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Beyond Consensus 3 Li.le Known Secrets to Achieving Solid Agreements Among Your Team Mates October 18, 2012 High Stakes Meeting Facilitation Team & Facilitator Training Conversational Keynotes, Breakouts and Panels Specializing in Kristin J. Arnold, MBA, CMC, CPF, CSP © 2012 All Rights Reserved Tel: 480.502.2100 or 800.589.4733 Fax: 480.502.2102 or 888.884.9132 Email: [email protected] President, QPC Inc. – The Extraordinary Team 11890 E Juan Tabo Road, ScoSsdale, AZ 85255 www.ExtraordinaryTeam.com

Beyond Consensus: 3 Secrets to Building Solid Agreements

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Kristin Arnold, master facilitator shares 3 little known secrets to achieving solid agreements among your team mates in a webinar format held on October 18, 2012. In this session, you’ll learn how to: - Set the stage for a collaborative consensus - Learn how to engage each team member in the process - Make sure you have a solid agreement so that all are able to implement the decision.

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Beyond Consensus 

3 Li.le Known Secrets to Achieving Solid Agreements Among Your Team Mates 

October 18, 2012  

High Stakes Meeting Facilitation Team & Facilitator Training Conversational Keynotes, Breakouts and Panels Specializing in 

Kristin J. Arnold, MBA, CMC, CPF, CSP                      © 2012  All Rights Reserved 

    Tel:  480.502.2100 or 800.589.4733 

   Fax:    480.502.2102 or 888.884.9132 

   Email: [email protected] 

President, QPC Inc. – The Extraordinary Team 

11890 E Juan Tabo Road, ScoSsdale, AZ 85255 

www.ExtraordinaryTeam.com 

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A decision that best reflects the thinking of all team members which is acceptable 

enough that all members can support it and that no member opposes it. 

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Consensus 

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CONSIDERATION

C O U R A G E

Compete 

Compromise 

Avoid   Accommodate  

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•  Maturity 

– Balance the courage and consideraHon 

•  Integrity –   Know what a “win” is 

•  Abundance Mentality 

– Believe that there are plenty of “wins” out there! 

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•  Leader or expert decides •  Loudest voice •  Ask individual people and decide •  Ask team and decide •  Majority vote •  Unanimous •  Delegate  

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•  All parHcipate…no one dominates •  Have an abundance mentality 

•  Seek first to understand, then to be understood •  Don’t just “give in” to avoid disagreements 

•  Avoid “Thumbs up/down” or bargaining 

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Generate 

Organize 

Decide 

Act 

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Photo: Wikipedia.com 

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Generate 

Organize 

Decide 

Act 

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“It sounds like we are making progress.  Let’s check that out with a quick straw poll to see how close we are to a consensus.  We’ll go 

around the table to understand any reservaHons you may have.  Who’d like to go first?” 

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“Let’s see if everyone can either agree with or agree to support the most popular alternaHve.  

Let’s start with Sally (because she looks recepHve to start!) and go around the room.” 

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•  Public or Private Poll •  Live with the decision? •  What are your reservaHons? 

•  On a scale of 1‐10 •  5 “L” Straw Poll 

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Loathe Lament Live Like Love

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Loathe Lament Live Like Love

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1.  Set the tone for collaboraLon 

2.  Ask everyone to parLcipate, especially at the beginning 

3.  Test the apparent decision with a straw poll 

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•  Check out our learning resources available – www.ExtraordinaryTeam.com 

•  Connect on Linked In, TwiSer, Facebook •  Watch how to videos 

– www.YouTube.com/user/QPCinc 

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•  FacilitaHon, Team & PresentaHon Skills Training •  High Stakes MeeHng FacilitaHon® 

•  MainStage ConversaHons™ 

•  Team ConsulHng & Coaching 

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December 20, 2012 

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© 2011  All Rights Reserved High Stakes Meeting Facilitation Team & Facilitator Training Conversational Keynotes, Breakouts and Panels Specializing in 

Kristin J. Arnold, MBA, CMC, CPF, CSP                      © 2012  All Rights Reserved 

    Tel:  480.502.2100 or 800.589.4733 

   Fax:    480.502.2102 or 888.884.9132 

   Email: [email protected] 

President, QPC Inc. – The Extraordinary Team 

11890 E Juan Tabo Road, ScoSsdale, AZ 85255 

www.ExtraordinaryTeam.com