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BOARD OF DIRECTORS · LOVE YALL! THANK YALL! AMEN! Letters such these make even the worst day here a little more like heaven. Many thanks to all of you who take the time to write

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Page 1: BOARD OF DIRECTORS · LOVE YALL! THANK YALL! AMEN! Letters such these make even the worst day here a little more like heaven. Many thanks to all of you who take the time to write
Page 2: BOARD OF DIRECTORS · LOVE YALL! THANK YALL! AMEN! Letters such these make even the worst day here a little more like heaven. Many thanks to all of you who take the time to write

BOARD OF DIRECTORS

Jeff Negrete, President Robert Levine ADVISORY BOARD MEMBERSJohn Frye Jr., 1st V.P. Dennis Major Lynn BakerA. Thomas Ferdinandi, Jr., 2nd V.P. Carol Maul Elizabeth FillpotRobin Duke, Secretary Joel Murillo Anthony FolcarelliPatrick Bradley, Treasurer Tim O’Neill John “Nip” GallagherHank Bennett Ann Owen Linda MoradianTom Cleary John Pardini Tim NiblerSister Mary Clennon Melvin Renge Sister Ruth Marie Nickerson, CSCDJames Connelly Mayo Ryan D. Harvey OhMark Delton Mayo P. Ryan Robert H. ScribnerJIm Devaney Victor Salazar Marvin SmithCharles Farnsworth Rob Venenski Jane WorsleyJim Kinter

Mike McGarvin, Founder Cruz Avila, Executive Director

There was an old radio show called ThePassing Parade that ran from 1937 to 1951.The series centered on true but weird pastevents, and distinctive or bizarre peoplethroughout history. Seems to me that ThePoverello Parade would be an apt descrip-tion of the various people and situations thatfile by me as I sit at my observation post inthe Pov dining room.

For example, there’s a fellow I call Yukon Jack. He’s a formerprospector, which is why I gave him the nickname. He’s somewhereclose to my age (in other words, OLD), and he maintains an aura ofmystery about himself. He says hisprospecting was interrupted by beingimprisoned under false pretenses fornineteen years. Although he doesn’t gointo detail, he claims it was all political.After his release, he was hit by a carwhile riding his bike, which furtherdelayed his return to gold mining.

Yukon is a quiet guy who more orless keeps to himself. Now, in his senioryears, he wants to try prospecting again.He says he had a deal lined up with alandowner who agreed to let him prospect on his property for a tenpercent cut, but somehow the deal folded. Undaunted, he has put

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together a proposal for an “investment opportunity” to finance aventure on the Rogue River in Oregon.

What I like about him is his crusty uniqueness, the inscrutabilitysurrounding him, and his undaunted spirit. Like so many otherpeople I’ve met at Poverello House, God probably broke the moldafter He made Yukon Jack.

As I was doing my maître d’ duty recently, I was introduced to afamily that was struggling through a tragedy. The husband and fatherhad died in the hospital, and the bills started piling up. The mommade the decision to pay rent and forgo the utilities in order to keeptheir residence, but now the powercompany was close to cutting off theirgas and electricity. After havingPoverello staff screen them, I decided tohelp them out. When I told them I wasgoing to pay part of their PG & E bill,you could see the relief in their faces.Then, their twenty-something son, wholooked pretty tough, stunned me with arequest. On the verge of tears, he said tome, “Dude, can I give you a hug?”

Papa Mike’s Café, our chef Tito’s brainchild of having a verynice, restaurant-quality meal once a month, has had an impact on atleast one person. I came over one night to observe the meal. Awoman started crying halfway through, and another woman broughther over to me. Through her tears, she said, “I just wanted to thankyou. I’m so happy about the way you treated me tonight.”

Apparently, the good café dinner and the polite Pov residentstouched her heart. After becoming homeless, she wasn’t used tobeing treated like a lady. That night, she slept at Naomi’s House,and her roommate told me that she was still crying the next morning.

Meeting a character like Yukon Jack, getting a hug from agrateful young man who calls me “Dude,” orbeing thanked by a tearful woman aren’t assetsthat I can put in the bank. However, they are thekinds of treasures that I bank in my heart, andthey make me awfully grateful for this placecalled Poverello House.

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Health and the Homeless

It is impossible to truly understand homelessness apart fromhealth issues. Both physical and mental health crises play majorroles in who becomes homeless, as well as the longevity andattendant misery of one’s homeless condition.

One thing that many can’t understand is that homelessness doesnot occur in a vacuum. There are reasons that each and everyperson at Poverello House is here. Most of the stories involve slowdescents into poverty and chaos; others happen more rapidly.

It is popularly believed that economic distress forces peopleonto the streets. Although poverty is almost always a corollary ofhomelessness, it is not a sufficient causal explanation; if it was, thenhomelessness would disappear in a booming economy. For many,economic privation and consequent homelessness are the end resultof complexities that often involve health-related issues.

