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Welcome To Welcome To Family Matters Family Matters ------------------- ------------------- - - 22 August 2010 22 August 2010 ROFC ROFC Psalm 127:1-2 Psalm 127:1-2

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Workshop Held at ROFC on the 22 August 2010. Conducted by> Rev. MV Kotu

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Welcome To Family Welcome To Family MattersMatters

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22 August 201022 August 2010ROFCROFC

Psalm 127:1-2Psalm 127:1-2

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Survey Done at TFTSurvey Done at TFT

Covering different Covering different challenges at different challenges at different

phases in Marriagephases in Marriage

Presented by: MVKPresented by: MVK

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A total of A total of 162162 couples which couples which make up over 90% of the make up over 90% of the total number of married total number of married

people at TFT indicated their people at TFT indicated their different challenges in writingdifferent challenges in writing

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The youngest couple’s The youngest couple’s average age is 25 and the average age is 25 and the

oldest is <55 yrsoldest is <55 yrsPLEASE NOTE THATPLEASE NOTE THAT

These married people are These married people are two generations aparttwo generations apart

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These 162 couples share These 162 couples share a combined total of a combined total of 17101710

years of Marital years of Marital experience, Challenges experience, Challenges

and Victoriesand Victories

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This is how we came to this This is how we came to this figurefigure

Example:Example:Couple A- 4 yrsCouple A- 4 yrsCouple B – 7 yrsCouple B – 7 yrs

Couple C – 15 yrsCouple C – 15 yrsCouple D – 30 yrsCouple D – 30 yrs

Total – 56yrsTotal – 56yrs

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Amongst some of the Amongst some of the challenges experienced werechallenges experienced were

----------------------------1.Financial challenges 1.Financial challenges

2.Sexual issues 2.Sexual issues 3.Communication 3.Communication

4.Intolerance 4.Intolerance 5.Involvement by 5.Involvement by parentsparents

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Top 6 Challenges At TFT Top 6 Challenges At TFT

Communication – 38.27%Communication – 38.27% Finances – 29%Finances – 29%Spirituality – 28%Spirituality – 28%Children – 18.5%Children – 18.5%Neutrality – 16.04%Neutrality – 16.04%Sexual – 9.87%Sexual – 9.87%

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The Survey Reveals that The Survey Reveals that somesome of ofthese challenges are these challenges are

* Age related* Age related* Socio Economical related* Socio Economical related

* Culture and Tradition related* Culture and Tradition related* Different religious beliefs* Different religious beliefs

* Peer Pressure Related* Peer Pressure Related* Others simply result from * Others simply result from

negligence and/or Ignorancenegligence and/or Ignorance

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God’s perfect planGod’s perfect plan

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The way we experience itThe way we experience it

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Divorces at Different YearsDivorces at Different Years

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Divorce Stats SA.Divorce Stats SA.

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True or false ?True or false ?

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For Articles on MarriageFor Articles on MarriagePlease visitPlease visit

http://montoedikotu.blogspot.comhttp://montoedikotu.blogspot.com