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Challenges Faced by Military Families During and Post Deployment Steven L. Sayers, Ph.D. March 10, 2015 Center for Couples and Adult Families University of Pennsylvania Mental Illness, Research, Education and Clinical Center Philadelphia Veterans Affairs Medical Center

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Challenges Faced by Military Families

During and Post Deployment

Steven L. Sayers, Ph.D.

March 10, 2015

Center for Couples and Adult Families

University of Pennsylvania

Mental Illness, Research, Education and Clinical Center

Philadelphia Veterans Affairs Medical Center

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Goals

• Discuss issues of military cultural competence

– Military Family Life

– Nature of Combat Deployments

• Learn impact of deployment on couple

• Learn factors in readjustment and family

reintegration

• Discuss changes in practice when working with

military/Veteran couples and families

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Disclaimer and Conflict of Interest

Statement

• Not speaking on behalf of the Department of

Veterans Affairs

• Will list one resource which is a trade book on

which I am the author and have a financial

interest

– (Coming Back Together: A guide to successful

reintegration after your partner returns from

military deployment, 2014, New Harbinger

Publications)

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Notes on Military

Cultural Competence

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Military Family Life • Frequent family relocations

• Non-military spouse has some limits on career development

• National Guard and Reserve deployed in greater numbers in Iraq and Afghanistan conflicts

– Initially lower levels of family support

– Financial problems (did not anticipate deployment and lost income)

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Army Families

Percent of Soldiers Married

0

20

40

60

80

100

Enlisted Officer

AD Junior AD Mid-Grade AD Senior

Reserves National Guard

DOD 2004 Report: Population Representation in the Military 6

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What does it mean to be

deployed to a combat zone? 95%

93%

89%

86%

86%

80%

77%

69%

65%

50%

48%

38%

22%

22%

21%

14%

14%

8%

0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%

Seeing Dead Bodies/Remains

Shot At/Receiving Small Arms Fire

Being Attacked/Ambushed

Receiving Artillery, Rocket, Mortar Fire

Knowing Someone Killed/Ser. Injured

Clearing/Searching Homes

Shooting/Directing Fire at Enemy

Ill/Injured Women/Child Couldn't Help

Seeing Dead/Serious Inj. Americans

Handling/Uncovering Human Remains

Resp. for Death of Enemy Combatant

Participating in Demining Ops

Buddy Shot/Hit Near You

Engaged in Hand-to-Hand Combat

Saved Soldier/Civilian Life

Being Wounded or Injured

Responsible for Noncombatant Death

Close Call/Hit but Saved by Gear

Combat Exposure in Iraq

Hoge, et al, 2004, NEJM 7

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Military Cultural Competence • Importance of military training/cultural

issues

– Military training, culture and combat

experiences can be factors in treatment

– Veterans’ sense of separateness and

differences with non-Veterans

– “Sense of mission” loss after retirement

– “Moral” injury for many due to taking lives or

witnessing things they could not prevent

• See list of resources for online trainings

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Individual and Couple/Family

Impact of Combat Deployment

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Disruption During Deployment

• Separation and changes in support

structure

– Increased difficulty for NG, Reserve

component, or not being near a base

• Financial distress leading to relocation

– temporary relocations of family members

– parental stress, maternal depression

• Increased child symptoms

– behavior problems

Creech et al. (2014); Lincoln et al. (2011) 10

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Factors in Managing Deployments

• Preparatory period to deployment – Higher “op-tempo” prior to deployment

– Emotionally “shutting down” as soldier

prepares for mission (can be lengthy due to

uncertain departure dates)

• Communication during deployment

– Higher frequency desired by all

– More possible in past 10-15 years

– Thought to be universally good

• Caveats 11

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Issues with Deployment

Communication

• Electronic communication can be frequent (~50% daily)

– Mail, care packages, satellite phone, text via standard phone,

phone into base, webcam (Skype/Oovoo/Facetime)

• Seen as a way to stay connected to kids, to partner

• Possibly disruptive to service member performance

– Particularly with distressed couples

• Service members self-limit, emotionally detach

– To decrease emotional disruption, to protect the partner

• Sources of distress: unpredictability, variability

– Comm blackout = bad news, potential harm of service member

Carter et al. (2011, 2014); Cigrang et al. (2014); Sayers et al. (2014)

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Descriptions of Communication

• Missed or unpredictably of calls lead to anxiety, worry “…several times where he was late for whatever reason getting

on Skype with me and it would be like an hour or two where I

had his funeral planned and, you know, just to go there is not

fun…”

• Some level of detachment

“…It hurt my feelings, but now I kind of think it was like a

disengagement thing, where he kind of turned it off…”

• Protection of partner from worry

“…There’s a lot of it he didn’t tell me…it is sheltering, but at the

same time it’s just stuff that nobody needs to know…”

Sayers et al. (2014)

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Post-deployment Impact and

Family Reintegration Issues

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Individual Impact of Combat

• Up to 42% have mental health issues in post-

deployment period for OEF-OIF combat Veterans

– Highest rates: reserve/national guard from Iraq

– 15-25%, each, for PTSD or depression

• Mild Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) (~25%)

