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Faith at Work COACHING - MORE THAN A GAME DIXIE WOOTEN, IOWA BARNSTORMERS HOLDING ONTO HOPE HEIDI VERMEER-QUIST HOPE FOUND THROUGH BRIDGES OF IOWA GOOD PARENTING... MICHAEL CARVER

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Inspired 1

Faith at Work

COACHING - MORE THAN A GAMEDIXIE WOOTEN, IOWA BARNSTORMERS

HOLDING ONTO HOPEHEIDI VERMEER-QUIST

HOPE FOUND THROUGH BRIDGES OF IOWA

GOOD PARENTING...MICHAEL CARVER

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Psalm 8:3, 9 NLT

“When I look at the night sky and see the work of your fingers—the moon and the stars you set in place . . . O LORD, our Lord, your majestic name fills the earth!”

Justin Rogers, rogersphotography.com

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Impor tance o f . . .

HOPEOnly in the darkness can you see the stars. — Martin Luther King, Jr.

Hope is being able to see that there is light despite all of the darkness. — Desmond Tutu

Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence. — Helen Keller

We want to create hope for the person …we must give hope, always hope. — Mother Teresa

Hope is patience with the lamp lit. — Tertullian

All kids need is a little help, a little hope and somebody who believes in them. — Magic Johnson

Heaven gives us hope and makes our present burdens easier to bear. — Billy Graham

Hope itself is like a star- not to be seen in the sunshine of prosperity, and only to be discovered in the night of adversity. — Charles H. Spurgeon

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“Hope is a

renewable option: If you

run out of it at the end of

the day, you get to start

over in the morning.”

Barbara Kingsolver

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INSIDE

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More than a Game...Coach Dixie Wooten

Good Parenting...Michael Carver

Hold onto Hope...Heidi Vermeer-Quist,

Psy.D.

Building Hope...Bridges of Iowa

Inspired is a Christ-centered magazine sharing uplifting stories and encouraging faith in God and living a life of integrity every day at home, work and in the community.

Published by Faith at Work, a Christian nonprofit dedicated to sharing the Good News and encouraging positive living.

CONTRIBUTORSChrista Myers Faith CraneScott Brunscheen123RF.compexels.comJustin StormOicturesIowaTony Simons

Scott BrunscheenDirector, Faith at [email protected]

Faith at Work, Inc.5585 NE 16th StreetDes Moines, Iowa 50313515.974.5415FaithatWorkIowa.org

Unless otherwise noted, all Bible verses are from BibleGateway, the New Living Translation (NLT) Holy Bible copyright 1996, 2004, 2007, 2013 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

© Copyright Faith at Work, Inc.Spring 2019

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Hope is Everywhere…

If you look for it, Hope is everywhere. From the morning sunrise to the evening sunset. In every drop of rain that helps new crops grow and in every one of my apple tree blossoms that hope to produce fruit. In every helping hand, every smiling face and every kind word. Even the dark rainy days are expectant with the Hope that is coming.

Billy Graham once wrote, “Without the clouds we wouldn’t be shielded from the burning sun. Without the clouds there would be no lavish sunsets, no beneficial rain, no beautiful landscapes. The same is true with life’s clouds. When hard times come, we easily get discouraged. But behind the clouds God is still present, and can even use them to water our souls with unexpected blessings.”

“...those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength.

They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary;

they will walk and not be faint.” Isaiah 40:31, NIV

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Longfellow once wrote: “Be still, sad heart, and cease repining; behind the clouds is the sun still shining.”

This issue is to remind us about Hope. How even though we often take it for granted, it can be found in so many places if we look or listen. To be mindful that in even what can seemingly be a dark world or times in our lives – Hope remains.

I am hopeful that the enclosed stories, encouraging quotes and reminder of God’s presence may make a difference in your day. That you can be hope for someone else because no matter the problems or adversities, you are a living and breathing proof of Hope.

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More than a Game…

CoachingDixie Wooten loves football, but even more he loves to teach young men through coaching. Now with more than a dozen years of experience playing and coaching arena football, the Iowa Barnstormers head coach is living his dream and knows from personal experience the impact a coach has in a young person’s life.