Many people have pre-existing health setbacks before they endup on the streets, such as schizophrenia, emphysema, or epilepsy,and, in fact, those pre-existing conditions, especially mental illness,are major contributors to homelessness. Other health troubles mightactually be a result of a homeless or addictive life, such as diabetes(common in alcoholics), pneumonia (from exposure to ill people onthe streets, exacerbated by harsh winters), severe infections (frominjuries left unattended), scabies (common among the homeless),psychosis (from organic brain disorders caused by substance abuseand stress exacerbating existing psychological troubles) or tubercu-losis (from close-range exposure to personswith active TB). Whether the issues in-volve physical or mental health, theseproblems are dangerous to individuals andthose around them. Two recent examplesillustrate this.

A woman we’ll call Jane is known tobe mentally ill. She shows all the signs:unkempt personal appearance, bizarrebehavior, and speaking to unseen people inher hallucinations. Although most of the

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mentally ill people at Poverello are harmless, one day Jane didsomething that was horribly alarming. A family had come in to eatat lunchtime. Jane walked up to their table, snatched their infant outof its baby seat, and walked rapidly out.

Fortunately, our security team saw what happened and stoppedher. The child was returned, the police were called, and Jane wastaken in for an involuntary 72-hour observation. Of course, after theobservation, she was returned to the streets, no better for her stay.

Jose (not his real name) had a young dog, Ginger, to keep himcompany. He twisted his ankle fairly severely and went to theemergency room. He asked us to keep his dog while he was gone.

Once he was at the hospital, the doctors observed necrosis inhis toes. The man is a diabetic, and had neglected himself severely,resulting in the deterioration of the tissue in his extremities. Thetoes had to be amputated. Jose called us and begged us to continuewatching his dog during his prolonged stay.

Unfortunately, because the tissuedeath continued to progress, unabatedby the attempts to save his limb, it laterrequired the amputation of his foot, andfinally his leg.

His diabetes was exacerbated bythe unhygienic conditions on the streets,poor diet, possibly by ingestion ofalcohol, and inattention to his worsen-ing condition. This is not an atypicalsituation; we’ve seen it repeated manytimes over.

The Holy Cross Clinic is a god-send for people such as Jose and Jane. The clinic can monitormedications, treat problems before they become serious, and referpeople to specialists to address their specific problems. Healthcare issues for the homeless are complex and often difficult to treat,but the Clinic is well-suited for this unique kind of care, becausethey are not only skilled and well-supplied, but also they are righthere, easily accessible and free to those who cannot afford to pay.The Clinic and its dedicated staff and volunteers are conspicuousblessings for which we are constantly grateful.

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Priceless Letters

One of the biggest rewards we get at Poverello House is theletters people send us. We receive notes from donors, volunteers,and people we have helped in some way. All are touching, someamusing, but all are appreciated.

Charlie is a Vietnam vet whowas in our rehab program over adecade ago. He got sober in theprogram, became involved in A.A.,and has remained alcohol-free eversince. He is now a long-haul truckdriver, and periodically sends usmissives and postcards from variousexotic (and not so exotic) placesduring his travels. He has a greatsense of humor, and it’s alwayswonderful to hear, yet again, that he’sstill sober, still working, and continu-ing to post his hilariously sardonic observations about life.

Donors often send us thanks for the work we do, which seemsironic, because it’s their contributions that make the work possible.Nevertheless, it is gratifying to hear from them, because it lets usknow that they are not just writing a check and forgetting, but thatthey care deeply about the poor and homeless. Here’s an example:

Dear Mike,Just wanted to thank you for all you do for all the

homeless people of Fresno. Please don’t ever give up onthem. Even when things seem hopeless. Our family isblessed because we have each other, our home & food toeat. We help when we can. Our city is blessed to have you& all those workers at the Poverello House. May Godbless you & keep you healthy & strong.

The following letter made a few of us choke up:

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Remember, we now take credit card donations. Please seethe enclosed envelope for instructions.

To donate online, visit our website at www.poverellohouse.org

February Wish List Coffee * Coffee creamer * Winter clothing * Copy paper

Dear Poverello House,I hope that this small amount can help you continue to

help the homeless/less fortunate in our community. At onetime, several years ago, I was homeless too for a year. Butwith God’s help I made it back on my feet. My heart willALWAYS go out to those less fortunate because I have beenthere. May you continue this great service.

And there’s this one, humble and poignant:

I think it is very nice of you to send me a letter ofthanks every mo. But it is not necessary. Save the paper &stamps for someone else.

Poverello helped me out 40 yrs. ago BIG time.

Then there are the periodic letters from a woman who goes bythe moniker, “Sexy.” She’s one of our favorite correspondents.Here’s a sample of one of her letters:

Hello its me Sexy. Hi How are yall doing? Well meI’m OK ... Hi to yall and all the homeless people there Ihave not 4got about yall because yall have not forgotabout every body else... Me and my family and God loveyall! ...BLESS YALL! LOVE YALL! THANK YALL! AMEN!

Letters such these make even the worst day here a little morelike heaven. Many thanks to all of you who take the time to write tous. It’s a greater blessing than you can ever imagine.

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