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Does your family fall into familiar roles and scripts that hold you back?Do you want more clarity in how you affect your children and vice versa?Want to incorporate social and emotional intelligence in your parenting?Learn how to generate more responsibility and nourishment in your family. Lead with your engagement, wants, and needs to develop more fulfilling family dynamics. Find out how to extricate yourself from drama and discover how your family operates as a system.
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Center for
Christian Life Enrichment
Parenting the Button-Pushing Child
center for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
We b i n a r S e r i e s
Center for
Christian Life Enrichment
About The Center for Christian Life Enrichment (CLE)
• Located in the northern suburbs of Chicago• 50+ years of experience and a decade of graduate
education between our 5 therapists• Emotionally-focused approach to counseling• Cutting edge blend of psychology and Christian
principles
center for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
center for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
Center for
Christian Life Enrichment
Christian Life Enrichment Staff
Richard BlueM.A., LCPC, NCC Clinical Director rich.blue@cle.us.com(847) 272-3684, ext. 14www.outoftheblueblog.usLinkedIn
Nancy RollinsM.S., LCPC, NCCnancy.rollins@cle.us.com(847) 272-3684, ext. 13
Gabriela Caballero Cantú M.A., LPCgabriela.cantu@cle.us.com(847) 272-3684, ext. 15
Andrew MercerM.A., LPCandrew.mercer@cle.us.com(847) 272-3684, ext. 17www.askmerce.com
Jon NotoM.A., LPCjonathan.noto@cle.us.com(847) 272-3684, ext. 11www.growinginfaith.net
Today’s Presenter: Gabriela Cantu, M.A., LPC
• Therapist, speaker, and group leader at the Center for Christian Life Enrichment
• Working with individuals, families, and couples to discover a greater sense of life purpose and meaning
• Speciality in multi and cross-cultural counseling
• Leading dynamic growth-focused groups
• Wife and Mother of three
Center for
Christian Life Enrichment
center for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
This is for You•Have you ever found yourself in the midst of a conflict with your child and wondered how in the world it all started?
•Have you ever reacted to your child more harshly than the situation called for?
•Have you ever been so upset by something so little that you knew there must be more going on?
Center for
Christian Life Enrichment
center for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
Getting Unhooked
Center for
Christian Life Enrichment
center for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
•How do you cope when your worry and fear shifts quickly to upset and anger?•What does it mean to be hooked anyway?•What tools can you use to help?
Merging Drama and Triangles:
Center for
Christian Life Enrichment
center for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
• Murray Bowen, Triangulation and Family Systems
Theory
• Eric Berne and Transactional Analysis
• History of the Drama Triangle
• What is Drama in the First Place?
Karpman Drama Triangle
Center for
Christian Life Enrichment
center for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
V
P R
Drama
RescuerPersecutor
Victim• Incapable• Defeated• Poor Me • Mistreated
• Bully• Needs to be Right• Threaten• Blame• Punish• Withdraw
• Co-Dependants• Care-takers• Problem Solvers• Over-Protective• Fixers
•Using Positive Intent to Break out of
the Triangle
•Ask yourself, “What positive ‘thing’
is the victim, rescuer, and persecutor
going for?”
Center for
Christian Life Enrichment
center for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
Busting Through the Triangle
Karpman Drama (free) Triangle
Center for
Christian Life Enrichment
center for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
V
P R
Drama
Rescuer => Empower Others
Persecutor => Tell the Truth
Victim => Express Their Feelings
Next Steps
• Give us a call or email for a complimentary 30-minute consultation
• Questions about:o Counseling in general (is it right
for me?)o Fees & Insuranceo The content you heard today
• (847) 272-3684 (ext. 150 for Gabriela)• gabrieal.cantu@cle.us.com
Center for
Christian Life Enrichment
center for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
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