Hypnotique Bulletin December 2013

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HYPNOSIS : 40 DECEMBER 2013 TRANCE : 6

HYPNOTIQUE 40Years

FOR PRIVATE CIRCULATION ONLY

LOVE BEFORE IT IS LATE

A man stopped at a ower shop to order some owers to be

wired to his mother who lived two hundred miles away.

As he got out of his car he noticed a young girl sitting on the

curb sobbing.

He asked her what was wrong and she replied, I wanted to buy

a red rose for my mother.

But I only have seventy-ve cents, and a rose costs two dollars.

The man smiled and said, Come on in with me. Ill buy you a

rose.

He bought the little girl her rose and ordered his own mothers

owers.

As they were leaving he offered the girl a ride home.

She said, Yes, please! You can take me to my mother.

She directed him to a cemetery, where she placed the rose on

a freshly dug grave.

The man returned to the ower shop, canceled the wire order,

picked up a bouquet and drove the two hundred miles to his

mothers house.


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THE HYPNOTIQUE CIRCLEMADRAS 40Years

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MUTHIAH RAMANATHAN Dr T M PERUMAL Dr C N RAMGOPAL

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Secretary Joint Secretary Joint Secretary Treasurer

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THE SECRET EUROPEAN EXPERIMENT(That Tricked People Into Thinking they were Geniuses And

the Surprising Results!)

In the early 1960s, Russia and Germany got together to perform an

experiment. Two highly respected psychologists - Dr Vladimir Raikov

of Moscow, and Dr Milan Ryzl of Prague - set on a mission to help

further understand the human mind.

One of their experiments involved hypnosis, and seemed quite

simple:

They hypnotized subjects into believing they were someone else.

It sounds basic. Yet the results were phenomenal. One subject was

interested in playing the violin. She had only ever attended one basic

lesson. During the hypnosis experiment, she was asked to believe she

was a powerful classical violinist. On her second lesson, the instructor

was astonished at her new-found level of skill - and immediately

enrolled her into the advanced class.

Despite no longer believing she was someone else, her new

genius skills remained.

Another subject was hypnotized into thinking she was the artistRaphael. Despite not being able to paint so much as a smiley face,

her drawing ability suddenly rocketed after the hypnosis. Within a

month, she had the drawing skills of a professional designer.


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Later experiments showed that this hypnotic trance wasnt even

required.

Simply by following a mental technique, individuals could pretend

and adapt the genius skills of absolutely anyone - all within just a

few sessions.

Depending on the genius they chose, people became more

business-savvy... more condent... more creative... more artistic...

better at sports... were able to write better...

It was called the Raikov Effect. And a lot has happened over thepast 40 years.

Enhancing the Raikov Effect: Using the Powerful NLP

Anchoring Technique:

Since the discovery of the Raikov Effect, psychologists and brain

experts have adopted and enhanced that secret mental technique for

becoming anyone.


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Genius expert Win Wenger developed it into a process known

as Borrowed Genius. Hypnotherapist and NLP master Paul

McKenna created something known as the Possibility Generator.

But the biggest breakthrough came this year by incorporating

the techniques of NLP.

One of the most basic NLP premises is known as anchoring.

Anchoring is when you have a physical trigger connected to an

emotional state. For example, when you feel your stomach rumble,you suddenly feel hungry. When you hold the microphone to give

that speech, you get sweaty and nervous.

Now, anchoring can also be used as a trigger - to bring about

certain states of mind.

For example, imagine using the mental technique to switch on

the Raikov Effect, and activate the genius skills of your choice.Then you can use the anchoring process to connect that genius

state with a physical trigger - such as pressing your thumb and

forenger together.

In future, whenever you wish to recreate that genius state, just

press your thumb and nger together again - and watch as that

state immediately rushes back.

Can you imagine having your own SECRET SWITCH like that

- to automatically turn on ANY genius skill you like? Whether its

the leadership of Winston Churchill, the sporting skills of Tiger

Woods, the condence of Oprah Winfrey, or the writing talent of

Stephen King..

Just activate your trigger. Practice and only then you will believe.

