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If your teenage son is shy, it can be partly because of his genetics, behaviors he has learned, the way people have reacted to his shyness, and life experiences he’s had.

Genetics. Genes determine our physical traits, such as height, eye color, skin color, and body type. But genes also influence certain personality traits, such as shyness. But not everyone with a gene to be shy develops a shy character. Life experiences also play a role.

Life experiences. How your teenage son deals with a situation can shape his future reactions to similar life experiences. Approaching new things little by little, can help your son become more confident and comfortable. But, if he is pushed into situations he’s not willing to do, or if he is teased or bullied, it can make him more shy and uncomfortable.

4 reasons being shy is Powerful

People who are naturally shy also have gifts they might not appreciate in themselves or know such as …

1. Shy people may prefer listening to talking, they’re great listeners. 2. They’re sensitive to other people's feelings and emotions. 3. Many people with a shy personality are especially caring toward

others. 4. People consider them great as friends.

To help your son feel less shy remind him:

To practice. People who are shy usually give themselves fewer chances to practice social behaviors. The more your teenage son practices social behaviors, the easier things become, and the more natural they feel for him.

Go slow, it takes time. Your son going slow and taking his time is more than OK. He will build confidence by being patient and continuing to move forward.

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Embrace the awkward. Shy people usually feel awkward or uncomfortable. Some people say those are the main reasons why people who are shy don’t like to be in the spotlight often. But don't let that keep your son from doing what he wants.

You support him. Plenty of people learn to manage their shyness in time. As a parent, be patient and encourage him. Don’t push your teenage son into any situation where he feels uncomfortable or anxious.

That you trust him. Trusting your son and allowing him to grow on his own pace is one of the best things you can do as a parent.

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