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    A Donation FromThe AngelKIT Foundation

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    Copyright: Susan Binau & The AngelKIT Foundation

    The AngelKIT is Developed by Nordic Wizards with inspiration from Jeannie Lee

    Front cover: Graphic designers Nannali Juliet Trierand Nanette Vabo

    AngelKIT Logo by Nannali Juliet Trier

    Editor: Ellie Maas DavisPressque, LLC

    www.angelkit.org for more information

    A Nonreligious Donation

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    In frantic emergency rooms and otherwise sterile corridors, the AngelKIT is designedto bring basic human comfort to hospital patients nearing death. Its meant to aid the

    hospitals staff and those others who are directly involved in experiencing a patient,

    friend, or family members passing. Knowledge of the dying process, and its physical

    signs, can make all the difference in being able to create a calm, comforting environment.

    The AngelKIT give professionals and laypersons tools to help ensure terminally ill

    patients pass with a sense of honor and dignity.

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    Dear Relative, or Friend,

    Although death is just as natural as birth, death is surrounded by taboo. As a general rule,

    we find it difficult to talk about it, but with knowledge of the details and facts, those whoare dealing with a terminally ill loved one will be better equipped to support them andmake them more at ease during the final stages of life.

    Its extremely hard to watch someone you love die. Many patients suffer long,progressive diseases that take huge mental and physical tolls on family and friends.Under such stress, it can be difficult to communicate with one another, the medical staff,and the person who is dying. Its very important that potential conflicts are not discussedwhen a familys stress is at a high. Its better to acknowledge difficult moments and letthose moments pass. The dying persons needs must always be the priority, so chooseyour battles wisely and with great care.

    More than anything, its important to remember that you wont have all of the answersand thats okay. Inevitably, a lot of what the dying process comes down to is an ability tolet go. While you focus on doing all you can for your loved one, keep in mind that your

    heart will lead the way in the care and sustenance youre able to provide.

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    The AngelKIT will help. It has a lot of what youll need, but what you may lack inimmediate, firsthand knowledge, youll be able to supplement by following your instinct.I believe you, the reader, have the answers for whats right for your loved ones. I humbly

    hope that the AngelKIT helps guide you in making your loved ones last moments allyou and they want and need it to be.

    With love & hope,

    Susan BinauAuthor and Cancer Survivor

    SUnable are the loved to die. For love is immortality.~Emily Dickinson

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    Contents

    The Story Behind the AngelKIT 8

    A Definition of a Worthy Passing 9

    The Journey towards Death 12

    Division of Roles 17

    How to Best Use the AngelKIT 19

    Grief and Mourning 23

    The Music CD and the Science Behind It 24

    Prayers 27Helpful Links 29

    About the Author 30

    Acknowledgements 31

    Notes 33

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    The Story Behind the AngelKIT: A Word from Author Susan Binau

    After I survived colon cancer in 2006, I decided to dedicate my life to supporting

    families dealing with serious illness and help those with a relationship, whether

    professional or familial, to someone who is near death.

    My deepest wish is to give people hope, inspiration, and tools to face difficult times.

    Since my own near-death journey, I have spoken with thousands of peoplehealthcare

    professionals, relatives of the dying and terminally ill, and children left behind after a

    parents passingwhove provided me with priceless knowledge that I carry in my heart

    each and every day.

    The idea of the AngelKIT came to me in a dream. The premise is twofold. First, its tohelp caregivers feel less alone in the process of losing a loved one; secondly, to help

    caregivers realize that simple things can make a big difference in the way their loved one

    experiences the process of death. This kits purpose is to make death as dignified as

    possible for the dying person, and as gentle as possible on their relatives.

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    A Definition of a Worthy Passing

    Based on research with terminally ill patients, their relatives, and the healthcare

    professionals, who care for them, a worthy passing might be described as and include:

    Everyone involved complies to the wishes the dying has expressed

    If possible, talk to loved ones about our wishes as well as their wishes regarding

    death

    Its optimal to openly discuss where and how death will likely occur

    An assurance that the dying has professional treatment and the most possiblepain relief

    To ensure that the room is set up and ready for the final journey

    Confidence that friends and relatives are familiar with the process of death

    Cooperation between relatives and the professionals is optimal

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    Many of the people I have talked to mention that in the last hours of their loved ones

    life, there was serenity. They describe the death in terms such as:

    With a little smile, she passed peacefully away.

    He held my hand and pressed it softly before he closed his eyes.

    Im sure she could feel my presence.

    He had no pain.