Happy Anchoring !


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ATTITUDE DETERMINES OUR ALTITUDE

(Excerpts from Ms M.Rajanisrees talk on 10th Nov 2013)

Zig ziggler, a world class Motivational Speaker says Attitude

is altitude.

What we need to do is different from what we want to do and

what we can do.

With the right attitude human beings can move mountains. With

the wrong attitude they can be crushed by the smallest of grains.

We become a powerful force when each of us understand how

powerful all of us are and when all of us understand how valuable

each of us are.

Various types of Attitude.: Positive, Negative, Immature,

wrong (bad) , toxic.

Barrier for attitude is Fear:

Steps for cultivating a positive Attitude:

1.Goal setting, 2. Visualizing 3. Making Time 4. Self talk 5.

Afrmations 6. Acting as if .

Principle of Attitude : Change and Choice

The Power of Atitude - For creating success and prosperity

1. Start and end the day by being grateful.

2. When good things come, be grateful.

3. When you think youre only receiving bad things, be all the

more grateful.

4. Believe that the innite Intelligence wants you to prosper.

Five Ways Gratitude Can Be the Key to Amazing Success

1. Enrich your relationships by turning complaining and

animosity into understanding.

Contd. on Next Page...


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HOW SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE THINK

- CHANGE YOUR THINKING, CHANGE YOUR LIFE

By John C Maxwell

1. Figure out where you need to focus your energy, and then

use the 80/20 rule

Devote 80% of your energy to the most important 20% of your

activities. Remember that you cant be everywhere, know everyone,

and do everything. And avoid multitasking: it can cost you 40%

efciency.

2. Thinking is a discipline. If you want to be better at it, youve

got to work at it

Consider developing a thinking schedule like Chick-l-A CEO

Dan Cathy, who sets aside a half day every two weeks, a whole

day every month, and two or three full days every year.

3. Smart thinkers expose themselves to different ideas andtypes of people

Theyre also selective about spending most of their time with

people who challenge them.

4. Its one thing to have an idea, another to follow through

Ideas have a short shelf life. You must act on them before the

expiration date.

5. Thoughts need time to develop. Dont just settle on the frst

thing that comes to mind

Remember the last time you had a brilliant idea at 2 a.m., but

it sounded sort of ridiculous when you woke up the next morning?

Thoughts need to be shaped until they have substance and need

to stand the test of clarity and questioning.

6. Smart people collaborate with other smart people

Thinking with others yields higher returns. Its like giving yourself

a shortcut. Thats why brainstorming sessions are so effective.


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7. Reject popular thinking (which often means not thinking at

all)

Too many people act, hoping that others have thought things

through rst.To reject popular thinking you must be OK with feeling

uncomfortable. Also remember that right now, there are a bunch

of other people out there deciding to think for themselves and

theyre the ones who are successful.

8. The best thinkers plan ahead, while leaving room for some

spontaneityWhen youre strategic, you reduce your margin of error. Simply

having vague ideas of where you are and what you want to

accomplish will get you no where.The keys to being strategic: 1.

break the issue down, 2. ask why the problem needs to be solved,

3. identify the key issues, 4. review your resources, 5. put the right

people in place.Henry Ford once said, Nothing is particularly hard

if you divide it into smaller parts.

9. To think differently, do different things

Try new routes to work, meet new people, read books you

might even consider boring. The key is exposure to new ideas

and ways of life.

10. To appreciate others ideas, you need to value other ideas

You cant think youre always right. Give other concepts a

chance.

11. Have an agenda for the day, and when you meet with

people

Too many people only plan for the day. Smart thinkers take time

to plan out their weeks, months, and long-term goals and then

they follow through.They also dont walk into meetings, partiesand coffee dates blind. They decide what they want to learn from

people before walking through the door.


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12. Reective thinking gives you perspective and confdence

in your decision-making skills

If youre not reecting, its holding you back more than you think.

As Socrates said, An unexamined life is not worth living.

13. Get over negative self talk. Winners think in terms of I

will and I can

Smart people dont see limitations. They see possibilities.

