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Inside this Month

w e invite you to share in the Christian worship

and witness of the Anglican community in our

Parish.

We are part of the world-wide Anglican

Church, in the Deanery of Southampton, within the Diocese of

Winchester. We are also members of the ecumenical Churches

group Love Swaythling & Bassett.

Regular services are held at our churches in the Parish:

St Nicolas, Stoneham Lane

All Saints, Winchester Road

St Michael & All Angels, Bassett Avenue

Page

4-5 Calendar for February

6-7 Calendar for March

8-9 Letter from Sheena

10 Regular Events

11 Save St Michael’s Appeal

12-13 Letter from Rogelio

14 Word Puzzle

16 From the Registers

18 Parish Notice Board

19 All Saints Wives Group

20-21 The Gift of Tongues

23-25 Snowdrops

26 Christmas Fair

27-28 Nativity Scenes 29-31 PCC Summary of Minutes

32 Recipe Corner

33 A Prayer for the Homeless

34 Word Puzzle Solution

37 Editors’ Notice

38-39 Parish Contacts

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Calendar for February 2017

2nd Thurs 09.30 St Michaels Eucharist

3rd Fri 19.30 St Michaels Licencing of the

Revd. Sheena Williams

Followed by refreshment

In the Parish Hall.

5th 4th

Sunday

Befo

re L

ent

8.00

10.00

10.00

10.30

St Michaels

St Michaels

All Saints

St Nicolas

Holy Communion (BCP)

All-age Service & Eucharist

No Service

Sung Eucharist

9th Thurs 09.30

17.30

St Michaels

St Michaels

Eucharist

Ministerial Meeting

Evening Prayer

12th

Septu

agesim

a

8.00

10.00

10.00

10.30

18.30

St Michaels

St Michaels

All Saints

St Nicolas

St Michaels

Holy Communion (BCP)

Sung Eucharist

Eucharist

Sung Eucharist

Choral Evensong

16th Thurs 09.30 St Michaels Eucharist

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19th Seco

nd Su

nday

befo

re L

ent

Sexage

sima

8.00

10.00

10.00

10.30

St Michaels

St Michaels

All Saints

St Nicolas

Holy Communion (BCP)

Sung Eucharist

Morning Praise

Morning Praise

22nd Wed 10.00 Sunrise Holy Communion

23rd Thurs 9.30 St Michaels Eucharist

24th Fri 18.30 St Michaels Taize

26th Sunday n

ext b

efo

re

Lent

Quin

quage

sima

8.00

10.00

10.00

10.30

18.30

St Michaels

St Michaels

All Saints

St Nicolas

St Michaels

Holy Communion (BCP)

Choral Eucharist

No Service

Sung Eucharist

Choral Evensong

Parish of North Stoneham and Bassett All Saints St Michael & All Angels St Nicolas

Bible Study Groups:

have restarted:

AM. St Michaels 10.30 (After the midweek 9.30 Eucharist)

contact Judy on 023 8032 1241 for details.

PM. All Saints 2.30 contact Patrick on

023 8079 0682 for details.

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Calendar for March 2017

1st Ash

Wednesday

19.30 St Michaels

Eucharist and

Imposition of Ashes

2nd Thurs 09.30 St Michaels Eucharist

5th First Su

nday

in L

ent

8.00

10.00

10.00

10.30

St Michaels

St Michaels

All Saints

St Nicolas

Holy Communion (BCP)

All-age Service & Eucharist

No Service

Sung Eucharist

9th Thurs 09.30

17.30

St Michaels

St Michaels

Eucharist

Ministerial Meeting

Evening Prayer

12th Seco

nd Su

nday

in L

ent

08.00

10.00

10.00

10.30

18.30

St Michaels

St Michaels

All Saints

St Nicolas

St Michaels

Holy Communion (BCP)

Sung Eucharist

Eucharist

Sung Eucharist

Choral Evensong

16th Thurs 09.30 St Michaels Eucharist

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19th Third

Sunday

In L

ent

08.00

10.00

10.00

10.30

St Michaels

St Michaels

All Saints

St Nicolas

Holy Communion (BCP)

Sung Eucharist

Morning Praise

Morning Praise

22nd 10.00 Sunrise Holy Communion

23rd Thurs 09.30 St Michaels Eucharist

24th Fri 18.30 St Michaels Taizé

26th

Moth

erin

g

Sunday

08.00

10.00

10.00

10.30

16.30

St Michaels

St Michaels

All Saints

St Nicolas

St Michaels

Holy Communion (BCP)