    Such memories satisfy us and help us in the process of grievingknowing we did what

    we could to be present, available, and show our love. Ultimately, thats all any of us can

    plan or hope when it comes to supporting a patient in the final moments of life.

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    Concerning a Dying Person

    Speak in a normal tone. Dont speak in third person as if the person is already dead or

    cant hear you. Try to have patience throughout the process; sometimes we get impatientbecause we know the person is in pain, but its exceedingly important to have faith, act

    rationally, and remain calm. If youre upset by anything, go out of the room. Return only

    once youve composed yourself. If youre sharing the watch, take turns watching over the

    dying to ensure that everyone takes rests.

    If you feel uncomfortable with anything, try to find someone you trust and talk to them.

    At hospitals you can often find help and support (such as caregivers psychologist andpriests). Ask the staff if they the can recommend somebody. We offer links in the back of

    the book you might find useful and have concise chapters about the process of dying and

    grieving. Maybe you dont have the energy to read it now; read it whenever you feel the

    time is right.

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    The Journey towards Death

    Like birth and life, the process of dying is unique to each individual.

    With a terminally ill person, the dying process usually begins well before signs of deathbegin to show; there are signals and indications of imminent death that are well known to

    healthcare professionals, though while sitting aside the deathbed of one of your loved

    ones, it can be difficult to know exactly what to expect.

    The most common question among relatives is when it will happen. And thats hard, if

    not impossible, to say. Terminally ill patients getting worse and worse by the month willprobably only have months to live. A patient getting weaker each week, weeks. And the

    patient whose condition gets worse every day, probably only days. Apart from that, life

    and death often surprise us. Theres no exact schedule; there are only warning signs and

    symptoms to look for.

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    Months Prior to Death

    Some people prepare for death mentally and contemplate life and death. Others never

    really do and do not want to talk about it. In my experience, almost everybodybe it

    hours before death or weeks beforehandat some point recognizes that their death is

    imminent. During the months preceding death, a persons appetite is often reduced. Oftenthere is also a significant weight loss. The person also sleeps more than usual, and there

    is a certain withdrawal from everyday life.

    Weeks Prior to Death

    This is the time during the journey that the dying person begins to sleep most of the time.

    Appetite is further reduced; it seems to take more energy to process the food than it doesto eat it. Theres also a gradual loss of thirst. Elimination is affected. There may be

    incontinence; bowel control may also be lost during this period. Though not eating and

    drinking in this period has reduced the contents of both bladder and bowel.

    The person may seem to withdraw more and more from life. Disorientation is common;

    altered senses of perception can be expected. One may experience delusions, such as

    fearing hidden enemies or feeling invincible. Caregivers can best help by assisting the

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    person with physical tasks, while being sensitive to their feelings and attending to their

    comfort as much as possible.

    Days and Hours Prior to Death

    The person may now refuse to eat or drink, and goes in and out of consciousness. Youmight speak a few words with the person, and suddenly they drift off to sleep. It may feel

    like the person is between worlds. The body temperature lowers; arms and legs are

    cold, blotchy, and purplish. Pulse becomes irregular. Skin color changes, breathing

    changes occur; the breathing can become more labored, and sometimes congested.

    If not unconscious, during the last twenty-four hours, there may be a surge of energy. Theperson may talk to loved ones, or ask for food after days of no appetite. This surge of

    energy may be quite a bit less noticeable. The surge of energy is usually short-lived, and

    the previous signs become more pronounced as death approaches. It is widely believed

    that hearing is the last sense to go so it is recommended that loved ones sit with and talk

    to the dying person during this time.

    When death is imminent, the person usually becomes unresponsive and may have theireyes open or semi-open with a glassy fixed stare, not seeing their surroundings. Hands

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    and feet will be cold; the jaw will be open as they often breathe through their mouth.

    Eventually, breathing will cease altogether as the heart stops and death has occurred.

    A Word on Children Dealing with a Parents Imminent Death

    A warmhearted priest from Denmark says: If you dont talk about the dead, they die

    twice.

    Many people avoid talking to their children about theirs or a loved ones imminent death.

    They want to spare the child heartache, but ultimately, with silence, there is more

    confusion and additional suffering.Not

    talking to a child about a parent or close loved

    ones impending and probable death is never a solution.

    There are instances when terminally ill parents promise theyll come back. This does

    nothing but keep a child waiting. You can always hope for the best, but when it comes to

    death and dying, honesty is the best policy. Be clear about the process, discuss the details,

    and ask the child his or her feelings every step of the way. Yes, its painful to lose a

    parent, especially if a child is young, but whether or not the child has siblings and

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    regardless of age, he or she must be made aware of whats likely to happen and what the

    worst case scenario is.

