How to be just friends with a member of the opposite sex

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How to Be Just Friends with a Member of the Opposite Sex

I would love to be friends with you

The Negative effect of Media

It's tricky, but it can be done

4 methods to be just friends with a person of the

opposite sex);

Method One of Four:

Decide What Your True Feelings Are

Be honest with yourself

-Do you find yourself fantasized about what a relationship would be like with them?

-If you were not in a relationship, if they were single, and if nothing else is blocking the way, would you probably be romantically interested?

-Do they seem to be romantically attracted to you?- Do you really believe that this person is better suited

to you as a friend than as a romantic partner? Why?

Method Two of Four:

Define Your Relationship

Define your relationship as a friendship from the very beginning

*In any relationship, including cross-gender friendships, communication is a key.

*Presumptions can lead to broken friendships, misunderstandings and other problems down the line.

*Address your feelings early on!

Method Three of Four:

Include Your Significant Other

Talk to your significant other. 1-

Honesty is the best policy.

Involve the significant other(s)

By becoming a friend to the couple, the doubts and jealousy usually vanish in time.

Method Four of Four:

Control the Situation…

1. Minimize sexual tension.

2. Prevent borderline situations.

3. Reduce contact or end the friendship if the boundaries can't be clarified or upheld.

4. Be careful with your decisions.

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