Dixie grew up in Houston playing quarterback in high school and college before becoming part of an indoor football team in 2005. Even then his love for the sport and coaching was clear, as he played in arena football’s spring season and coached in the fall at Kipp Sunnyside High School, a public charter school in Houston. Focusing on values of scholarship, courage and community, the school — with its student enrollment 80% African-American and 15% Hispanic and emphasis of college prep through liberal arts, STEM and critical thinking — was changing the future for young people … and athletics played a role.

From the age of three, Dixie has been around and learning about football and life from his Dad, who played semi-pro ball in Louisiana and Texas and later became a coach himself. With a Grandma who you didn’t disappoint by missing church, and growing up with three brothers and four sisters, his life was rooted in faith and a tight-knit family.

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Coach Dixie’s favorite part of coaching is the critical thinking that it teaches players. Through coaching, he believes that “If you give great information, you can see them learn and grow through their decision-making and teamwork.” His coaching philosophy has proven successful, as the Barnstormers won the Indoor Football League championship last year and are off to a hot start this season.

Now in his third season as the Barnstormers’ head coach, Dixie’s goal is to do his part to help the football team catch up with the great organization that makes up the Barnstormers — because the team is bigger than what fans see on the field. In addition to the commitment of his coaches and players, Dixie is grateful for the leadership and support of the 13 owners of the Barnstormers, led by team president Jeff Lamberti, as well as the front office staff who wear many hats.

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That includes the day-to-day work of Vice President and Chief Operating Officer John Pettit, who, along with Jeff, put together the vision for the Barnstormers. His work hasn’t gone unnoticed by the Indoor Football League, as John was named the IFL “Executive of the Year” in 2017. Juli Pettit, John’s daughter, works tirelessly in marketing and social media to encourage and build the fan base to support the team.

With a hard-working team on the field and off the field with front office and support staff, Iowa Barnstormer football is a family friendly and affordable night of fun with talented athletes and fast-paced sports competition.

About living in Iowa’s capitol city that he now calls home, Coach says, “People show love wherever you go. The community is great … I love Des Moines.”

John Pettit, coach Dixie Wootan and Jeff Lamberti

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More than a tradition, and not orchestrated, is an act that takes place throughout the Indoor Football League. After hard fought games, players from both teams gather together in a circle, joining

hands and kneel to pray.

Players know thanking God and encouraging hope in each other through their faith is important. Putting on God’s armor helps them to face battles in life outside of football. Some players actively

become involved with discussions about faith or Bible studies that may lead to decisions that forever impacts their life. Such is the following story…

Earlier this year, while attending the American Football Coaches Association national conference, Iowa Fellowship of Christian Athlete representative RJ Sumrall met coach David Olson from Charleston Southern University. Coach shared at an FCA sponsored coaches’ breakfast that — thanks to a teammate — he gave his life to Jesus Christ in 2017 while playing with the Iowa Barnstormers.

It was thanks to a teammate pouring into his life that David is now going on to influence and coach other young men, helping them win in life by learning about hope through Jesus Christ.

More than a Trad i t ion…

Encouraging Hope

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The Iowa Barnstormers have a rich history in Des Moines. Starting as a part of the Arena Football League, the Barnstormers were awarded a franchise in 1995 and played in four straight sold-out games at “The Barn” Veterans Auditorium in their first year. In 1998 the Barnstormers saw their star, Iowa native Kurt Warner, sign a contract to play for the NFL’s St. Louis Rams. Kurt went on to become a Super Bowl Champion and NFL Hall of Fame quarterback.

Although the team’s history included a seven-year break from Des Moines, the current ownership group led by Jeff Lamberti rebirthed the Barnstormers in 2007. April 2010 was the first game in their return and also marked their largest crowd with 12,184 fans in attendance at Wells Fargo Arena. Now more than 20 years later the Barnstormers are a member of the Indoor Football League and continue to bring great sports competition and entertainment to Central Iowa.