Choral Eucharist

Themed Service for

Mothering Sunday

Sung Eucharist

Choral Evensong

30th Thurs 9.30 St Michaels Eucharist

Calendar for April 2017

2nd Fifth

Sunday in

Lent

8.00

10.00

10.00

10.30

St Michaels

St Michaels

All Saints

St Nicolas

Holy Communion (BCP)

All-age Service & Eucharist

No Service

Sung Eucharist

6th Thurs 9.30 St Michaels Eucharist

Calendar for March 2017

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Prayer, prayer and more prayer!

I have been very touched by the lovely prayers that you have been

praying for me since my appointment was announced and I am delighted to be coming to a prayerful church – for that is the only way in which we

will be able to move forward in mission and outreach to the community –

with faithful and regular prayer.

As we approach Lent, I wonder if you have thought about how you might

apply Lenten discipline to your individual prayer lives? I wonder how we

might find a way to pray better corporately as a church – or in small

groups?

For prayer is essential to Christian life and discipleship, and most of us

will need a mixed diet of individual and corporate times with God, and a

mixed diet of ways of praying so that our prayers do not grow stale and

unthinking. Prayer is something that the Holy Spirit drives us to – it is

nothing less than participation in God’s own life and is therefore urgent

and pressing but also beautiful and a means to growth.

In Rowan Williams’ book, Being Christian, he talks about prayer resulting

from Christians being in the middle of two apparently contradictory

perspectives. Christians are people who have been convicted of their

own sinfulness and need of forgiveness from God, and have accepted

God’s love and grace. Christians recognise that the One they try to

follow, Jesus Christ, was someone who met people in their messiness and

who didn’t expect people to be good, or even religious for him to accept

and love them.

Therefore Christians, following Jesus’ example, do the same and meet

people where they are and assure them, through their own experience of

it, of God’s love and forgiveness in spite of the many imperfections in all

of our lives. So Christians have an even greater awareness of the

sinfulness that prevents human flourishing and takes people far from God

– ourselves included. That is one of our perspectives.

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But Christians have, above all, a perspective of hope and redemption, an

idea of what God’s kingdom, when it is fulfilled will look like – and we

know that life is full and rich and that as Jesus took upon himself the

worst that humanity can do to humanity and defeated it through his

death and resurrection, we know that there is nothing that is incapable

of redemption through God’s love and grace.

With both of those perspectives in view, we are forced to our knees to

pray for God’s world, and for God’s purposes to be fulfilled through us.

This is not always an easy place to be! And we cannot expect to remain

unchanged by the experience of prayer – it is God working through us

when we are close to Jesus. So I look forward to praying more and more

with you, to being changed along with you by the presence of Jesus in

our lives and to having God’s purposes for North Stoneham and Bassett

revealed and fulfilled through us and through our prayers.

Sheena

Parish of North Stoneham and Bassett

All Saints St Michael & All Angels St Nicolas

Following the Licensing of our

new Priest-in-Charge

on Friday 3rd February 2017

at 7.30 pm.

You are all invited to meet The Revd. Sheena Williams

to a Reception in The Parish Hall.

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Regular events Weekly

Weds 10.00 am Parish Hall Community Coffee Morning

Thurs 1030 am St Michaels Bible Study Group

Thurs 2.30 pm All Saints Bible Study Group

Sat 10.15 am All Saints Coffee Call-In

Monthly

All Saints’ Afternoon Club

Monday meetings held at 2.30pm at All Saints Church Centre.

Winchester Road.

6th Feb. - WW1 Postcards & Songs with Sylvia & Colin Bayley.

20th Feb. - Painted Faces in the Desert Sand with Brian Sparkes.

6th Mar. - Landscapes with John Smith (Raffle)

20th Mar. - Lent talk by The Revd Erica Roberts. Chaplain for older people Visitors are always welcome

For other events see the Parish Notice Board on Page 18

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Save St Michael’s Appeal

Good news! The roof is finished and all of the

internal décor.

Now we need to look to the future and Phase Two!

So what’s in Phase Two? This time around you will be able to see what

is going on.