    An activity that helps bridge understanding is to create a memory box. Its a place

    where children can keep pictures, letters, quotes, and other memorabilia of the person

    they love who is dying. Help the patient write notes to the children they haverelationships with; tape their voices, use videotape, do anything to keep their memories

    alive.

    Children cope differently. Seeking help from professionals, insight from support groups

    in your community, and guidance from your church can make all the difference.

    Transparency is an important step for the surviving parent; its also an incredible tool to

    help ensure a better quality of life to a surviving child.

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    SIn the night of death, hope sees a star, and listeninglove can hear the rustle of a wing.

    ~Robert Ingersoll

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    Division of Roles

    It can be very demanding to sit with the dying and sometimes it takes longer than initiallyexpected. It is important that the relatives take time for breaks; maybe all you need is a

    moment in the fresh air or maybe you need to go home for a shower and a change of

    clothes.

    Luckily, there are often more relatives that can take turns to sit by the dyingother times

    there is only one. If this is the case, caretakers can relieve the pressure on the relative, so

    the person can take a well-deserved break knowing that the dying still has a warm hand

    to hold. If there are only a few relatives, ask the staff if they can help by for example

    contacting volunteers that can relieve the stress, the local priest or others that are needed

    in this process.

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    Divide the Roles between the Relatives

    Some can be in charge of controlling the visiting hours, for example, on an excel

    document. Others can be in charge of bringing fresh flowers, some are better equipped at

    communicating with the staff, and maybe someone is good at informing everybody via

    email or phone calls. The better the relatives work together, the better everyone feels and,without a doubt, this affects the patient in a very positive way.

    What Is Typically Happening to the Close Family?

    On the emotional level, we now have to say goodbye to one of our loved ones, and at the

    same time make sure that everything happens as peacefully and painlessly as possible.

    For many people, they are dealing with death for the first time, and they have no clue

    what to do. More often than not, our hearts tell us what to do; its natures gift to all

    mankind. Talking and sharing with others is also a good way to find the best possible

    solution. After talking to so many people, whether youre in Europe or in USA or

    anywhere else, while traditions may vary, its universal to want the best for your relatives

    and friends, especially during their final days.

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    How to Best Use the AngelKIT

    Hospitals are often uncomfortable places to die. A dying person and their relatives often

    need more attention than its possible for healthcare providers to give. The AngelKIT

    supports the team of professionals that might not have the time they wish they had. Its

    basis is common sense, years of experience, and science. With these helpful measures,you will be able to focus on whats important for you and your loved one during this

    process.

    In your kit, you will find an LED candle, a CD, lip balm, an Angel, as well as general

    information on the dying process.

    Turn down harsh lights, make sure the patients linens are clean, and remember to letsome fresh air into the room once in a while. The use of the candle will help make the

    room as calming and peaceful as possible. Normally, hospitals dont like people to use

    real candles; hence, LED candles are an amazing substitute.

    Sound checks are welcome. Tuning out the regular hospital noise often instantly relieves

    stress and brings comfort to patients and families. Thats why you will also find a CD

    with meditative music. The ability to hear sound is the last sense to leave a dying person.Whether its from a disc player or laptop, the CD is proven to calm people and relax

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    them. Even though your loved one is not awake, theyre still able to hear and feel the

    soothing melodies.

    MusiCures CD-sampler represents a cross-section of the MusiCure program. These

    shorter examples of the complete series are linked into one continuous movement, which

    can be heard and experienced as a coherent journey through what can best be describedas MusiCures relaxing and inspiring universe.

    In addition to the LED candle and the MusiCure CD-sampler, you will find lip balm in

    the kit. Lip balm is another way to care for the terminally ill, who often have dry,

    chapped lips. Moisturizers for the skin can also be soothing. Ensure that your loved one

    has enough to drink, and that his or her lips are soft and moisturized. Even though she

    may not be conscious she can hear, sense, and feel thirst.

    Rituals have a place. Prayers, poems, quotes, and last words offered with a soft voice can

    have significant effect. Enjoy these sacred, eternal moments. Now more than ever, ethics

    and behavior matter. Details like dim light, calming sounds, and basic knowledge of what

    is about to happen can make dying more peaceful. Tell your loved one what youre doing

    at all times. Tell them what you feel and what they have taught you. Recall experiences

    youve had together. Its never too late to say, I love you, I forgive you, or Please

    forgive me. From moment to moment, listen to what your heart has to say.

