Friendship

In the Beginning...Relationships


God is relational (Genesis 1:26-30; John 1:1-3)



We are made in His image as relational beings (Genesis 1:26-30; 2:20-25)



We are made in His image as relational beings (Genesis 1:26-30; 2:20-25)Relationship, with God and with others, is affected by sin (Genesis 3:6-19)

The Heart of Friendship

“My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.

Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” (John 15:12-13)


Loving another

Laying down one’s life for another


Laying down one’s life for another


Loving another


“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)

Characteristics of True Friendship from the Book of Proverbs

True friendship takes discernment

“One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin.” (Proverbs 18:24)


True friends are sensitive to others

“Like one who takes away a garment on a cold day, or like vinegar poured on a wound, is one who sings songs to a heavy heart.” (Proverbs 25:20)


True friends offer wise advice

“Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart, and the pleasantness of a friend springs from their heartfelt advice.” (Proverbs 27:9)


True friends speak the truth, even when it is hard truth

“Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.” (Proverbs 27:6)

Putting it into practice

Putting it into practice

Put your friendships into God's hands

Look for ways you can join in with what God is doing in others' livesAsk God to grow you as a true friend

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