The Iowa Barnstormers are committed to being active in Central Iowa. Team representatives, including the

A Stor ied H is tory…

Iowa Barnstormers

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ownership group, John Pettit and Coach Wooten, speak at meetings for businesses and organizations on a variety of topics, including the rules of the game and the team’s history.

More than 20 players are on the roster, and there is a four-member coaching staff (head coach, defensive coordinator, offensive line coach and special teams coordinator and defensive backs coach).

The players are quality athletes … young men who love football and are hoping for game film that may provide an opportunity to play at the next level in the NFL. Physical, mental and spiritual care are important to and for the players. The Barnstormers provide financially, as well as housing, food and medical care. This makes it possible for players to work hard and focus — most of them fulltime — on their game.

The front office has an important role of operations, corporate sales, marketing and accounting, and the support staff are just as critical to the team’s success, including: game operations, equipment manager, athletic trainer, PA announcer, in-game host, play-by-play radio show host,

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music director, team doctor and team Chiropractor.

The Barnstormers have had distinctive uniforms true to the aviation theme. The gold helmets with the aviator goggles have not changed since the original team. They continue to be one of the most recognized helmets in sports. In 2008, the helmet was ranked as the eighth coolest of all time — in the same company as the Pittsburgh Steelers and the Green Bay Packers.

The team hosts many events during its season, including the always popular military night. Barnstormer players are available for charity and public appearances, as are the Storm Chasers Dance Team and Billy the Barnstormer mascot — a favorite of kids and families — for special events.

For more information, go to theiowabarnstormers.com or contact Juli Pettit at (515) 564-8457 or email [email protected].

REMAINING 2019 HOME GAMES

MAY 24 | 7:05 PMWells Fargo Arena

JUN 08 | 7:05 PMWells Fargo Arena

JUN 15 | 7:05 PMWells Fargo Arena

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Last year, after reading a local article dealing with the mental health crisis in our community, I became focused on the connection there often is between good parenting and kids who are encouraged with hope and develop a strong mind.

Having a healthy mind refers to an overall psychological well-being, including the way individuals feel about themselves, the quality of their relationships, the ability to manage feelings and deal with difficulties. Issues that challenge that healthy mind can encompass a wide range of conditions, some more serious than others. Some are chronic, stemming from diseases while others can be temporary, prompted perhaps by stress or grief. But research shows childhood trauma — ranging from physical abuse to bullying to family stress — can lead to a lifetime of physical and mental health consequences. Research also shows that when kids have trusting relationships, it reduces the negative impact that trauma has in their development.

Encourag ing Hope Through. . .

Good Parenting

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That’s why good parenting is so important in building strong foundations and filling kids with hope.

Based on my personal experience and research, I believe there is no question about a direct relationship between how children are parented and some aspects of mental

health. Good parenting supports a child’s self-confidence, self-esteem and positive mental attitude. It does not mean that children do not have challenges in overcoming obstacles in their life, but with strong parental support and guidance (including professional help, when needed), kids are better able to overcome these challenges.

Parenting is one of the great challenges in life, and it requires full-time commitment, demanding much mentally and physically. For me, the strength

needed to do the job well was grounded in my faith and tied to my church.

Along the way, I compiled these priorities for guiding children’s growth and development:

• Praise your children for their qualities and accomplishments.

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• Have fun with your children, as that helps develop a positive attitude in life.

• Make good decisions in setting boundaries to provide a defined playing field to learn, grow and explore.

• Recognize that children do make mistakes, and support them in helping to understand how they might have handled a difficult situation differently and — instead of strong disciplinary actions — hug them and reinforce your love.

• Support, not direct — teaching children to make their own decisions in a responsible way and helping with goal-setting, especially those relating to their educational advancement.

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• Teach your child the importance of respecting others, especially young people who are disadvantaged and need support from you and others to achieve success in their life.

• Love each day — keeping a good inventory of strengths and achievements. Children need to know that you will always love and support them no matter what happens in their life.

• Recognize that good parenting requires support from spouses, neighbors, friends, grandparents, child care providers and others.