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    Touching the dying person can be very important. The dying person will feel your

    presence. Its important they dont feel alone. Use this guide as inspiration, but you can

    also use your intuition. Remember to be gentle and to make slow movements. The

    comforting touch of a relative can be a calming experience. For the dying person, it is

    very important and, for the relatives, its an opportunity to do something useful. Amassage can release tension and relax the patient, which improves your and their sense of

    wellbeing.

    During the final stage of life, there is an increasingly special place for touch; this could

    be in the form of gentle massage, simply holding a persons hand or even just a

    practitioner's presence. Through the act of compassionate touch, body workers can be

    instrumental in showing families that despite the decline of their loved ones body theyare worthy of the same tenderness and care as a newborn baby. Just as touch is one of the

    first forms of communication a baby receives, it may be one of the final ways we talk to a

    person who is dying.

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    Massage Steps for Hands:

    1. Softly place one of the patients hand between yours for a few seconds. Using yourthumbs, gently massage the palm of the hand.

    2. Massage the back of the hand, working in between the bones to help release anytension. Do not press too hard.

    3. Massage each of the fingers and the thumb in turn, squeezing, rotating, and caressingthem tenderly.

    4. Using light strokes, draw your hands down your partner's arm, down the hand, andoff at the fingertips. This finishes the hand massage.

    5. Move round to the opposite side of your partner. Now repeat every stage of the handsequence for this side of the body.

    Massage Tip:

    Find a comfortable position for working on the patients hand. You may find it best to use

    an extra pillow if one is next to the bed. You may also add lavender to the oil if you want

    a calming scent.

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    Grief and Mourning: After Death Occurs

    It is just as noble and meaningful to be a part of creating a worthy death, as it is to save

    lives.

    Upon a loved ones death, many relatives wish to sit for awhile, before they go home.

    Some might find it comforting to say a prayer; two prayers, one non-denominational and

    one Christian, are included near the end of this booklet. Another idea is to put flowers by

    the dead and light candles. Many also have a tradition of opening the window, so the

    soul can fly away. If there are relatives coming from far away and they do not make it

    while the dead is still in the wardroom, there is the option of saying goodbye in the

    hospital chapel.

    In so many ways, its cheerless to care for a dying patient. But while its undoubtedly sad,

    it helps the grieving process to have made sure that the terminally ill patient experienced

    the optimal death with the least amount of pain as possible. It takes courage to be there

    for someone who is dying, and such courage will guide families and friends as they

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    The Music CD and the Science Behind It

    MusiCure, music as medicine, is a series of special composed soundscapes written

    and produced by the celebrated Danish born composer Niels Eje.

    The MusiCure productions originally stems from the Musica Humana Researchproject where independent medical researchers, working closely together with the

    composer, have carried out numerous controlled clinical trials with this music and

    documented the effect with scientific methods on several different patient groups in

    Scandinavia and the United States.

    MusiCure it deliberately intended to have a soothing and relaxing effect, and at the

    same time create positive mental stimulation and inspiration. The creation and

    development of the music is based on feedback, knowledge, and insight provided by the

    medical research.

    What makes MusiCure special is the fact that the music has been created from scratch

    specifically for the above-mentioned purposes. Since 2003, scientific articles describing

    the research results have been published in international medical journals, such as:Intensive and Critical Care Nursing,Pediatric Anesthesia,European Journal of

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    Cardiovascular Nursing,Heart & Lung: The Journal of Acute and Critical Care,Journalof Clinical Nursing, et al.

    The effect of adjunctive treatment with MusiCure demonstrates the following

    documented results: Reduced feeling of anxiety, pain, and stressand an increased feeling of

    wellbeing

    Diminished use of medication, i.e. tranquilizers, sleeping drugs and sedatives

    Significant reduction of the bodys production of stress hormone, cortisol

    Increased production of the beneficial hormone, oxytocin

    Improvement of sleep quality and rest for all patient groups

    The MusiCure series are widely used as a supplementary treatment in many hospitals

    worldwide, as well as a tool for relaxation, stress relief, and positive inspiration for

    thousands all over the world.

    Today, the MusiCure CD series consists of 10 original CD releases, which in

    Scandinavia is sold exclusively at pharmacies, because of the comprehensive researchdocumentation behind this specially composed music.