- Re-pointing Brickwork

- Redecoration of external doors

- Cleaning or replacing window support bars

- Repairing damaged stonework

- Cleaning out window hoppers

- Repairing vestry & lobby windows

- Repair of weathervane and buttress crosses

- Restoring stone cross at East End

- Replacing boiler room access roof

- Repairing Vestry Lobby floor

- A new carpet for the Lady Chapel

- Replacing rusted window grills

The cost of the above is circa £50,000

Appeal by North Stoneham and Bassett PCC.

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OUR PARISH LINK

WITH

BURMA - MYANMAR

Archbishop Stephen Than Myint Oo (left) with his wife, Nan Myint Yi,

and three children.

“UN getting daily reports of rapes, killings and other abuses against

Rohingya Muslims in Burma” was a recent headline in The Independent.

The plight of the Burmese Muslims at the hand of the Burma Army has

been in the news for some time. Many thousands have had to leave the

country, mainly for Bangladesh. Please remember the Rohingya in your

prayers.

The persecution of Christians by the Army is not news, but only because

it has been going on for half a century. Many thousands of Christians, especially of the Karen ethnic group, have

ended up stranded in terrible conditions around the Thai border.

Christians are under ongoing military pressure both from the Army and

the opium dealers. Those who refuse to plant opium poppies in their

fields pay a high price for their principled stance.

There has been political change in Burma. The famous Nobel Peace

Prize-winner Aung San Suu Kyi, after many years of house arrest under

the military regime, is now State Counsellor. But the real power is still in

the hands of the military and Aung San Suu Kyi is keeping rather quiet

about the violent persecution of minorities.

At a mission conference in the USA, Anglican Archbishop Stephen said,

“That each of Myanmar's six dioceses faces significant hardship due to

frequent natural disasters and relentless military attacks on ethnic

minority villages.”

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The minority groups consider themselves resistance fighters, while the

government regards them as an insurgency and, as a result, denies them

humanitarian aid, even from international agencies such as Red Cross,

World Food Programme and UN.

Two northern dioceses include parts of the infamous, "Golden Triangle"

shared by Myanmar, Laos, and Thailand. Opium production here is

second only to Afghanistan, resulting in a huge problem of drug addiction

and HIV.

The Church makes up 6% of people in a country where 88% are

Buddhists and some of the dominant Burman group equate renouncing

Buddhism with renouncing ethnicity. Burmans are the largest of 135

ethnic groups but most Christians are amongst the Chin, Karen, Kachin

and Lisu peoples.

Buddhism, a peaceful faith, is being perversely misused as a nationalist

tool to disenfranchise the religious and ethnic minorities.

The Burmese church began as part of the province of India but became a

separate province in 1970, later renamed the Church of the Province of

Myanmar (CPM) and divided into 6 dioceses.

"Remember your brothers and sisters in Myanmar, who are a light in the

darkness," Archbishop Stephen said, "You are our silver lining when you

pray for us."

Our Parish Burma Link

The Church of England and the Church of Burma are sister churches,

members both of the worldwide Anglican Communion. The Diocese of

Winchester has had a link with the Church in Burma since its beginning

in 1877. Our parish contributes to the cost of food and education for

street children and child prisoners in Mandalay and also helps clergy

families with education and health needs. We now contribute to the

support of an orphanage near the Thai border for Karen young people

displaced by conflict.

Revd. Canon Rogelio Prieto, Curate.

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Basic Bank Hampers:

A big thank you to everyone who made and donated

over 30 Christmas Hampers.

Bookings

Are invited for the use of St Michael's, St Nicolas,

All Saints and the Parish Hall

Available for Lectures and concerts

Enquiries for use. Please contact:

The Parish Office

023 8098 2836 [email protected]

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From the Registers

Rest in Peace

Date Name

8th December 2016 Ralph Bigwood

6th January 2017 John Dixon Glanville

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Five meetings in March. To join a group just talk to

David Gasson Tel: 023 8076 8909

or contact the Parish Office.

Tel: 023 8098 2836

[email protected]

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10:15am. - 11:30am.

Every Saturday

ALL WELCOME

Coffee Call-in

All Saints - Winchester Rd

Parish Notice Board Do you know about…

Community Coffee Mornings Every Wednesday

Parish Hall - Rear of St Michaels

10.00am. to 11:30am.

All Saints Afternoon Club All Saints Church Centre, Winchester

Road

Meetings held at 2.30pm. 6th Feb. - WW1 Postcards & Songs.