Former baseball star Sam Ewing once said that nothing is so

embarrassing as watching someone do something that you saidcould not be done.

14. Creative people are dedicated to ideas

They embrace ambiguity, dont fear failure, and hang out with

other creative people.

15. Naturally optimistic people fnd it hard to be realistic

thinkers

A realistic perspective allows you to get close enough to a

problem in order to tackle it. Facing potential consequences also

helps you be more efcient, and it gives you credibility.To become a

more realistic thinker, you must: 1. appreciate the truth, 2. do your

homework and get the facts, 3. think through the pros and cons, 4.

consider the worst-case scenario, and 5. align your thinking with

your resources.

At the end of the day, its important to remember we can all

change the way we think

Learning how to master the process of thinking well leads you

to productive thinking. If you can develop the discipline of good

thinking and turn it into a lifetime habit, then you will be successful

and productive all of your life.


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CHOICES AND THE QUALITY OF YOUR LIFE

- By Ms Ananthi Karthic

Life is full of choices and opportunities. However, some choices

will have a greater impact on your life than others. There are a

few choices that will dramatically impact the quality of your life no

matter when you make that choice. So one must know them and

the best of them!

Friendships: If there is any area in life where you should

choose wisely, it would be your friendships. Numerous studies have

shown that you become a byproduct of the people you surround

yourself with. If you surround yourself with losers, then youre

well on your way to becoming one. If you surround yourself with

winners, then youre on your way to becoming one. Another thing

that you want to do is choose friends who reinforce your positive

self image. Theres a big difference between friends who joke about

you endearingly versus those who seem to get a kick by putting

you down. If you have some toxic friends, its time to detox!

Careers:Making the choice between passion and practicality is

something you really should take seriously in your career. A career

takes up a signicant part of your life, up to 65% of your day in

many cases. If you hate what you do, then think about what kind

of things you are going to attract into your life. The majority of yourtime, energy, and thoughts are being directed to your misery. Its

a simple application of the law of attraction at work.

Relationships:Your choice in relationships not only alters the

quality of your life, but the quality of someone elses. So, if you

make a bad choice you run the risk of making two peoples lives

miserable. Of course the opposite is true as well. If you make the

right choice then you double the joy that goes out into the world

and bring more of it back to you. Have you ever noticed how at

the beginning of a relationship when you start dating somebody,


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everything seems to be perfect. You have a great time together and

everything goes smoothly and you seem to be on a roll of attracting

positive experiences into your life. Then, you stop getting along, and

everything else goes to hell too. So, make sure you choose wisely.

Reactions:This is the most overlooked choice that one has! It

has been said over and over that life is not about what happens

to you, but how you react to what happens to you. Once we learn

how to control our reactions to everything that happens we manage

to achieve complete control over our lives. We are no longerimpacted by circumstances and events because we are choosing

our reactions. So choose wisely !

THE MAP IS NOT THE TERRITORY

by Rex Steven Sikes

The map is not the territory.

The father of general semantics, Alford Korzybski stated, A

map is not the territory it represents, but if correct, it has a similar

structure to the territory, which accounts for its usefulness. What

this means is that our perception of reality is not reality itself but

our own version of it, or our map.

No two people can have exactly the same map. While we allhave similar neurological structure, it functions differently in all of

us. This is the basis for our problems in communication when we

try to impose our map upon another person. Learning to recognize

the structure of another persons map allows us to see the world

though their eyes and therefor understand and relate to others

respectfully and accurately.

Our maps are created through gathering data through the

ve senses. Our senses bring certain aspects of the world to

our attention, which go through neurological processes or lters,


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forming our values, beliefs, criteria (rules), and capabilities. These

are often expressed consciously, yet most of the time they operate

outside of our awareness and we dont realize that they can be

changed to serve us in better ways.

When we pour water through a lter not everything passes

through. Likewise, as information pours in from the outside

world, it is output (our language and behavior) according to what

we delete (ltering out unneeded information), distort (picture a

giraffe with an elephants head), and generalize (all redheads haveery tempers).

Generalization is the basis for the formation of our beliefs.

