Great Personality

Have you ever had those moments when you just wished you could have more confidence and

just be the greatest person you could be Ever get jealous of people who are successful in all

their relationships This is because this person has a great personality and you can too

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Steps

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Confidence is key If you are a shy person then figure out what you are afraid of and

then realize that when you are confident there is nothing to be afraid of If you are scared

of talking to people find someone you are comfortable around and have a conversation

with them then realise that having a conversation with someone you do not know as well

is exactly the same Reassure yourself everyday that you are amazing

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Be humorous and lighthearted People will thank you for bringing some fun into their

world

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Always be nice This is the most important step No matter who you are if you are nice

the only reason a person can dislike you is if they are jealous of you Never be rude to

people even if you are really worked up - instead write your feelings about them down

and then tear it up People dont like mean people because it makes the person feel as

though that person could be mean to them Be nice to everyone the nerdy guy the emo

girl you name it This leaves way more doors open for friendships and makes people

envy you for being so brave

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Always be cool calm and collected In every single situation you are in you always

have to remember to keep your cool Never start arguments unless it is for a strong

argument and you have good argumentative skills Never argue with people you would

like to remain friends with If you are feeling a little nervous (maybe around a new friend

or a guy you like) take a deep breath forget yourself and just have some fun

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Be comfortable with yourself always Awkward situations always make you feel

uncomfortable However there is an easy way to prevent this from happening If you are

alone with a person you hardly know or even with a group of people you hardly know

Dont worry about not having anything in common with them just make light

conversation be friendly and have good eye contact and body language If you stare

awkwardly at them and hardly talk this will make you seem incapable of holding a

conversation so just breathe relax and tell yourself that this person is just like you

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Be Happy Try to always look on the bright side be positive and smile(unless you are in

a situation where being happy would be rude eg funeral) No one can resist a happy

person This doesnt mean be fake or feel you have to hide your feelings If somethings

really bothering you never feel you have to fake a smile but make sure you try to see the

best in things and show people that youre a happy person Wearing a smile on your face

is the perfect cover and will instantly attract people to you Even if you do not like a

person always smile at them because even if you dont like them it sucks when they dont

like you

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Never get caught up in being popular people will see what you are doing and lose

respect for you A real popular person is a person who has a great personality and does

not try hard to become popular Having a dependable group of friends is always the key

to getting more friends because you will always have these people to fall back on Just

remember not to forget about them when you make new friends and never use people in a

nasty way because people will be able to tell and that will make you look tacky

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Think about what makes you respect other people if you want to be respected Wear

clothes that are stylish and are within your comfort zone Avoid clothes that would only

appeal to a particular group of people Say things that are smart and witty but never act

dumb that just makes you look incapable of holding a conversation

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Never get too caught up in yourself It is okay to believe you are the greatest However

trust me not many people are going to agree (That is not an insult it is just that everyone

thinks that they themselves are the greatest) Never show off it just looks silly and

normally makes you look as though you have lost your cool Be modest around people

but always accept compliments and give compliments as well

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Be open to relationships Never pass somebody off for being not cool enough or too

ugly because normally these people are amazing and being friends with them will bring

so much happiness to your life Never think that just because somebody is a particular

type of person (eg emo girly preppy weird nerdy) people are going to think you are

that type of person as well In fact people will think you are great for being friends with

so many different types of people Dont just try to be friends with people who are above

you if you think about it the truly cool people are people who cant be gone above so

to be friends with someone better than you means that you do not think you are the best

Being friends with people below you will give you a confidence boost and not make

you look like you are obsessed with getting a good name that doesnt mean that you cant

also be friends with other great people