20th Feb. - Painted Faces in the Desert Sand

with Brian Sparkes. 6th Mar. - Landscapes with John Smith (Raffle)

20th Mar. - Lent talk by The Revd. Erica Roberts

Parish Office

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Tuesday To

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Tel.

023 8098 2836

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3rd Mar. - Women’s World

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13th Feb. - Talk by Heather Wyles -

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27th Feb. - At home with Sheila Dixey

15 Bassett Green Close (2.00pm.)

13th Mar. - Lent Talk by University

Chaplain Revd. Trish Davis

(All Saints 2.00pm.)

27th Mar. - At Home with Sylvia Bayley

7 Lordswood Gardens (2.00pm.)

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News from All Saints’ Wives Group Our AGM was held in September, including a sales table in support of

our Charity for 2016, Southampton General Hospital, hoping in

particular to raise money for more wheelchairs for patient use.

We welcome all Ladies, meeting twice a month on a Monday at 2.00pm

until April, then at 7.30pm either in members’ homes or in All Saints

Church Centre, until our final meeting at the end of July.

A Drama group called Chapter and Verse gave us a scintillating rendition

of readings on ‘Love and Marriage’ which was very entertaining, and John

Straw gave us a talk on Hinton Ampner where he has volunteered as a

guide for many years.

Our Annual lunch held at Stoneham Golf Club organised by Pam for

members and guests, was excellent as always, and our thanks must go to

Margaret, Anna and Debbie for opening their homes for meetings.

The Wives Group were asked to run the Festive Fair at All Saints in

November last year, which was a great success, thanks to the hard work

of all the stallholders. Our Carol Service was also well attended and the

unusual readings much enjoyed by everyone.

We subsequently looked forward to our New Year party kindly hosted

by Frances with a raffle and small present, and always a delicious lunch with everyone contributing. This was followed later in January by a visit

to the Nuffield Theatre, featuring a delightful French farce, ‘An Italian

Straw Hat’, performed by the Maskers Theatre Group.

Sheila Dixey (Wives Group Secretary)

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The gift of tongues

Fifty five years ago1, the Second Vatican Council allowed the translation

of the Roman Catholic liturgy into the vernacular for the first time. In

the Church of England, of course, we got there a little earlier, through

the reforms of Cranmer under Edward VI. The language we use,

though, remains a vexed question.

Text is central to everything a singer does - it shapes our

understanding of the music and lifts musical expression from abstract

to concrete. When there’s a mismatch of tone between words and

music, it jars - and when we sing words we don’t understand, the

performance becomes lifeless. I see this frequently as an examiner, for an organisation whose motto Psallam spiritu et mente perfectly

encapsulates the challenge. Yet during my time(s) at St Michael’s

we’ve sung not just in Latin, but Greek, French, Spanish (two distinct

variants, both archaic), German, Icelandic (an obscure 15th century

variant), Swedish, Quechuan, Nahuatl, Xhosa and probably a few more.

And that’s before you get into centuries of different forms of English.

So why not just sing in English?

Semiotician and novelist Umberto Eco describes translation as a

process of negotiation - and when it’s applied to music, a third part is

introduced. A good translation for singing has to convey the full

meaning of the words, using the same number of syllables, with the

strong syllables in the same places. It also has to use the right words in

the right places when the composer uses the music to illustrate a

particular concept, and it has to be singable - no tight, closed vowels

on high notes. It’s a tall order.

Language shapes music, at least in skilled hands, and often music in

translation has the qualities of a well-tailored outfit being worn by

someone else. It’s slack in some places and a little tight in others.

1 The actual anniversary isn’t until December.

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We could, of course, only sing things originally written in English - but

that closes off so many parts of the repertoire, and would impoverish

our choral worship greatly.

One body in Christ

When we sing in other languages it can serve as a reminder that we

join our praise with the whole church; and it’s not just living languages.

In the Taizé community, the myriad languages used reflect the diversity

of pilgrims; but they’re also bound together, even in an ecumenical

community, with Latin. Brother Roger once explained that this provided

a place in which everyone was equal, using a language which was

none of their own: a true lingua franca.

These words don’t just bind us together by geography, but also by time.

Generations have prayed using the same words, and they become a

thread that binds us all together.

So, what can we do?

