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Christian and Married: How to Be One Without Losing the Other

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Marriage is not at all without it’s challenges. 80% of all failed marriages are logged in the system as having failed due to ‘irreconcilable differences.’ More than 50% of marriages end in divorce. But, the truth is the failure of a marriage stems from a couple simply not knowing how to be married and their refusal to learn! We learn to say, “I do,” but in truth, our words have limitations because we are a people conditioned to believe there is an alternative to any and every thing, rather than accept that GOD never intended marriage to end in divorce. And no matter how bad it is or how bad it seems, it too can be fixed! ‘Christian and Married- How To Be One Without Losing The Other’ is not just another marriage self-help book for believers. It’s an accountability book, a testimony and a strife diffuser. Your marriage can survive! Come on and learn, laugh, live and fall in love all over again! Great for couples and singles alike!

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• ISBN-10: 0985410604

• ISBN-13: 978-0985410605

Anointed Fire™ Christian Publishing Presents

Christian and Married: How to Be One Without Losing the Other

by Tiffany Kameni

MEDIA KITContact:

Anointed Fire™ [email protected]

Websites:www.anointedfire.com

www.tiffanykameni.com

Table of ContentsAbout the Book..........................................................................................................................................3Questions & Answers About the Book......................................................................................................4Book Chapters............................................................................................................................................7About the Author........................................................................................................................................8Links.........................................................................................................................................................10

Lack of knowledge destroys marriages.

Most people want to be married, but do you know HOW to be married?Reflect back to a time when you couldn't drive. Would your parents hand you the keys to the car to let you drive? No. Neither will your FATHER in Heaven hand you the keys to marriage, without first giving you the knowledge of how to operate in that marriage. Pride and selfishness

destroys marriages.

About the BookChristian and Marred: How to Be One Without Losing the Other is a powerful book that was birthed for two purposes:

• To save a troubled marriage.• To prepare singles for marriage so that they won't find themselves in a troubled marriage.

The stats are in, and they are alarming. More than 50% of marriages end in divorce. And the statistics aren't any different for Christian marriages! This is alarming because we were given the blueprint to marriage handed to us via the Holy Bible. Nevertheless, marriages fail because the people in the marriage don't know how to be married; therefore, their marriage dies for lack of knowledge. And equally as bad is the toxins that we allow into our marriages; poisons that could have easily been avoided.

Christian and Married: How to Be One Without Losing the Other is a book that details the many issues found in marriage that come into the union with an innocent face and leave with the couple's wedding rings. From intrusive in-laws, pride, and adultery; Christian and Married: How to Be One Without Losing the Other covers all the bases of marital discord and helps the reader to find his or her way back into a happy marriage.

This book isn't just for marriages that are in trouble! This book gives you the knowledge and understanding needed to prevent trouble from entering your marriage. Did you know that some of the biggest issues that will contend with your marriage are issues that have went unnoticed and simmered over time? This is why you need to prepare yourself and your spouse so that the two of you can come together in unity against the issue and not against one another.

Author, Tiffany Kameni details her struggle in marriage, and the lessons that GOD taught her. Initially prideful, contentious, and unrelenting; Mrs. Kameni's journey to find peace within her marriage was a long and humorous journey. The author soon discovered that she had to find peace within herself and then transfer that peace into her marriage.

Get the knowledge that you need for your marriage to soar above the issues that challenge it daily.

Questions & Answers About the Book

I am having trouble in my marriage, and we are considering divorce. How can this book help us when we've both pretty much given up?

The truth is, you haven't given up on the marriage; you've simply given up because you don't know where else to turn or what else to do in the marriage. Once we reach our knowledge's limits, we often throw in the towel because we have truly given the marriage our all, but our all wasn't enough. That doesn't mean that your marriage should end, it simply means that you need more knowledge. Christian and Married: How to Be One Without Losing the Other is an accountability book that will help you to see and acknowledge your own wrongs in the marriage. It will also help your spouse to see his or her wrongs in the union, and the two of you can come together and compromise; this time bringing more knowledge to the table.

What if I'm willing to try to save the marriage, but I know my spouse isn't going to be willing to read this book or try to save our marriage. What can I do?

It's simple. When you equip yourself with the knowledge needed to save your marriage, you will learn how to better deal with a prideful spouse. When we learn to see our own faults, and act accordingly, we simultaneously become mirrors that cause our spouses to review their own faults. When we are guilty of challenging them, however, we help them to justify their ways.

I am a single man and I plan to be married one day. How can this book help me?

As mentioned earlier, marriages normally fail because of lack of knowledge. The couple enters the marriage not knowing how to be married. We know how to deal with a happy marriage because we've often rehearsed this in our minds, but many don't know how to deal in a marriage that is under attack. By getting the knowledge that you need now, you are preparing yourself in advance so that those issues can't enter your marriage, and if they do attempt to enter your marriage, you will know how to cause them to flee.

