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Online Dating: Progressions Through Technology & The 21st Century Relationship By Lauren A. Johnston Photo by ArdinhasaPhotography (Flickr) Friday, 17 May, 13

Online Dating: Progressions Through Technology and the 21st Century Relationship

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Online Dating: Progressions Through Technology & The 21st Century Relationship

By Lauren A. JohnstonPhoto by ArdinhasaPhotography (Flickr)

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Society is in an era that is markedly different from its predecessors because of one strong force:

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technology.

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Different technologies, specifically the internet, have changed the ways in which people communicate on a daily basis.

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One of the areas that has been significantly affected by this shift is the realm of online relationships - specifically romantic relationships.

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(Flickr)

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Online dating sites are useful for many because they ease some discomfort in dating. It is often less intimidating to message someone online rather than approach them in person.

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The goal for most users is to find a long-term relationship as opposed to more casual forms of dating. But, there are specific websites catered to this as well.

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Crafting an online profile has become an

artform in itself.

For most, there is an ample amount of detail put into creating these profiles.

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The internet allows people to quickly and conveniently communicate with thousands of people worldwide with similar hobbies, interests and personalities.

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Within a few clicks, a person can broaden or narrow potential matches based on whichever criteria they decide are important to them.

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This allows the ‘dating process’ to accelerate. The user determines which attributes they want in a partner, and then get a broad overview of the person on a profile.

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Like a résumé, the online dating profile is often an ‘amped up’ abstract of the potential partner. Users highlight their best features in order to attract others.

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This translates into more than just words in text boxes - a profile picture is arguably more important, as it is the first impression that other users have of the person. Photo by Akane Kinomoto (Flickr)

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Studies show that most people expect photographs of potential partners to be authentic because of the anticipated face-to-face interaction...

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(Flickr)Friday, 17 May, 13

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... but there is also evidence that users recognize that photographs can be ‘self-enhancing’ and editable.

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Source: Hancock & Toma, 2009

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Impression management is crucial. Putting their best face (or profile) forward could be the difference between a sparse or full inbox, and maximizing outcomes (dates) is usually the goal.

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Strong relationships are built on communication and trust.

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People desire to feel understood and cared for by romantic partners - so, how does this come into play online?

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There are sufficient challenges that take place in online relationships, especially those over long distances.

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Depending on the distance and how often the couple meets up, there is a lack of intimacy and ‘genuine’ face-to-face contact.

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But, messages exchanged online gradually escalate over time when participants have built a strong enough bond, the type of technology used can change.

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The shift from dating site to main social networking site demonstrates a sense of progression in the relationship where the user allows the (potential) partner to be integrated into the user ’s exterior social network.

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The interactions may be relocated to email conversations, and eventually friending on personal social networking accounts - like a Facebook profile that the user uses to speak to friends and family.

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Videochat platforms such as Skype and FaceTime allow for more intimate conversations in the online world - complete with voice and facial expression.

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These technologies make the distance between many online relationships smaller.

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Some say that e-relationships provide for a deeper and more emotional relationship than offline ones.

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“An estimated 30 to 40 million North Americans now use

online dating sites...

... we will reach a point where people don’t distinguish between meeting online and off line... we won’t refer to online dating, it will

just be dating.” - Dan Slater

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Source: Anson Alexander

52% of online daters are men,

48% women.

Online dating is a $1 Billion business, with the average user spending about $239 a year on online dating.

Source: Anson Alexander

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But, if the goal for online (long distance) relationships is to end in marriage or at least have a long-term duration, the odds are in

the couple’s favour.

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The internet has made it possible for thousands of couples to start relationships worldwide, while ‘decreasing the distance’ for long-distance couples, whether the relationship started online or off.

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Although they may begin in a virtual world, these relationships are becoming more socially acceptable

and a key method in which people meet romantic partners.

Whether long-term or short, the internet and the various stems of technology have undeniably changed the face of dating in the

21st century...

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The Following Articles were used for statistics, information and inspiration for this presentation:

- http://www2.macleans.ca/2013/01/30/true-loves/ (quotes taken from Dan Slater in this article)

- http://ansonalex.com/infographics/statistics-for-online-dating-in-2013-infographic/ (Anson Alexander)

- http://faculty.unlv.edu/drums/pioneer/files/JOUR%20435%20635/photosonlinedating.pdf (Hancock & Toma, 2009)

All photos in this presentation were used under a Creative Commons License and sourced from Flickr.

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