We’re not going to stop singing in other languages (mainly Latin) any

time soon, but there are things that can help to get the full message of

what we sing across. We’re not going to be introducing opera-style

surtitles either. I put together a music handout every couple of months

that includes all the words we’re singing (foreign or not); but I don’t

know how many people pick that up or refer to it.

So, let’s start a conversation: what’s the best way of putting out the texts of the music we sing so that you can engage with it? Answers on

a postcard2 please! 2 Not literally. Talk to me, use the forum on the parish website, or

even social media!

Colin Davey

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SNOWDROP GARDENS

OPEN FOR FEBRUARY

1. The Warnford Snowdrops.

Church of Our Lady, Warnford Park. On the A32.

Andrew and Candi Sellick, the owners of Warnford Park, have very

kindly agreed to allow the Rector and Churchwardens of the Church of

Our Lady, Warnford, to invite our visitors to view the snowdrops.

Please keep to the paths, which will be clearly marked and wardened,

and please do not pick the flowers.

After leaving the Church go through the ruin of

St. John House. William St. John built this some time

in the early 1200’s (possibly about 1220).

It is built of flint and originally had four columns 25

feet high, which supported the roof timbers. At the

West End, nearest the Church, it had a two storey

block, entered by a stairway on the North side - there was a kitchen and a buttery below entered by a

doorway (still seen) and steps down.

Continued on page 24

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Continued...

The Hall was a ruin by 1603 and the Clanricardes turned it into a

romantic ruin with a wishing well. This well is now filled in, and was

situated in the Hall on the South side.

Pass through the door at the East end into the woods where there are

drifts of snowdrops. The path is marked at intervals.

The tour will take you on through the wooded area on a well defined

path until you come to a terrace. Turn right here and proceed along

the grass walk, passing the Dower House on your right hand side.

This delightful little house, once a ruin, but now completely restored

and lived in, is one of the “Strawberry Hill” Gothic architectural type and was possibly built by Lord Clanricarde about 1760. Although called

Dower House, it is not known whether the Dowager Ladies ever lived

here or if it was used by the family as a Summer House on the terrace.

As you reach the end of the terrace you will go down some slate steps

(which, when wet, can be very dangerous and slippery - so please take

care). Turn right here and follow the line of arrows along the East side

of the walled garden. On the left the snowdrops are magnificent and

are massed down to the lake. It is said that the park was designed by

Capability Brown.

If you wished to be refreshed after your journey, there will be a cup of

tea for you in the Bell Tower of the Church.

There is no admission charge to the Park or snowdrops, but if you

have enjoyed your afternoon and feel inclined, a contribution to the

Church Maintenance Fund would be gratefully accepted.

Thank You.

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WELFORD PARK

2. Welford Park, Welford Newbury, Berkshire. RG20 8HU

Wednesday 8 February (11am - 4pm)

One of the finest natural

snowdrop woodlands in the

country approx 4 acres,

along with a wonderful

display of hellebores

throughout the garden and

winter flowering shrubs.

This is an NGS 1927

pioneer garden on the River

Lambourn set around

Queen Anne House (not

open).

Also the stunning setting for

BBC Great British Bake Off

2014, 2015 & 2016

How to find us

6m NW of Newbury. M4 J13,

A34(S). After 3m exit for A4

(W) to Hungerford. At 2nd

r'about take B4000, after 4m

turn R signed Welford.

Entrance on Newbury-

Lambourn road.

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Parish Christmas Fair Christmas trees being carefully decorated.

Proceeds from the Christmas Fair have reached over £800

The organisers give their Thanks to all the support from

contributors, helpers, stall sellers and the

visitors who also kept the Refreshment Team very busy.

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A Gathering of Nativity Scenes

at St Nicolas Church

A selection of

Nativities

from delicately carved

and hand made

to Lego.

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PCC MATTERS

A copy of the full version of the latest PCC Meeting Minutes is

placed on Church noticeboards. This is a summarised version of the

main issues discussed at the most recent meeting

John Dorrington

(PCC Secretary)

A SUMMARY OF PROCEEDINGS OF THE MEETING OF THE

PCC ON 19TH JANUARY 2017

Finance

1. Colin McDougall introduced the format of Finance Sub-committee

meetings, a tabled summary of ‘Decisions’ and ‘Actions’, that he

will use to inform future PCC discussions. Council agreed that he

should move to the use of online banking for oversight and

management of PCC finances, using the appropriate security

measures. Approval was given to continued use of the software application “Data Development” to support financial management.

