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Presentation by Amanda Gilmore
MASTERING
ACCOMMODATION AND AVOIDANCE
STRATEGIES
WHY CARE?
• “Accommodating and avoiding: neither gets you a
big win, but each is nonetheless an extremely
important approach– and ones you should master
in order to be well prepared for all circumstances” (Lewicki & Hiam, p. 186).
When the immediate stakes are low,
• Give in. Accommodating is strategically letting the
other side win.
• Steer clear. Avoidance is not participating in
negotiations.
IN BRIEF…
It’s natural
• 10-30%
• Strategic VS. “Knee-Jerk”
• Social Value Orientation: Prosocial or Pro-self
• Conflict Comfortable or Conflict Averse
• Daniel Goleman
ACCOMMODATION
Don’t mindlessly use it as your default.
• Patterned accommodaters might finally snap, then
they just look unreasonable.
• People don’t see the sequence of “giving in” that
came beforehand… they just see you overreacting
now.
• Assertiveness training deals with this realm.
ACCOMMODATION
Use when…
“Accommodation is used when the relationship
is more important than the outcome of the
negotiation. The person using this strategy
prefers to concentrate on building or
strengthening the relationship”
(Lewicki & Hiam, p. 189).
ACCOMMODATIO
N
Some tips…
• Investment Strategy
• Verbal about your sacrifices
• The big picture
• Buying time
ACCOMMODATIO
N
The pitfalls…
• Appear condescending
• Other side is suspicious about you rolling over
To combat this, Lewicki and Hiam suggest
putting on a show at first and at least pretending
to try before accommodating.
ACCOMMODATIO
N
Used as a strategy, it’s not lazy. It’s choosing
your battles wisely.
“It makes sense to avoid the negotiation when
neither outcome nor relationship concerns are
important to you” (Lewicki & Hiam, p. 189).
AVOIDANCE
Considerations…
• Costs VS. Potential Gains
• Volatile other party
AVOIDANCE
Tips…
• Withdrawal-Threat Tactic
• Other strong options
• Waiting Game
• Short-term Strategy
AVOIDANCE
Two types…
• Active or Passive
• “In active avoidance, the party refuses to
negotiate at all. In passive avoidance, the
party does not show up for the negotiation or
shows up but voices no objections during the
negotiation” (Lewicki & Hiam, p. 200).
AVOIDANCE
It’s not so bad…
• Not popular
• “Lose-lose” technically, but
• Active choice to avoid can be smart
AVOIDANCE
In sum…
• Requires intentionality
• Conserves time/resources
• THEY ARE THE UNDERDOGS!
ACCOMMODATION AND AVOIDANCE
Discussion starters…
• Give an example of when you have (or might
want to) use one of these strategies.
• What misconceptions did you have about
these tactics before this chapter?
ACCOMMODATION AND AVOIDANCE
• Lewicki, R. J. & Hiam, A. (2006). Mastering
business negotiation, a working guide to
making deals and resolving conflict. San
Francisco: Jossey-Bass.
REFERENCE