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Help the Care Giver discover blockages Emotions Attitudes
That may be inhibiting their effectiveness Help the Care Giver recognize conduits
New or different approaches Tools—including Faith and uniquely Christian
methods That may dissolve blockages and allow the
care giving process to continue to a conclusion
A. The Caring Relationship B. Spiritual Nature of the Caring
Relationship C. Direction of the Caring Relationship D. Care Giver’s Feelings about the process E. Care Giver’s Skills F. Care Giver’s Personal Growth G. Care Receiver’s Situation H. Possible Mental Health referral
Listen to the answers Don’t listen for the answers (there are no right
answers) The responses contain clues that suggest the
next question(s) Check your own attitude as you
question/listen Loving support is the best attitude No judgment No witch hunts No need to make a point
What is my attitude? Be aware at all times
What is my reason for asking this question? You don’t need to volunteer this but you must be
aware of it Imagine that it is Jesus who you are questioning
What emotion(s) am I feeling as I ask? Why? What is the source of that emotion?
Ownership I sense, I feel, I need, I am Avoid “you” Avoid “why”
I can be more effective These people are trying to help me in that “I” focused responses
I am I feel I sense I will
Look inside yourself at all times What am I feeling? Why?
There is no magic in the Focus Questions They are a good place to start The Sets provide a good way to organize
and direct efforts Any question that you would ask Jesus is
appropriate The Care Giver should never doubt that
we are completely focused on his/her best interests as well as those of their care receiver.
Our goal is to become more like Christ every day
Secondarily, we want to help others become more like Christ every day
What are the qualities of Christ that we want for ourselves? Loving Assertive Courageous in Faith …
I want to grow I want you to grow We’ll grow together when we
Commit Trust Love Believe Give