2. The Treasurer introduced a draft budget which he had drawn up

for financial year 2017.

Parish Hall Committee

3. The new committee has been reviewing all aspects of the Parish

Hall situation and is working through the process of correct

management of a hall. Accepting the age of the building, it needs to

be updated to attract future potential users. Some immediate

fabric issues have been addressed. Existing asbestos at the front

and back of the building has been sealed. The garage adjacent to

the hall is being cleared and once cleaned up will be used to store

the scaffolding we own. The next step will be to clear the

individual rooms one at a time. One planned immediate short term

measure is to tidy up the foyer. The Committee want to arrange

cleaning on a daily basis and seek a new cleaner.

4. New rates have been set for hire of the hall in 2017. An invoicing

system has been introduced for every user. This in turn will enable

a budget to be prepared, to better address expenditure issues.

Continued on pages 30 & 31

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Mission and Outreach

5. The group have picked up items from the work of the old pMAP

Group, added other suggestions and considered the effectiveness

of existing schemes. The principal subjects addressed by the Group

were Burma, the Basics Bank and the homeless. Radio Solent had

recently been in touch concerning Homeless Sunday, apparently an

item picked up from our Parish Magazine, underlining the

advertising value of the Magazine. The Group also resolved that a

firmer relationship with the chaplaincy of the University is needed.

The Echo newspaper recently advertised the Wednesday

Community Coffee Morning in the Parish Hall, but unfortunately

January is the one month when it does not function. However,

they are now on the distribution list to regularly receive the Parish

News Sheet.

Lent Study Groups

6. Revd. Rogelio Prieto informed Council that two Lent Study

Groups are planned. Those wishing to take part are encouraged to

join one of the two existing study groups. If numbers necessitate,

a third group will be formed.

Fabric

7. St. Michael’s The Church Warden said that work on St. Michael’s

roof, bell tower and interior redecoration is complete. Some £20K

remains in the Appeal Fund which will now be used to pay for the

outstanding work items in the architect’s quinquennial report. The

Appeal Fund Committee needs a new Chairman, now that

Colin McDougall has taken on the Treasurer’s task.

8. St. Nicolas Mark Patchett (the Diocesan consultant) is continuing

to negotiate on our behalf in the arrangements for administration

of the proposed new Community Centre in the North Stoneham

development.

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9. All Saints There is no one in the offing to replace “Sticky Fingers”,

the pre-school, which closed before Christmas. Interior

decoration of the building is needed. Two quotations for the

`necessary work have been received. It was agreed that the

investment is necessary to maintain the standard of our asset for

the longer term and the Church Warden was authorised to spend

up to £600 with a £50 overspend discretion. A remote control

system (HIVE) for controlling the heating is being installed. This is

being treated as a pilot scheme, with a view to fitting the system in

other Parish buildings.

Safeguarding

10. Alison Ball, Parish Safeguarding Officer, reported that the Parish

Child Protection Policy is available on-line. A copy statement is

available in all our churches. There are currently 23 people in the Parish holding valid certificates of clearance to work with children

and vulnerable adults.

Social Events Update

11. A Burma Evening is being planned for May 13th, along the lines of

that held last year. Also being considered is a celebratory Parish

lunch, organised on the well-tried “bring and share” basis. Supper

is being organised at the Annual Parish Meeting in All Saints,

ordering from one of the several food outlets in the shopping area

beside All Saints.

The legend that is the

Annual Quiz Night

is back 25th February

7.30 pm. at the Parish Hall

All proceeds to Save St Michael’s Appeal. £10.00 per head for fun and pizza. Maximum 6 players per team.

Contact Colin McDougall for details

[email protected]

Tel: 07943878705 or 023 8034 5148

Sign up on the form

at the back

of the church

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Hot Cross (or No Cross) Buns

300ml Milk 500g White Bread Flour 75g Sugar 1 tsp Salt 7g sachet fast-action Dried Yeast 50g softened Butter 1 beaten Egg 150g Sultanas 80g diced Mixed Peel zest of 2 Oranges 2 tsp ground Cinnamon First warm the milk a little, but don't make it hot. In a bowl bring

together the flour, sugar, salt, yeast, butter and egg before gently adding

the warmed milk and stirring to make a sticky dough. Mix in the

sultanas, mixed peel, orange zest and cinnamon before tipping out onto a

floured surface. Knead for 5 minutes until smooth and elastic or let the

dough hook on a food mixer do the job while you watch!