• Frequent complaint: musculoskeletal pain (~50%)

• Disclosure of combat experiences likely increases

SO support, decreases PTSD

Hoge et al. (2004); Gaylord (2006); Milliken et al. (2007); Spelman et al. (2012);

Balderrama-Durbin et al. (2013) 15

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Couple/Family Adjustment • “Honeymoon” period is not universal

– Less than half, low point 4 – 9 months after return

– “Linear” pattern-about half

– “Bounce” pattern-small % (highly variable)

• Decline in couple satisfaction – Pre-existing distress, trauma-related symptoms, poor social

support

• Increased divorce rate (AF sample)

• PTSD relationship physical aggression, rho = .42 – Stronger association in military males

• Positive and negative effects reported among married soldiers – Improved relationship 9.4%, Missed important family events

15.4%, Deteriorated relationship 11.6%

Balderrama-Durbin et al. (2013), Cigrang et al. (2014), MacDermid (unpublished, 2006); Newby et al. (2005); Taft et al. (2011)

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Frequent Post-deployment Issues

• Role and routine renegotiation is important.

• Loss of independence of spouse.

• Children continue to develop and change despite absence.

• Feeling like a “guest” at home. – Associated with major depression and PTSD

• Family role problems, marital dissatisfaction. – Associated with psychic numbing (PTSD), behavioral avoidance,

experiential avoidance

Erbes et al. (2014); MacDermid (unpublished, 2006), Pincus et al. (2007), Renshaw, 2010; Sayers et al. (2014), Sayers et al. (2009) 17

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Changes in Roles

Wives transition household responsibilities to

returning husbands slowly during reintegration:

Veterans

• “She readjusted the living room…it took me a while to get used to it.”

• “I couldn’t just undermine the authority [with kids] that she made while I

was gone…I had to do a lot of tongue-biting.”

Partners

• “I assumed he would jump right in, but he needed to get used to being

back.”

• “When he comes back, he wants to be in on the decision making

process…I don’t know if I’m willing to give that up.”

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Changes in Practice When

Working with Military/Veteran

Couples and Families

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Important Factors in Treatment

• High comorbidity, multi-problem

– PTSD

– Depression

– Alcohol/substance abuse

– Family Reintegration issues

– Mild traumatic brain injury—mTBI

– Musculoskeletal and other injury complaints

– Infidelity or private concerns about infidelity

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If a Veteran Does Not Want to Seek

Treatment

When a Veteran you know needs help…

888-823-7458

[email protected]

www.va.gov/CoachingIntoCare 21

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Treatment Example

• Richard: 15 yr Army Veteran w/ PTSD & TBI,

back injury, 2 children

• Julie: works part-time, MA drug/alcohol

counselor

• Issues: Infidelity during deployment, chronic

pain, chronic sleep problems, reintegration/re-

adjustment issues, irritability, parenting

differences

• Strengths: highly intelligent, little alcohol use

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Implications for Working with

Veteran Couples

• Respect for military cultural issues

– Military training and combat experiences lead

to reintegration problems (even without

PTSD)

– Veterans’ sense of separateness and

differences with non-Veterans

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Implications for Working with

Veteran Couples

• Long-term impact of PTSD symptoms and

older Veterans

– Legacy of chronic relationship problems,

substance abuse, under-employment

– Stigma of “Veteran” status

• No clear guidelines for treating comorbid

conditions

– Stigma and low education re: MH conditions

are barriers

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Assessment

• Spend a longer time on assessment.

• Identified reasons for treatment highly

important.

– Expressed reasons for treatment, multiple

agendas

• Ensure all areas assessed.

– military history, individual Tx needs

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Additional Issues for Assessment

• Military service history

– Deployments, relocations, exposure to trauma

– Use of probes about deployments, MOS

(military occupation specialty), get some

description

– Use standard measures (see resource list)

• Pain (0 – 10)

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Focus of treatment

• Select priorities carefully. – Comorbidities, multi-problem situations, concurrent treatments.

• Help the couple to renegotiate roles. – Help improve problem solving skills in general.

• Help the couple manage affect.

– Irritability, emotional withdrawal or constriction.

• Take into account military culture and training.

– Discuss “command” style, “paranoia”.

• Help the couple deal with the meaning of the experience.

– Helpful to see it as a challenge they overcame.

– Normalize the experience.

– In family sessions help children talk about their experience.

Bowling & Sherman (2008); Sayers (2010); Sayers et al. (2014) 27

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Treatment Example • Richard & Julie: 15 yr Army Veteran w/ PTSD &

TBI, 2 children

• Treatment

– Stabilized conflict through communication guidelines,

increasing positive interaction

– Addressed relationship vulnerabilities related to

infidelity

– Addressed long-standing polarization of style

differences (black/white rigid style vs. relational style)

– Individual Tx, addressed Veteran’s new realities

(chronic pain), starting a new life

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Thank you!

[email protected]

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