal in her pocket.’ Yes, it was. She pulled it out of her jacket, held it, got it wanded, then she was able to leave. She was almost embarrassed by the attention.”

Throughout the experience, Barbara collected several un-forgettable memories.

“Experiencing the buzz of the competition mirrored in the village, seeing gold medal winners having quiet moments on benches in the sun, observing the swagger of hockey teams and organized primness of figure skaters. Being up close and personal to all those stars was pretty amazing,” she says.

Barbara also appreciated the recognition and memorabilia given to the “Blue Jacket Workforce” volunteers, the compli-ments from John Furlong and the IOC, the gratitude given to volunteers via cameos on venue jumbo screens, and gifts like a special Olympic pin or Olympic silver key chain.

“They called us heroes, but we were only doing what they asked and needed us to do,” she summed up in a typically Canadian humble way. In reality, she helped make the Van-couver 2010 Olympic Winter Games a memorable success for everyone.

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When I grow up, I want to be a martyr. A martyr is a good person, a brave per-

son, and a committed person. My wife agrees with me; she too thinks I should be committed! So, that’s my decision. I’m not sure what I want to be martyred for but I am sure that, in time, it will be revealed to me.

Throughout the ages, martyrs have dotted our history. They have given their lives for their faith and their beliefs. They have died by sword, by fire and by every cruel device created by man.

I salute each and every one for their tenacity, their courage and for standing true, even in the face of torture and terror.

As for me, I’d like to find an-other way to be a martyr. It’s not about bravery or that I shy away from pain or any-thing like that! Heck, I always jump in at the deep end of the pool, and I once had a headache for two hours be-fore I took an Aspirin. No! Daring and pain are no strangers to me!

It’s too bad we can’t be martyred be-cause of old age. To give up our lives for our belief in breathing or for suffering through some of today’s music or for re-fusing to pay $10 to go to a movie!

We are tortured daily by reality tele-vision shows. I have heard so many say it: “If I have to put up with one more re-ality show, I’m going to shoot myself!”

I don’t know if shooting yourself for having to wade through reality televi-sion counts as being a martyr, but it is an interesting thought.

It would be nice to be martyred for loving too much, giving too much, or being concerned for others too much. In fact, those reasons are the direct cause of nearly all who have been martyred throughout the ages: belief in what is good; and something to live for that is great enough to die for. I would honestly be willing to die for my faith, my fam-ily, perhaps even my country. I would even give up my life for my friends – well, two of them anyway. And they

said they would do it for me.

I think if any of us are to be martyred, it must be for a worth-while cause, like putting running boards back on cars or re-intro-ducing the one-speed bicycle. Or

how about a defence for morality or re-spect for authority?

Being a martyr is not high on the wish list in this free world of the 21st century. People, it seems, would rather be CEOs or rock stars or sports heroes. When I was a little kid, at first, I wanted to be a fire truck when I grew up. When I was told that was impossible, I settled for wanting to be a cowboy, as long as a Palomino horse came with the cap guns and hat. My friends and I played cow-boys and Indians all the time. We never

played martyrs. Go figure!I guess if one could be a martyr with-

out having to forfeit one’s life, there would be more people wanting to be martyrs when they grew up. My friend Knud is over 50 and he still wants to be a cowboy when he grows up. He has a fancy rifle and a black hat. He’s seri-ous! He told me wanting to be a martyr was stupid, but if my heart was set on it, he could use his fancy rifle to help me along. He called it, “Being martyred for wanting to be a martyr.” I declined. There has to be a better way!

I’m beginning to realize that martyr-dom is not an easy career. My wife is dead set against it. Last Christmas, I of-fered to let her take the last chocolate in the box and she said, “Don’t be a mar-tyr.” So, for her sake, I may give it up.

If I revert to wanting to be a cow-boy, it would mean Knud would have company. In a way, that’s martyrdom – giving up my goal for my wife and my friend. But still, it would have been nice to be a real martyr – to be admired and remembered and written about. I just wish I could have found a way that didn’t hurt!

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