Place the dough in a lightly oiled bowl, cover with cling film and leave to

rise until doubled in size, about an hour. Knock the air out of the dough

and divide into 12 balls. Place the balls on a greased baking sheet, leaving

space for expansion between each, and loosely cover with cling film.

Leave to rise for another hour.

Now the fancy bits which you can leave out if you wish. To make crosses

mix 70g flour with 70ml water to produce a paste. Use a piping bag to

apply paste crosses to the buns. If you like a sticky, shiny top warm

some apricot jam, pass it through a sieve to remove any lumps and paint

the tops of the buns.

20 – 25 minutes at 220C should see them nicely baked.

Malcolm Loades

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A Prayer for the Homeless

This Year Homeless Sunday was 22nd January when we were asked to

remember those less fortunate than ourselves, who, due to whatever

circumstances, find themselves homeless.

We should never forget that they are all God’s Children.

Please continue to hold them all in your thoughts with this prayer.

Loving God in your house there is room for everyone.

Help us as we strive for a world where everyone has a home that

truly meets their needs.

Give us the grace to welcome strangers and refugees.

Give us the insight to see where inequality hurts.

Fill us with the courage to do our part.

Save us from being overwhelmed by the scale of the housing crisis, and

show us O Lord where to begin.

Amen.

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Editor’s Notice

The next issue of the Parish Magazine will cover

April and May

The copy deadline for this issue is

Saturday 4th March 2017

News and event dates may be left at the Parish Office

marked Magazine Copy, or can be sent to:-

The Magazine Team

[email protected]

Please note that:

commercial services advertised in this magazine do not, necessarily, have

the endorsement of the PCC.

views and opinions expressed in this magazine do not represent the

publishers’ or the PCC’s opinions, unless stated.

This magazine, its title and contents are copyright of the PCC.

Material may not be re-used without the formal consent of the PCC.

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Ministry Team

Priest-in-Charge

Revd. Sheena Williams

023 8076 8123

[email protected]

Revd. Canon Rogelio Prieto (Curate) 07723 033 570

[email protected]

Revd. Canon Norman Boakes 023 8076 7735

[email protected]

Revd. Judy Page (NSM) 023 8032 1241

[email protected]

Mr Malcolm Harper (LLM) 023 8076 8306

[email protected]

Mr John Reynolds (LLM) 023 8076 9171

[email protected]

Pastoral Care

Should someone in the Parish require an urgent visit please contact

one of the Ministerial team direct, leave a message at the Parish Office on 023 8098 2836, the Rectory on 023 8076 8123 or a

Churchwarden on 023 8079 0714.

All three numbers are monitored regularly. To report that someone

is ill, or request a less urgent visit, please contact Lorna Mairs or one

of the Licensed Lay Ministers (LLM).

Contact details are above and to the right.

The Parish Office:

Bassett Ave, Southampton, SO16 7FD

023 8098 2836

[email protected]

Opening hours: Tue - Fri. 09.00 – 14.00

If you would like to arrange a baptism, wedding, banns etc. please visit our

website: www.nsab.org.uk

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Priest -in -Charge Revd. Sheena Williams

[email protected]

023 8076 8123

Parish Administrator Kaz Lawton

[email protected]

023 8098 2836

Lay Pastors Lorna Mairs (leader) 023 8076 9116

Lynn Isted 023 8073 3053

Christine Brunnen 023 8032 7378

Hazel Anderson 023 8077 1198

Revd. Judy Page

(Ex Officio)

023 8032 1241

Choirs and Music St Michael’s Colin Davey

[email protected]

07870 518 046

Bell Ringers Johanna Duquenoy

[email protected]

023 8076 7990

The Parish

Magazine

Editor The Magazine Team

[email protected]

023 8032 7378

Churchwardens Alan Logan

[email protected]

023 8032 4595

David Curtis

[email protected]

023 8079 0714

PCC Secretary John Dorrington

[email protected]

023 8079 0854

PCC Treasurer Colin McDougall

[email protected]

023 8034 5148

Stewardship

Secretary

Paddy Paddon-Row

[email protected]

023 8076 0638

Hall Bookings All Saints Kaz Lawton

[email protected]

023 8098 2836

Parish Hall Kaz Lawton

[email protected]

023 8098 2836

NSAB Contacts

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