Leaving Positive Impression

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Leaving Positive Impression

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  • LeavingPositive Impression (DoesBodylanguagematter?)
  • YesBodylanguagematter
  • Researchhasactuallyproventhat Research has actually proven that confidentpeople,thosewhosmile oftenandthosewhomaintain aboveaverageeyecontactare usuallyperceivedtobemore attractivethantheirpeers.
  • Ifyousucceededinleavinga If you succeeded in leaving a positiveimpressionyourchanceof g gettingajobwillbecomehigher, g j g yoursocialrelationswillimprove andpeoplewilladmireyou.
  • Expressionareimportant
  • BeConfident
  • BeGoodlistener
  • Thesearetheeffectiveand practicaladvicesthatarebacked y by Deeppsychologicalprinciples
  • Ifyoufollowedtheseadvices y thefirstimpressionyouwill p leavewillbepositive99%ofthe time.
  • Whynot100%?
  • becausesometimesthe impressionpeopleformofyou p p dependsontheirownpast experience.
  • Forexampleifyousaw someonewholooksjustlike h l k j t lik yourarrogantbossyouwilltend tothinkofhimasarroganteven t thi k f hi t ifhewasnot.
  • GeneralPsychology
  • GeneralPsychology General Psychology Apersontakesabout5to10 A person takes about 5 to 10 secondstoformanimpression ofsomeoneelseAndthenhe of someone else And then he usestheother510minutesto confirmhisjudgment. confirm his judgment.
  • GeneralPsychology General Psychology Soifyoumadeagooduseof y g thefirstfivesecondsthenyour g p chanceofleavingapositive impressionwillbecomemuch g higher.
  • GeneralPsychology General Psychology Iknowyoumaybethinkingthat5 or10secondsisaveryshortperiod 10 d i h i d oftimeandthatnothingmuchcan bedoneinthembutifyoureadthe be done in them but if you read the followingsectionyouwilldiscover thatlotsofthingstakeplacein that lots of things take place in thesefivesecondsbutyounever usedtofocusonthem.
  • Thingstoremember
  • EyeContact
  • EyeContact Thefirstthingyoucandoisproper eyecontact.ProperEyecontactshows respect,interestandthatyouarenot shy.Propereyecontactmeansthat theeyecontactshouldbearound70% y to80%ofthetime.
  • Handshake
  • Handshake Anotherthingthathappensinthefirstfew secondsisthehandshake,afirmhandshake seconds is the handshake a firm handshake combinedwithpropereyecontactleavesthe impressionthatyouareaconfidentperson. peoplewhodon'tshakehandsinafirmway willmostlikelyleavetheimpressionthatthey ill lik l l h i i h h arenotconfident.
  • Smile
  • Smile Ifyoudidtheprevioustwopointsyouwill appeartobeconfidentbutinthesametime pp youmayappeartobealittlecoldandthats whyyouneedtoaddasmileonyourface.This smilewillnotonlymaketheotherpersonthink thatyouhavegotasenseofhumorbuthewill that you have got a sense of humor but he will alsofeelmorecomfortableindealingwithyou.
  • SitStraight
  • SitStraight Sitwithyourbackstraightandyourshoulders stretched.Astraightbackleavestheimpression thatyouareconfidenthappyorinterestedinwhat that you are confident happy or interested in what youarelisteningtoNeverevercrossyourlegsor foldyourarmswhensittingbecausethisleavesthe impressionthatyouarenotthatcomfortableor impression that you are not that comfortable or evenafraid.Don'tplaceanobjectlikeabagorafile betweenyouandtheinterviewerbecausethis p gy leavesthesameimpressionthatfoldingyourarms leaves
  • DonotScratchnose
  • DonotScratchnose Ifyoufeltlikescratchingyournosedonotdoit becausethisshowsthatyouarenegativeevaluating something,afterallyouremotionsareprivateand youshouldn'tletanyoneknowwhatareyou thinkingaboutunlessyouwantthat
  • Wearbluecolorclothes
  • Wearbluecolorclothes Ifyoucanwearblueclothesthendoit,inthe psychologyofcolorsbluegivestheimpressionof loyaltyandhonesty,wearingbluewillleavean unconsciousimpressioninthemindofotherpeople thatyouareloyalandhonest. th t l l dh t
  • TotalImpressions99% p
  • References 1.WikiencyclopediaforBodylanguage 1. Wiki encyclopedia for Body language 2.Picturesfrom www.flickr.com
  • Thankyou, www.amirsaiftaz.blogspot.com amirsaiftaz@gmail.com amirsaiftaz@gmail com

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