Good parenting can’t ensure that children will be spared from challenging or dark times in their life. But it can make a huge difference in

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Mike Carver of Urbandale, Iowa, is a commercial real estate broker who has been actively involved in community issues and programs relating to parenting. He is a member of the city council, and in the early 1980s, Mike assumed primary responsibility for his four

children and later assisted with raising two older step-children. He has served as volunteer chair of the YMCA Fatherhood Program since its inception in 2007 and has written extensively on the subject of parenting. For more information, contact Mike at [email protected] or 515-238-8766.

constructively dealing with those experiences and returning to a life filled with hope.

Parenting is hard work, but it also is a unique opportunity to influence the growth, direction and development of your children — and one of God’s greatest callings in our lives.

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“Three things will last forever—faith, HOPE, and love—and the greatest of these is love.”

I CORINTHIANS 13:13

Hope is like the air we breathe. We depend on it every day yet so easily take it for granted – that is, until it is missing. And just like air, once it is absent, we are in trouble. Without hope, it is difficult to survive — and impossible to thrive.

We hope so, hope not and even hope for the best. Just think of all the things that you hope for and quickly realize the list is almost endless.

We hope for aches and pains to be gone by morning … more happy and healthy years with our spouse … a friend or brother to forgive us … the future of our children — or grandchildren … our favorite team to win … a cure for cancer … just one more day with a loved one.

The meaning of hope is that we want something to happen or be true. When hope is missing … we are without hope or hopeless. When hope is present, there is power in this small four-letter word.

We A l l Need …

HOPE

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Life is about faith, hope and love … the three things that will last forever. In many ways, faith creates hope, and hope causes us to love.

But where or who do you find your hope in? Just like the song some of us grew up with, hope has a name … Jesus Christ. Because He lives, we can have hope for tomorrow. Because He lives, all fear is gone.

Are you filled with hope, or hopelessness — or does it depend on the day? I know that

we can’t avoid all of the valleys or dark times in life, but hope is like a bridge that keeps you above the valley of depression and hopelessness and instead encourages you to have hope for tomorrow.

If you’re in a season that seems bleak and hopeless, don’t be defeated. Talk to someone; turn to God, and place your hope in Jesus. There is power in Hope … there is power in His name.

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Hope: a feeling of expectation and desire for a particular thing to happen, a feeling of trust.

Hope is huge. From an emotional perspective, it may be the most important feeling or emotional outcome people pursue in counseling. When asked about the mental health crises in our communities, I find (and oodles of research suggest) that most mental health problems (including suicidal thoughts, self-harm behaviors, deep depression, paralyzing panic and others) stem from a common core problem: Hopelessness.

In the field of mental health “instilling hope” is critical. So, yes, hope is critical. But then I think we ought to ask, “What are we hoping for?” I asked Anna, my 11 year-old daughter, “How would you define ‘hope’?” She said, “Well, it’s kinda like faith. It’s really important to hold onto through tough times.” So, What or Who are you holding onto during those tough times?

HOLD ONTO

H e i d i Ve r m e e r- Q u i s t , P s y. D .C l i n i c a l D i r e c t o r & P s y c h o l o g i s t a t

H e a r t l a n d C h r i s t i a n C o u n s e l i n g C e n t e r

HOP E!

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A well-known verse from the book of Jeremiah came to my mind: “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11

This is truly a bold, kind of confusing yet deeply comforting statement for the time it was written. Jeremiah was an Old Testament prophet, who lived during a time when the people of Judah were turning away from God and were taken into captivity by the Babylonians. They did not have the options or the freedoms we take for granted every day. Yet, Jeremiah reminded them that God was their ultimate Provider. Jeremiah urged them to put their trust and hope in God.

Now zoom ahead to Jesus…who showed us a whole new level of living with hope. He took on all our sin and shame, conquered death for us and promises to be Emmanuel (God with us). Jesus invites us to simply abide in His love and receive His wisdom in each present moment.

