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MAN-UP: A 3-Step Framework . …for Cultivating the Mature Masculine Power YOU KNOW You Have Inside of You. Who am I???. Bryan Ogilvie How to “Get Focused…” 100% Virtual…. What We’ll Build On…. Women & Dating, Self-Esteem, and Mind Power Disclaim #1: “I ain’t all that…” - PowerPoint PPT Presentation
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MAN-UP: A 3-Step Framework …for Cultivating the Mature Masculine
Power YOU KNOW You Have Inside of You.
Who am I???Bryan OgilvieHow to “Get Focused…”100% Virtual…
What We’ll Build On…Women & Dating,Self-Esteem, and Mind Power
◦Disclaim #1: “I ain’t all that…” not a total guide/opinion macho & money (vs. internal aspects)
◦Disclaim #2: “Make ME make it clear…”
The “Tree of Life Science.”1.) Women & Dating… (Results)
2.) Self-Esteem (Inner Game)
3.) Your Subconscious Mind…
Session 1: What do Women Want???
A “Self-Controlled” Man…A brother who’s in control of
himself and in control of his reality (world)
Not “controlling” or domineering, but
“context-independent.”“Comfortable in his own skin…”NOT approval-seeking…
what I’ve found spectrum
Examples◦first date example◦praise-example◦feelings-example◦always asking
annoying (i.e: not attractive)But all these are EXAMPLES – the
main thing is “being a chump vs. being a magnetic force.”
You are the value…
Qualities that Attract WomenThese are
general Mix & match
NATURALLY: Humor Imagination Intelligence Dedication/
Commitment A sense of order Courage Social currency Compassion/
Empathy
Ambition Leadership Simplicity Thoughtful Sexual Confidence Adventurous Class/Culture Disinterested/
Challenge
The Approach…Observation –
Converse – Close Be present Show your
personalityOn Fear/Anxiety
“wielding to fear creates the feared result…”
Repetitious exposure
Always take the next step…
3 Deadly Mistakes…“Rescuing” her…
White-knight fantasy Accept her for who
she is, BEFORE you get that involved with her
Pitying her Healthy women
choose healthy men. A woman’s choices
reflect HER self-esteem.
“Understanding” her
Read excerpt
Additional Advice…She’s a HUMAN BEING
Idolize/Objectify spectrumHave male friends (who are
successful)Have female friends (like a girl
you’d like)Have everything going for you
you can Keep your apartment/dormroom
neat Keep your haircut (done),
fingernails, etc. Anything that’s within your realm of
control.
More ResourcesMy blog post
“What Do Women Want (Bryan’s Take On It…)”:
dotheknowledge.com/transcend/women
“Double Your Dating” by David Deangelo:
doubleyourdating.com
Session II: On Building Self-Esteem“Ability determines the quantity of
women you attract; IDENTITY determines the quality…”
Defined…Self-esteem is the relationship you
have with your own process of perception
How well you honor your intuitive thoughts and feelings
Mental-esteem (Judgment) emotional esteem (Self-worth) Child example/media example/ social pressure
Some steps: Stop equating your identity with your results FORGIVE YOURSELF for mistakes you’ve made. Book excerpt…, and lastly
Modeling….Physical
Modeling Alert eyes Relaxed jaw Relaxed face Chin naturally
aligns with their body
Arms hang in a natural, relaxed way,
Relaxed posture, Purposeful walk
◦ RELAXATION
Behavioral Modeling
Way of walking, and disposition express JOY
Speak about accomplishments and failures/shortcomings HONESTLY
Comfortable giving and receiving comliments AND criticism
Spontaneous◦ JOYFUL & HONEST
If you want to learn something, associate with people who know it…
Additional ResourcesRadio show called “The Dynamics
of High Self-Esteem: Insights & Techniques for Greater Confidence”:◦ dotheknowledge.com/transcend/self-estee
mThe Dragon-Slayer
w/ a Heavy Heart byMarcia Powers:http://amzn.to/cebfHj
Session III: The Subconscious Mind
“Men are anxious to change their circumstances, but hesitant to
change themselves…they therefore remain bound.”
Definition:The subconscious
mind is the totalitarian government of the population known as your thoughts, feelings and consequent behaviors.
As We All Know…The mind is a
computer…but, WE can be the “computer programmer”
95-99% of thinking Habits of thought Self-image/Identity View of what reality is
We “think” our thinking is objective…
The Analogy is “Source Code”Here’s a typical website:
The HTML (Hyper-Text Markup Language)
In order to alter the website (thoughts, feelings and emotions), you need to learn “hand-coding” (skills that allow you to re-condition your subconscious thought)
NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming)
Eastern Meditation Free Association (Psychotherapy
technique) Self-Hypnonsis (don’t get shook) Affirmations
“Get Your Mind Right” SoftwareTechnically, “Think Right Now
Intl. Accelerated Success Conditioning for Thought & Behavior Modification”
More Resources…My blog, “Fundamental Mind-
Power Skills that Make ANYTHING Possible…”:
dotheknowledge.com/transcend/habits
Think Right Now Intl.’s programs: dotheknowledge.com/think
In ConclusionThere’s an INTERNAL dynamic to
mature masculine development that most males completely ignore:
Seeing yourself as the source of power
Honoring the relationship you have w/ your own perception, judgment and instincts
Exercising conscious control over your thinking process….
Remember the Tree:
Results in life are REFLECTIVE of internal states and subconscious limitations.If you want to
change the website, you have to change the source code FIRST…
Recommended ScrollsReading isn’t just fun-
damental, it also “FUNDS the mental.”◦ From Niggas to Gods (by
Akil) http://amzn.to/cqH1rG
◦The Alchemist (Paulo Coelho) http://amzn.to/9r2cm5
◦ The Way of the Superior Man (David Deida) http://amzn.to/dyFLRV
PEACE!ANY QUESTIONS???
CONTACT: [email protected]: dotheknowledge.comRESOURCES: dotheknowledge.com/man-up
“The fool who ask is a fool for five minutes; the
fool who keeps silence remains so for the span
of his life…”