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What do highly effective leaders and teams do differently? Is there a science to great leadership? The answer is yes and the key is learning the science of managing our emotions. Learn how the science of emotions can be leveraged to help build relationships, show compassion and integrity, lead innovation and drive performance. According to a recent Harvard study, Emotional Intelligence counts for twice as much as IQ and technical skills combined in determining who will be most effective at demonstrating these kinds of qualities, making it the greatest driver of success in Leadership.

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© 2012 UnitedHealth Group. Any use, copying or distribution without written permission from UnitedHealth Group is prohibited.© 2012 UnitedHealth Group. Any use, copying or distribution without written permission from UnitedHealth Group is prohibited.

Emotional Intelligence for Personal and Organizational Leadership

Sam SmithManagement Development ConsultantUnitedHealth Group

[email protected]

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IQ Technical Skills

EICompetencies

3 Domains of Competence

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EI Competency Model

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Intention vs. Impact

Intention BehaviorEmotions Impact

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Limbic System

Amygdala

… do I eat it, or does it eat me?

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Increasein Certainty

(move toward default behavior)

Act on impulsewith even more Certainty(move even closer to default behavior)

x x

xx

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Degrees of Hijack

Full PerspectiveLoss of

Perspective

TriggerHijacked!(default behavior)

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Early Warning System

What is an early warning system?

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What’s Your Strategy?

SOSS

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Mood Elevator

What floor are you on?

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Safety

Value

Respect

Acceptance

Power

Success

Emotional Needs19

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Less self control More errors Movement toward

default behavior

Emotional Hijack Summary

Hijack Less perspective Less judgment More certainty

Trigger

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What are you currently doing to show that you value and appreciate the people in

your organization?

Value and Appreciation

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Building Bridges

Understanding Gap

1.Listen

2.Label

3. Look for Solutions

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Listen: The Power of the Question

What part of the brain decides whether you are asking a

question or making a statement?

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Label: Find the Roots

Say

Mean

RISK

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Look for Solutions

When?Who?

Why?

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Where do I go from here?

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Emotional Intelligence for Personal and Organizational Leadership

Sam SmithManagement Development ConsultantUnitedHealth Group

[email protected]