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Intro
• 1 - Identify
• 2 - Find an Access Point
• 3 - Get Introduced
• 4 - Get Endorsement
• 5 - Maintain your Presence
Step 1 - Identify
• Let’s go back and recap.
• Why do you Access?
• When you’re in a new environment.
• A social circle that has something there you desire.
• You need to chose one based on your interests or what you want.
• This is the easy part.
Step 2 - Access
• You need to Access.
• How do you determine who to Access?
• Find the low hanging fruit.
• The person of Social Influence.
• Importance of the Influencer.
• Need them for Access.
• They can also introduce you to other social circles.
Where to meet them?
• Look for the characteristics of Social Influence.
• I find women are the best for Social Influence.
• This is where Daygame, can come in handy.
• “Hey, how you doing? I’m new in town and you look cool/friendly. Where’s good to go out/ have fun around here?”
• Will talk more about meeting women in the Social Circle Seduction module.
Where to meet them?
• Other places to meet people with access include hotels, bars, shopping malls, markets, gym etc.
• Creating a routine.
• Allows for Human Rapport to be built.
Step 3 - Introductory Rapport
• Once you’ve met the person of influence, you have to get to Introductory Rapport.
• First be cool to get to 1 on 1 level.
• If you met at hotel, then get into a routine.
• Remember the 4 rapport accelerators.Level 1
NO RAPPORT
Level 2 1 ON 1 RAPPORT
Level 3 INTRODUCTORY RAPPORT
Level 4 COMMODITY RAPPORT
Level 5 RAPPORT DEFINING
Universal Utilities
• You have to play the Utility Game.
• Some universal tactics that work.
• Being a connector of people and becoming the social glue is a universal utility.
• Especially as you will be meeting and interacting with other social people.
Level 2 1 ON 1 RAPPORT
Level 3 INTRODUCTORY RAPPORT
Universal Utilities
• High Value introduction.
• Facilitate the introduction.
• Access to your resources.
• Theory of reciprocity.
• Do this and you will get introduced.Level 2
1 ON 1 RAPPORT
Level 3 INTRODUCTORY RAPPORT
Universal Utilities
• Specific tactics for girls.
• Value proposition.
• Go through the friend route.
• Specific tactics for guys?
• Women is a Universal Utility for 99% of heterosexual men.
Step 4 - Getting Endorsement
• Here’s the advanced stuff. In many Social Circles, especially High End Social Circles, Access isn’t enough.
• Organising my birthday party needed the cool kids to endorse me.
• Me and my friends.
• If the person of SP doesn’t endorse you they will create tension.
Step 4 - Getting Endorsement
• Remember the group wants to stay together.
• They will remove cause of tension.
• So you MUST get endorsed.
• Use rapport accelerators. You don’t want to supplicate. Remember Social Intelligence. Try Hard = Die Hard.
• Endorsement is key
Step 5 - Maintaining Presence
• Endorsement isn’t a one time thing.
• You must maintain a presence in the social circle.
• 2 things to avoid.
• Social Loafers and more importantly Free loaders.
• Freeloaders are the worst in a social circle
• Evolutionary Psychology of people to weed out freeloaders.
Step 5 - Maintaining Presence
• You want to differentiate yourself from freeloaders and loafers.
• All social circles have mechanisms for weeding out freeloaders and people that don’t belong.
• Firstly add to the purpose.
• Secondly understand the norms and values
• But the most important is gossip and in jokes.
Step 5 - Maintaining Presence
• Imagine a social circle, someone tells a joke, everyone laughs except you.
• You’re an outsider.
• You need to get the in jokes and gossip ASAP otherwise you will also be weeded out.
• Keep building the relationships.
Conclusion
• Step 1 - Identify
• Step 2 - Find an Access Point
• Step 3 - Get Introduced
• Step 4 - Get Endorsed
• Step 5 - Maintain your presence
• Remember how I said social circles can sometimes be part of a larger social network.