What Will you do Differently? ARE YOU SCARING YOUR DONORS AWAY? LANA BULLOUGH

ARE YOU SCARING YOUR DONORS AWAY?

LANA BULLOUGH www.safestress.ca

BUSYNESS

Negative Effects of Busyness = Stress

• Compromises the immune system ( responsible for approximately 90% of visits to the Dr.’s office)

• Jeopardizes/damages our relationships with our clients and possibly our career

• Reduces ability to create and produce quality work and ability to make sound decisions

• Interferes with our sleep• Robs us of laughter, spontaneity and zest for life

Our World

• YOLO

• FOMO

• JOMO

HOHO!

LVDO

Triple A Your Life!

Aware

Thinking back….

Aware• What are your hot buttons?

• Are you an introvert or an extrovert?

• Be aware of your inner critic.

Analyze

Analyze

Action

How do “the Pro’s do it?

• You need to remove from your life the day-to-day problems that absorb most people for meaningful parts of their day… You’ll see I wear only gray or blue suits. I’m trying to pare down decisions. I don’t want to make decisions about what I’m eating or wearing. Because I have too many other decisions to make. You need to focus your decision-making energy. You need to routinize yourself. You can’t be going through the day distracted by trivia.

- President Obama

FORMULA

• When _________ then_________ = Goal

Take Action!• Formula greatly increases likelihood that you

will change your actions• Changing brain pattern (habit)• Focus on flexibility – reduces stress and shifts

attention

PUT YOUR EFFORT AND ENERGY INTO THINGS YOU CAN CONTROL

Accept the things that are out of your control

Move!http://www.csep.ca

The Myth of Work Life Balance

• Not equal balance of time between work and home!

• Life feels out of balance because you’re not addressing your priorities

• Schedule priorities into your calendar • Treat them as importantly as you would a

work commitment

Reframe Your Thinking About Your Career

Come on! Get Happy!!

Meditation

• Calms restive thoughts

• Mindfulness-based stress reduction

• Provides a different approach to business

Triple A Your Life!

SMALL CHANGES CAN MAKE A PROFOUND DIFFERENCE

• Music/Hobbies• Breathe• Reframe• Move• Meditation• Smile!• Cultivate positive relationships

For your “to do” list:

• Breathe in• Breathe out• Breathe in• Breathe out• Breathe in• Breathe out

What small change will you make in your life as a result of today’s session?

BE S.M.A.R.T.