(Although, which came rst, the chicken or the egg?) What we

believe about the world is how we interact within it. Most often it

is our beliefs that limit us. We have beliefs about spirituality, the

world, our capabilities and our environment, right and wrong, what

is just and unjust, and whether or not we can change.

Values are the things we invest our time, money and effort in

trying to attain. Examples: Fun, freedom, money, love, honesty,

integrity. They are what is important to us. And we have very denite

criteria or rule structures about how we go about attaining them.

NLP offers us a means of understanding our own and others

maps of reality. This knowledge allows us to create change forourselves and others. It also allows us to generate unbelievable

trust, rapport, and inuence in communication while preserving the

integrity of the other person(s).

NLP can assist you to begin to create trust, warmth and

understanding with another person, friend or stranger, by learning

what is important to know when communicating. Learning what

to pay attention to and how to become more skilled in interacting

with others will prevent you from imposing your own map upon

those around you.


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I am saddened that our human evolution has not yet taught us

how to effectively deal with the condition of being human. Weve

made great strides in inventing weapons, pollution and waste, as

well as great worthwhile achievements - yet we still struggle with

issues of fairness, respect, integrity, tolerance and acceptance.

It is amazing that in this day and age, with such a marvelous

technology as Neuro Linguistic Programming, that people arent

doing more to improve the most frequent and common behavior to

humans: communication. We have a technology which emphasizessimple principles of integrity and respect for fellow human beings

regardless of race, color or creed. Even some of those people

involved in NLP training do not practice what they preach!

NLP is about creating rapport, a favorable communication

climate, respect and inuence. It is about resourcefulness and

attitude change. NLP offers us a way to improve the human condition

through the appreciation and understanding of others. The numberone assumption of NLP is to appeal to others through their unique

map rather than imposing ours upon them. We need to educate

people to the idea that there are better ways to communicate with

each other. As NLPers, we need to be a model for others. We

need to make a difference and begin to ease tensions.

A great person once said You can light a million candles offjust one. As each of us begins to take responsibility for the way

we communicate, we can discover what make us wonderful as

a species is our differences. We can help young people grow up

with self esteem. We can assist adults in nding jobs and being

productive. We can ease tension between ethnic groups, parents

and children, teachers and students and become proud that we

took steps to make the world a better place. It all begins one onone, the way most communication occurs anyway. The thing about

lighting a million candles is that your candle needs to be lit rst!


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14. When others insist that it has to be a certain way, BE one with

your intuition.

15. When youre feeling down, BE bold enough to smile anyway.

(ReadLearned Optimism .)

16. When you feel stress building, pause for a moment and just BE

and breathe.

17. When the unexpected occurs, BE exible and adaptable.

18. When something doesnt make sense, BE assertive and ask

questions.

19. When someone hurts you, BE willing to forgive and love again.

20. When a relationship continuously hurts you, BE willing to let go

and refocus your love and respect inward.

21. When someone has something you want, BE happy for them.

22. When everyone seems to be competing, BE your own

competition beat your own records.23. When you feel pressured to be someone youre not, just BE

yourself. (Read 1,000 Little Things.)

24. When you arent sure what you have to offer, BE sincere and

offer honesty.

25. When you cross paths with a stranger, BE the reason they smile.

26. When you feel on top of the world, BE the hands that pull others

up with you.

27. When someone you care about needs you, BE there without

question or hesitation.

28. When you truly love someone, BE loving in words and deeds.

29. When its time to relax with your family, let go of everything else

and BE fully present.

30. When the day nally comes to an end, BE at peace knowing

you did your best.


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2.29 pm : Welcome Address

2.35 pm : Self In(tro)duction by Members and Guests

2.45 pm : Managing Self thro Celebration

-Dr T T Srinath,Applied Behavioural Practitioner

4.15 pm : Tea

4.45 pm : Lessons from Life

-Mr V Bhakta,Film Producer & Life Member

5.15 pm : Belief System - Mr S Ramalingam, Psychologist

5.50 pm : Mass Relaxation- Mr R.Gopalakrishnan,Joint Secretary

Hypnotique Circle (Madras)

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