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    recognize and evaluate the influences of roles in society on a relationship level.characterize communication in close relationships

    influences that made me conform to social norms.

    address the issues

    first, conforming to external influencessecond, change the situation or conformthird benefit or hindered by the situationlastly, if I were required to experience that again, ... change about the situation.

    society, power, courtship, and marriage orsociety, power, and friendship

    matter of choicematter of preference

    strong influences, such as proximity, attractiveness, and similarities.These societal elements go towards determining whom we choose as a partner.

    why do most couples have wedding ceremonies

    unrecogninzed societal norms.

    commonly held sterotypes also influence choices about whom one should or shouldnot date and/or marry.

    most churches are not receptive to gay couples.

    Corporations also develop policies to limit providing gay partners benefits.

    power,

    the media portrays male aggression as normal and acceptable.some women even interpret aggression from their husbands as a sign of love.

    Friendships play an extremely important role in the lives of adolescents.

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    communication ethics statement about communication in close relationships

    analyze and develope my own personal communication ethics statementthree considerations that can impact communication with others.

    authentic communication refers to communication that is open and free from pretense. We expect our closest friendsto be authentic, or "real" with us. we are connecting with their "true" selves and we are

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    able to be our truest selves with them inside the friendship. Denying them theright to communicateauthentically can lead to teermination of the relationship.being open in your own communication is the key. Taking responsibility for whatyou say, and respectingthe rights of othersto speak will lead to longivity in the relationship.

    authentic relationships require that you take responsibility for what you say and mean.authentic communicators always allow others to speak.

    When in a confrontation try to do these five steps;Try to "De-escalate" your anger. Re-establish listening and understanding what your friend is saying.Show real empathy for what is being said. Take time out between discussions to get a break from all thedrama. Finally, be willing to try again. starting again from both parties indicates that the two peopleare committed faithfully and are unwilling to end the friendship. Regardless ofwhat happens, "True"friends survive and always stick together. At least, they "try" to stay together, and as long as atleast one of the parties still wants the friendship to continue, there is stillhope.