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GOING TO A COUNSELOR OR THERAPIST WHEN YOU’RE FEELING SAD OR OVERWHELMED SHOULD BE AS NORMAL AS GOING TO THE DOCTOR WHEN YOU HAVE THE FLU. LET’S END THE STIGMA ABOUT MENTAL HEALTH!

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People feel hopeless when they are faced with losses…usually loss of things or of people whom they had put their hope in…but were never guaranteed to keep anyway. These losses may include external losses like death, life changes, unmet expectations or internal losses like obsessive criticisms of my own shortcomings and habitual “stinking” thinking in my own mind’s eye.

You and I have choices, every moment. Do we get sucked into the pit of hopelessness? If so, where are we putting our hope? Do we choose to despair about losses…and for how long? Or do we grieve those losses (work through the emotions with support) and commit to acceptance and to renewal of hope? We cannot control the Others, the Outcomes or the Old stuff of life (I like to call that the “O Zone”), but we certainly can choose the thought life we adopt. We can certainly cry out to the God of Hope, and we can commit to a posture of HOPE.

“No guilt in life, no fear in death,This is the power of Christ in meFrom life's first cry to final breath,Jesus commands my destinyNo power of hell, no scheme of man,Can ever pluck me from His handTill He returns or calls me homeHere in the power of Christ I'll stand.”

In Christ Alone - Stuart Townend

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Now, let me talk with those of you have been stuck in a pit of hopelessness for quite some time. If you’ve been stuck there for many days or even weeks, get help! There are certain mental health conditions that truly prohibit people from physically accessing Hope. See your doctor. Start some counseling. Get help. Don’t go this alone! God may be providing for you in and through the process of asking for help.

God made you. God loves you. God is providing everything for you right now. He was, He is and He is to come. More than that, we have been given a hope in and through the love and life of Jesus. We are all invited to abide in Jesus and follow him, our Good Shepherd, who leads us away from fear and into hope and freedom.

Try this: If you feel hopeless, catch yourself. Stop and choose Hope. Grab it. If it is hard to take it, then ask for help from God and from supportive friends and professionals who can help you! Pursue hope and receive hope in the precious present moment.

May the God of all HOPE fill you with love, life, wisdom and joy as you turn your eyes upward and outward to Christ Jesus.

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Dr. Heidi Vermeer-Quist is a licensed clinical psychologist with over 20 years of clinical, teaching and consulting experience. She provides clinical services through Heartland Christian Counseling (www.heartland-christiancounseling.com), as well as, family business and

organizational consulting services.

Heidi has released the first two books of a three-book personal growth series called Gardening Your Life (www.gardeningyourlife.com). Faith and family come first, and Heidi enjoys singing, raising their three amazing kids with her husband, Chad, and the joy of each God-given moment.

For more information, please contact [email protected]

“Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a great battle.” - Ian MacClaran

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Bui ld ing Br idges to a Bet ter Future . . .

Bridges of IowaPeople can change and there is always hope. That is a truth at the forefront of Bridges of Iowa as it celebrates 20 years of working to see lives changed.

An experience that I will never forget was attending a graduation at Bridges several years ago. The room was filled with family and friends. Each graduate of the substance abuse treatment program — both men and women — one by one came forward to share their story. After each spoke, guests attending were given an opportunity to speak love and encouragement into the graduate’s life.

As I watched this room filled with emotion, a woman graduate was given her opportunity to speak. Across the aisle in the same row as me were seated three children together who looked to be about ages 6, 9 and 12 … and I couldn’t help but wonder why they were there? The youngest child looked like she didn’t understand what was going on, and the oldest looked entirely disinterested. But the middle child — a little girl — listened intently and was hanging on to every spoken word.

After the graduate finished her remarks, loved ones — all adults — took turns speaking until this middle child little girl received the microphone. This was her Mom and through tears, she pleaded with her to not do drugs

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anymore. How they missed her and wanted her to be home. Out of her little heart poured all of the love and emotion she had bottled up for her Mom. Hanging on to hope.

