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HINDU MARRIAGE CUSTOMS

Hindu marriage customs

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HINDU MARRIAGE CUSTOMS

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INTRODUCTION In Hindu culture, marriage is one of the

most important sanskaras or rites of passage that a Hindu observes during his or her lifetime.  The Hindu marriage ceremony is primarily based on the marriage of Surya, the daughter of Savita (The Sun) to Soma, as described in the Rig-Veda, one of the oldest Hindu scriptures, written about 1500 BC.  Savita gives away the bride to the groom in a splendid ceremony. The ceremony is written in Sanskrit, one of the oldest language in the world and is described in Grihya sutras, with many verses directly taken from Rigveda.

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SWAGATAM -  WELCOMING  GROOM & HIS FAMILY

The Barat,the singing and dancing procession of the groom and his family, reaches  the wedding venue. The bride’s family welcomes them with Aarati and sweets, as a symbol of happiness and good tidings to come  and escort them to the

wedding hall.  

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SHRI  GANESH PRAYERS & POONYAHVACHANAM 

After all are seated, we  start the ceremony with prayers to Lord Ganesh to bless this occasion and make  the marriage ceremony free of obstacles. We solicit the blessings of elders and  our forefathers, and pray for this to be an auspicious day for the marriage  ceremony.

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VADHU  AAGMAN – ARRIVAL OF THE BRIDE 

Bride is brought to the mandap typically by her maternal uncle, along with bridesmaids, and grooms’ men.An antarpat, an auspicious cloth, separates Bride and Groom as a symbol of their separate existence prior to the  marriage.

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MANGALASHTAKAM &  SANKALPA - MUTUAL APPROVAL 

After the

Mangalmantras  are recited,

Bride and Groom garland

each other, indicating their

mutual  approval to proceed

with the ceremony. The

Pandit explains them the

objectives of the Vivaah

Samskar and then they

propose to marry each other

and enter the 

Grahasthashrama as a

married couple.  

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KANNYADAAN  - GIVING AWAY THE  BRIDE Bride's parents:

Today, the bride is Laxmi and the groom  is Vishnu. By joining their hands in marriage, we will repay the debt to our forefathers by continuing the next life cycle.

Bride and Groom to each other:While pursuing Dharma, Artha and Kama, I will always remain faithful to you.

  

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AKSHATROPANAM  &  PANIGRAHANAM- EXPECTATIONS  FROM 

MARRIED LIFE I take thy hand  in mine,

yearning for happinessI ask thee, to live with me, till both of us, with age, grow oldKnow this, as I declare, that the Gods have bestowed thy person, upon me That I may fulfill, my Dharma of the householder, with thee !

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MANGALSUTRABANDHANAM  – MARRIAGE COMMITMENT TO EACH OTHER

Groom adorns Bride’s neck with the Mangalsutra, a necklace symbolizing good luck, love and  friendship.  Groom applies kumkum  on Bride’s forehead, now as a Soubhagyavati.  Bride applies chandan tilak on Groom’s  forehead, now as a Grahastha. With  the wedding ring exchange, they commit to support each other, in good times and  bad times, in happiness and sorrow, with unending love. They are joined together  in a marriage knot by the Groom’s sister or mother, as a symbol of their  permanent bond.

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WORSHIPPING THE SACRED FIRE

Vivaah Homa is the start  of the Grahasthashrama for the couple. The couple lights the Agni, the holy fire  that symbolizes light, power and knowledge, and acts as a witness to the  ceremony.  Bride and Groom repeat  the sacred pledge of marriage and request Agni to be the messenger for their  prayers to various  Gods, for  Santati (children), Sampatti (wealth & prosperity) and Deergharogya (long  & healthy lives).

 

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LAJA  HOMA & AGNI PRADAKSHINA -STARTING THE MARRIAGE JOURNEY

They circle the sacred  fire four times, starting their transition into married life, supported by Bride’s brother, as he lifelong supporter. As they circle the fire,  Groom  poetically describes to Bride their complementary relationship.

 

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SAPTAPADI  – TAKING  THE MARRIAGE VOWS WITH SEVEN STEPS

With the first step, we  will provide  for and support each other.With the second step, we will develop mental, physical & spiritual  strength.With the third step, we will share the worldly  possessions.With the fourth step, we will acquire knowledge, happiness and  peace.With the fifth step, we  will raise strong and virtuous children.With the sixth step, we  will enjoy  the fruits of all seasons.With the seventh step, we will always remain friends and cherish each  other.

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ASHIRVAD  – BLESSINGS  We  all offer  our blessings to the couple for long

and happy lives together. After being  declared as Husband and Wife, Groom and Bride bow to all invited guests and  leave the mandap as a newly married couple as the guests shower them with flower  petals.

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