I've read a lot of marriage self-help books, and my marriage is still in the same place that it was before I started reading those books. How is your book different, and can

you guarantee me that your book will save my marriage?There are some pretty good marriage self-help books on the market. Either you haven't read the right ones, or you aren't wholly applying what is taught in those books. In addition, no one can guarantee you that your marriage will be saved because you and your spouse are the ones who are behind the wheel. Christian and Married: How to Be One Without Losing the Other will give you the fuel that you need to get to where you need to be. It's up to you whether you put this fuel in your life's vehicle or you use it to torch your marriage. One of the great things about this book is that it is an accountability book. We often see our spouse's issues, but most people don't see their own issues, or they minimize them because they don't see them as major issues. Any problem in your marriage, no matter how big or small it appears to you is a major issue. You need the knowledge and this book is wisdom-packed and knowledge-filled to give you the understanding that you need.

My husband had an affair and I'm in a terrible place right now. I'm ready to throw in the towel and just start my life over, but I'm not sure if that's the right thing to do. Can

this book help?I'm sorry to hear about the affair. I know how traumatizing and damaging an affair can be to anyone's marriage. This book can help you to decide what route is better for you. One of the agonies of an affair is the aftermath. It is the time when we come to the crossroads and have to decide which route to take. Should you stay or should you go? If you stay, how can you live with a man (or woman) who has betrayed you? If you go, have you made the right decision. Where you are now, many people have been. This book will give you the knowledge you need to forgive your spouse should you decide to stay. In addition, this would be a great read for the offending spouse because it will help him (or her) to see their wrongs and know what their choices are doing to their marriage.

I read the book, and I must say that it is POWERFUL! It truly helped me to become a better wife, but I want my husband to read it as well, and he is refusing to do so. How

can I get him to read the book?Men can be prideful and when you are suggesting that he does something, he may feel challenged in his position as a man. The best thing to do is to ask if the two of you can read it together and give your take on the information in the book. Secondly, if he's full of pride, he may not receive the messages in the book because he is coming in with a critical view. One of the best ways to remedy this is to have a marriage book party where the two of you and some of your friends come together and read Christian marriage books. All of you can agree to read a book, and come back to discuss what you read at each meeting. Be sure to incorporate something in there that the men will enjoy doing because women are naturally talkative, whereas men aren't. Agree to watch football with them after the meeting, and serve a hearty meal, for example. This would give him something to look forward to, and it'll lower his guard. Lastly, if you know someone who is Christian and married and have been married 20 plus years, invite them.

We are having a marriage retreat and I want to order several copies of this book. We will have about 30 couples there. Is there a discount available for bulk orders?

Yes, for orders of 20 copies or more, I can offer you a discount. Contact me via email at [email protected] or you can visit www.tiffanykameni.com to submit your request via the contact form.

Book Chapters

Note to the LadiesNote to the GentlemenResolving ProblemsPride: The Marriage SlayerThe Honeymoon StageGrowing Up In Your MarriageHabitual StrongholdsThe Spirit of Sexual PerversionTemptations and the Birth of ConsequenceAdulterous InsanityBeing SubmissiveBurning Old BaggageGet Out of the PastLiving In the Now and Not the LaterRetaliative MentalitiesBad Association (Friends, Foes & Family)Bad Advice Versus Good CounselForgive and ForgetExcessive Arguing- Uprooting the RootIrritable Spouse Syndrome

Paranoid Activity- The Plot ThickensBuilder or Demolition WorkerControl- Demons On the FreewayThe Voices of ContentionDue Benevolence: Why 'No' Is Not a Bad WordExercise or ExorcismMarried to An Unbeliever or Rebellious SpouseYour First LoveCompare Me To No One PleaseChiseling Away LayersChanging Your AtmosphereWhen You Need to Be QuarantinedRelease DateFreedom To Make MistakesMarriage Is Not All About YouCreating an Itch For the Spouse to ScratchAdultery PreventionTowers of Reception25 Tips For Married Couples

About the Author

As a wife, Tiffany Kameni has juggled every marital problem imaginable due to her own lack of knowledge when initially entering marriage. Once divorced, and twice challenged, Tiffany has journeyed the roads that she writes about. She is passionate about saving marriages, and she often counsels couples who have given up on their marriages. Her loving, but bold approach helps others to take accountability for their own actions, search out the root of their actions, and destroy the root of their issues.

She is also a Christian minister who has many gifts. Her passion and gift for writing can be witnessed throughout her many books and online articles. She is the founder of Anointed Fire ™, which boasts of several companies and establishments including: Anointed Fire Magazine®, Anointed Fire™ Seal and Logo Translations, Anointed Fire™ Branding, and Anointed Fire™ Christian Publishing.

The wife of Jean Kameni, a bio-engineer and entrepreneur; Tiffany Kameni has written many books that range in subject matter. Her published books include: Wise Her Still The Spirit of Heaviness and All Its Cousins Right the Book To Hell With HateThe Gospel Propeller

Mrs. Kameni also writes for several online establishments including Examiner. Her style of writing is said to be bold, humorous, and informative. She often addresses the issues that challenge both married individuals and singles via her articles and books.

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