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    In 2007, MusiCure and composer Niels Eje, together with executive producer Inge

    Mulvad Eje, received the prestigious first prize at the Blair Sadler healing arts

    competition in Nashville, Tennessee, USA.

    More information about MusiCure and the research behind the CD series can be found at:

    www.musicahumana.org and www.musicure.com

    Disclaimer:

    MusiCure is created as a supplementary tool for stress relief, positive inspiration, and motivation.

    Through controlled clinical studies published in international medical journals, this music has been

    proven to be able to reduce stress, anxiety, pain, and to minimize the use of medication, but it is not ableto heal or cure diseases in itself. The word cure (as a part of the combined brand name) should be

    understood in the same way as it is used in words like manicure and pedicure.

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    Psalm of David

    The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.

    He maketh me to lie down in green pastures:he leadeth me beside the still waters.

    He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of

    righteousness for his name's sake.

    Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death;

    I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.

    Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies:

    thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.

    Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life;

    and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.

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    Prayer

    My pain is gone, I rest in peaceI need not fear, my souls release.

    Though tears and sorrow I depart

    To forever live inside your heart

    As friends and loved ones gather near

    My memory will linger near.

    B. Robert Clark,

    12.29.10

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    Books for Further Inspiration

    Doreen Virtue

    Daily Guidance from your Angels

    Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, MD

    On life after Death

    On Children and Death

    Raymonda Moody, JR, MD

    The Light BeyondLife After Life

    Stephen Levine

    A Year to Live

    Who Dies?

    Viktor E. Frankl, MD

    Mans Search for Meaning

    Helpful Links

    www.griefshare.org

    www.hearthope.com

    www.compassionatefriends.orgwww.missfoundation.org

    www.worldprayers.org

    www.candlelighters.org

    www.growthhouse.org

    www.hospicefoundation.org

    Angel Kit Foundation

    www.angelkit.org

    Nordic Wizards

    www.nordicwizards.com

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    About the Author:

    Susan Binau is a Danish motivational speaker, philanthropist and the author ofTillSickness Do Us Part: How Love Survives in Difficult Times,A Dignified Farewell, The

    Lion and the Scenic Route, and Mommy, Can I Have Your PC If You Die: The Story of a

    Family Struck by Cancer. Susan is the founder of the Female Courage Foundation andNordic Wizards. Susan and her husband Alan live with their 4 children in Denmark, and

    enjoy their second home in Florida, USA throughout the year.

    About the Composer:

    Niels Eje was educated at the Carl Nielsen Academy of Music and later studied with

    Lothar Koch at the Berlin Philharmonic. He has toured all over the world performing

    concerts in the United States, Japan, England, Sweden, Mexico, Germany, and France,among others, and including his native Denmark. In 1998, together with Professor Lars

    Heslet, he developed Musica Humana, an interdisciplinary research organization aimed

    at creating soothing musical environments in hospitals. Once a Denmark-based initiative,

    MusiCure is now an international movement. To learn more about their efforts go to

    www.musicure.com, and to learn more about the science behind the music go to

    www.musicahumana.org. In 2007, Niels Eje was awarded the First Place Professionalin the Blair L. Sadler International Healing Arts Competition.

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    Acknowledgements

    A special thanks to my late father who taught me important lessons during this journey,

    and to my partner Nannali Juliet Trier for making time for this important work. I extend

    gratitude to Ellie Maas Davis for being sharp, precise, and finishing my sentences in a

    loving and patient way, and to Jeannie Lee for her guidance and energy, Nanette Vabo for

    her creativity and wisdom, Jan Horde for being a true friend, and Inge Mulvad and

    Composer Niels Eje for sharing years of research and experience.

    I am indebted to Klara Balling, MD, for her insight and expertise. None of this would

    have been possible without all the friends and volunteers of Celebration in Florida whohelped us put the Angel Kits together.

    A special thanks to author and cancer survivor B. Robert Clark, who wrote the beautiful

    prayer in the booklet.

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    As always, I appreciate my husband Alan and my four children who wait patiently for me

    to return to the world after working on a project. And again, I am also indebt to those

    who, over the last three years conducting my research, let me ask the hard questions andto those spirits who, having now passed, give me courage to attempt to make the passing

    less difficult for others.

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    Notes

    Dear Reader,

    The following pages are for your and your familys notes, thought, reminders, andmessages to each other. Its also a good place to jot your doctors advice and anythingelse you find important.

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    STo live in hearts we leave behind, is not to die.~Thomas Campbell, "Hallowed Ground" , by Thomas Moore

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    S Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow,

    May looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow.

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