I was in tears and could hardly breathe. All three young children were there because that was their Mom. It looked as if the youngest child wasn’t interested because she truly did not understand, but maybe the oldest child understood too much after seeing his Mom fail too many times before in other programs. But the middle little girl had not given up hope.

Bridges of Iowa has been quietly transforming lives in our community, directly impacting more than 2,000 men and women since its founding. But the indirect impact is much greater, with many times that number affected through the graduate’s employers, coworkers, neighbors, friends, parents and children – like the three who I witnessed at that graduation. The ripple effect of one person, successfully staying free from drug and alcohol addiction can impact hundreds of people not just now but future generations.

The idea for Bridges of Iowa began when Anthony Lamberti was moved after reading the book “Holes in Time,” an autobiography by Frank Costantino.

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The writer liked to describe his life of being a taker and a loser, but through Christ he became a winner. Who, after a 20-year prison sentence and experiencing difficulties as an ex-offender in reentering society, turned his life tirelessly to prison ministry and founded Bridges of America. His organization was helping thousands of substance abusers — both in and out of prison — successfully conquer their addictions and become new people with bright futures. With more than 500,000 copies of “Holes in Time” distributed, his story of God’s amazing grace is being heard and making a difference all across the country.

Anthony’s parents, Don and Charlene Lamberti, founders of Casey’s General Stores, were also moved by Cosantino’s story and set out to replicate the results of his Bridges of America program in Iowa. Don traveled to Florida with friends, Larry James Sr., Almo Hawkins and Tom Jackowski to see the to see Bridges of America program firsthand. As a result, Bridges of Iowa was founded on August 30, 1999, with the support of an initial gift from Don and his wife. Now 20 years later, the work continues, and the need is as great as ever. Bridges of Iowa Founder Don Lamberti

with Iowa Governor Kim Reynolds

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Bridges works to get qualifying men and women out of jail, free them from addictions and give them the tools needed to avoid returning to a pattern of substance abuse and crime. All their services are directed at transforming lives permanently through faith, hope and compassion.

With unmatched results in substance abuse treatment and rehabilitation, every year Bridges measures:

• Sober five years after graduation – 85% • Employed at program graduation – 100% • Graduates not returning to jail – 94%

In addition to residential and outpatient care for substance abuse in the greater Des Moines area, Bridges offers a full range of substance-abuse-treatment programming designed to help at any stage or addiction. The full program can last as long as a year and is built on effective, evidence-based practices and interventions, clinical services led by certified treatment professionals, outpatient programming and transitional living support needed in overcoming the barriers faced to reenter society — including employment services like job placement and career-readiness training and support with financial management.

The focus at Bridges is not about “don’t do drugs” but instead “who do you want to be”? Many want to be good sons or daughters, husbands or wives, fathers or mothers, and with the right focus and support, they can reach their goals.

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If you believe in a God who

controls the BIG things, you have to believe in a

God who controls the little things.

It is we, of course, to whom things

look little or BIG.”

– Elisabeth Elliot

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Bridges has more than forty counselors and other staff and operates on an annual budget of nearly $4 million. As a faith-based nonprofit, nearly 50% of their support comes from donations. And for those wondering about the return on investing into changing lives, it is estimated that there is a savings of $100,000 per year when a person is clean, not incarcerated and contributing to society. More importantly, the impact to families is priceless.

Celebrate and support the work of Bridges of Iowa as they celebrate 20 years of changing futures — not just of the graduates but those of families just like the little girl who pleaded with her Mom. Thanks to Bridges of Iowa, moms and dads are coming home.

If you or someone you know needs help, go to BridgesofIowa.org or call 515.414.8049 today.

Editor’s note: Many families have a story of being impacted by addiction and mine is no different. On the same night when finishing this article, I read the following Facebook post from my loving niece and mother of two who wrote, “Celebrating 6 years of continuous sobriety today. So grateful for the 2nd chance I was given. Life seems to get better with each passing year. For anyone struggling with addiction, there is hope, and recovery is possible.” Morgan, we are so proud of you!

