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FAITHFIELD GUIDE:CHAPTER STRUCTURE, PROGRAM AND ACTIVITY

IDEAS FOR OUTREACH TO FAITH COMMUNITIES


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Coming to terms with the fact

that a loved one is lesbian,gay, bisexual or transgender

(LGBT) can often be hard for

people of faith. Thankfully, many

of these people find PFLAG. Our

chapters provide invaluable support,

education, and advocacy for those

struggling to reconcile their feelings

for their loved one and their commit-

ment to their faith. Finding the best

ways to serve people of faith can be

challenging. However, by keeping a

few things in mind, PFLAG chapters

can continue to be a welcoming

place for all. Reevaluating chapter

policies and support groups, expand-

ing chapter programming, and build-

ing more coalitions can help make

your chapter a powerful resource for

people of faith. Any steps you take,

whether small or large, can have a

lasting impact on your chapters work

with people of faith.


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PFLAG chapter support groups often bringtogether people with different perspectivesand needs. For many of these people, navigating their

feelings about their faith and their LGBT loved one or LGBT iden-

tity can be difficult. PFLAG support groups can provide a safeplace for people to talk about their concerns and hear from oth-

ers who have had similar experiences. Talking about religion and

faith can be difficult for some, especially when someone is

struggling. It is important to keep a few things in mind as you

work with and support people of faith.

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CHAPTER SUPPORTGROUPS


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A peaceful protest. As participants filter into LWO, it isnice for them to see an alternative message to the one

they will hear inside. Signs that say, I love my gay childthe way he is or God loves my lesbian daughter remind

people that there is more than one faith message. It is

also important to get those messages out to press who

will attend the event.

A press release. Once you have planned all of thesegreat activities and messages of love, you want to let

people know. Work with communications at the na-

tional office to draft a press release that reinforces your

message and welcomes people to your events.

Advanced - Somepeople in your chapter

may be interested in

taking their faith work

even further. Many

people hope to make a

difference by working

directly with their local

faith communities to

make them more in-

clusive. Working di-

rectly on making anindividual church or

denomination more

welcoming is a good

activity for interested

individuals in your

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Learning to build coalitions is an important toolfor all PFLAG chapters. Coalitions are important tohelp chapters expand their voice and find partners to help

them in the work that they do. Building coalitions with faith com-

munities is often a good way for PFLAGers to expand their exist-ing coalitions or create new ones.

It is important to find common ground with any group that you

would like to form a coalition with. Sometimes all it takes it reach-

ing out and asking other groups to get involved. You may even

find that you have more common ground with local faith commu-

nities than you think. Here are some tips to get you started.


COALITION

BUILDING


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Many people come to PFLAG, or will pickup this guide, hoping to gain skills to helpthem have conversations about faith and

LGBT issues with their families or with their faith

community. Sharing experiences and practicing these con-versations can make them easier and less intimidating.

It is important, before you start a conversation about faith, to

decide what your goal for the conversation is. Is your goal to

share your story or to discuss how to make a particular faith

community more welcoming? Knowing ahead of time what you

are trying to accomplish can help you to keep the conversation

focused. Talking to a person of faith about accepting an LGBT


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CONVERSATIONS


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Dont try to change the other persons mind. Just stay fo-cused on your goals. It often takes small steps and time to

get people to expand their thinking, perspective, and/or be-havior. You should view your conversation as only the first

step.

Dont argue scripture. Debating scripture is difficult andvery draining. Scripture can be interpreted many different

ways, and arguing it may only lead you in circles. Instead,

focus on finding common ground and how you can work to-

gether. For example, perhaps you both have a child, so

focus on how parents all want whats best for their children.

Practice. Make time at a PFLAG meeting to practice havingthese conversations by having people break into pairs and

role play. Anticipating the tough questions and thinking

about them in advance can help you feel less nervous about

the conversation.



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