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During his tenure, he instilled a mission and values that fostered the company’s growth, even though the recession of 2008. At that time, Jim Wright made a pledge to all Tractor Supply team members, “If you are with us now and continue to contribute, you will have a job with us at the end of the recession, or I will have failed in my job.” The effect was powerful. In 2008 and 2009, Tractor Supply added 165 stores, created over 1,600 jobs and achieved record sales and earnings both years.

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Jim Wright, Executive Chairman of the Board and CEO of Tractor Supply, retired, will share his amazing story of an unconventional culture that grew Tractor Supply to become the largest operator of rural lifestyle retail stores in the U.S, with more than 1700 Tractor Supply stores operating today in 49 states.

During his tenure, he instilled a mission and values that fostered the company’s growth, even through the recession of 2008. At that time, Jim Wright made a pledge to all Tractor Supply team members: “If you are with us now and continue to contribute, you will have a job with us at the end of the recession or I will have failed in my job.” The effect was powerful. In 2008 and 2009, Tractor Supply added 165 stores, created over 1,600 jobs and achieved record sales and earnings both years.

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Jim Wright, Executive Chairman of the Board and CEO of Tractor Supply, retired, will share his amazing story of an unconventional culture that grew Tractor Supply to become the largest operator of rural lifestyle retail stores in the U.S, with more than 1700 Tractor Supply stores operating today in 49 states.

During his tenure, he instilled a mission and values that fostered the company’s growth, even through the recession of 2008. At that time, Jim Wright made a pledge to all Tractor Supply team members: “If you are with us now and continue to contribute, you will have a job with us at the end of the recession or I will have failed in my job.” The effect was powerful. In 2008 and 2009, Tractor Supply added 165 stores, created over 1,600 jobs and achieved record sales and earnings both years.

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Jim Wright- CHAIRMAN OF THE BOARD & CEO OF TRACTOR SUPPLY retired -

Jim Wright, Executive Chairman of the Board and CEO of Tractor Supply, retired, will share his amazing story of an unconventional culture that grew Tractor Supply to become the largest operator of rural lifestyle retail stores in the U.S, with more than 1700 Tractor Supply stores operating today in 49 states.

During his tenure, he instilled a mission and values that fostered the company’s growth, even through the recession of 2008. At that time, Jim Wright made a pledge to all Tractor Supply team members: “If you are with us now and continue to contribute, you will have a job with us at the end of the recession or I will have failed in my job.” The effect was powerful. In 2008 and 2009, Tractor Supply added 165 stores, created over 1,600 jobs and achieved record sales and earnings both years.

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Michele had no idea that her master’s degree in Contemporary Arab Studies from Georgetown would lead her to 10 years as an undercover CIA operative for the Middle East. Her unconventional vocational calling ultimately resulted in her and her husband (also a former operative) successfully evacuating 159 Christian Iraqi refugees to safety in Slovakia.

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Michele Rigby Assad- Former CIA Operative -

Michele had no idea that her master’s degree in Contemporary Arab

Studies from Georgetown would lead her to 10 years as an undercover

CIA operative for the Middle East. Her unconventional vocational

calling ultimately resulted in her and her husband

(also a former operative) successfully evacuating 159

Christian Iraqi refugees to safety in Slovakia.

She has been featured on Today and 20/20 and

recently released her first book, Breaking Cover

February 2018. Today Michele serves as an international

security consultant, splitting her time between the Middle

East, Florida and Washington DC.

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1. Don’t miss the boat.

2. Remember that we are all in the same boat.

3. Plan ahead. It wasn’t raining when Noah built the Ark.

4. Stay fit. When you’re 60 years old, someone may ask you to do something really big.

5. Don’t listen to critics — just get on with the job that needs to be done.

6. Build your future on high ground.

7. For safety’s sake, travel in pairs.

8. When you’re stressed, float a while.

9. Remember, the Ark was built by amateurs, the Titanic by professionals.

10. No matter the storm, when you are with God, there’s always a rainbow waiting

Lessons f rom. . .

Noah’s Ark

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BUT BLESSED ARE THOSE WHO TRUST IN THE LORD AND HAVE MADE THE LORD THEIR HOPE

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