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SAYING NO PAUSE2TALK A SIMPLER LIFE

A Simpler Life: Saying No

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A biblical and topical study of the principle of choosing priorities for life by saying no when required.

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SAYING NOPAUSE2TALK

A SIMPLER LIFE

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PAUSE2TALK

WHY IS IT SO HARD FOR US TO TELL SOMEONE NO?

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“DON’T LET THE GOOD THINGS IN LIFE ROB YOU OF THE BEST

THINGS.”BUSTER ROTHMAN

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KEEPING THE PRIORITIES OF OUR LIVES REQUIRES THAT WE LEARN

WHEN TO SAY NO AS WELL AS YES.

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THE FAILURE TO SAY NO WHEN NEEDED MEANS THAT YOUR

PRIORITIES WILL BE DETERMINED BY OTHERS AND NOT YOURSELF.

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WHO ARE THE ONES DETERMINING YOUR PRIORITIES?

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SAYING YES TO ONE THING ALWAYS MEANS THAT YOU ARE SAYING NO

TO SOMETHING ELSE.

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SAYING YES TO THE MANY GOOD THINGS OF LIFE IS WHAT SQUEEZES TIME FOR GOD OUT OF OUR LIVES.

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IT IS EASY TO PUT GOOD THINGS OVER THE TRIVIAL. THE CHALLENGE IS PUTTING THE BEST THINGS OVER

THE GOOD THINGS.

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WHAT ARE SOME OF THE BEST THINGS THAT SHOULD KEPT OVER

GOOD THINGS?

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SATISFACTION AND CONTENTMENT IN THIS LIFE INCREASE WITH YOUR ABILITY TO MAKE “BEST THINGS” DECISIONS AND SAY NO TO EVEN

GOOD THINGS.

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MATTHEW 6:33

BUT STRIVE FIRST FOR THE KINGDOM OF GOD AND HIS

RIGHTEOUSNESS, AND ALL THESE THINGS WILL BE GIVEN TO YOU AS

WELL.

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WHAT ARE SOME OF THE KINGDOM OF GOD THINGS THAT SHOULD HAVE

PRIORITY IN OUR LIVES?

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REFLECT

HOW DO THE PIECES OF THE PUZZLE TO YOUR LIFE FIT INTO THE

KINGDOM OF GOD?

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“THE SUREST METHOD OF ARRIVING AT A KNOWLEDGE OF GOD’S

ETERNAL PURPOSES ABOUT US IS TO BE FOUND IN THE RIGHT USE OF

PRESENT MOMENT.”FREDERICK FABER

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PROVERBS 16:3

COMMIT YOUR WORK TO THE LORD,   AND YOUR PLANS WILL BE

ESTABLISHED.

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“GIVE ME A PERSON WHO SAYS, ‘THIS ONE THING I DO AND NOT

THESE FIFTY THINGS I DABBLE IN.”DWIGHT MOODY

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PSALM 90:12

SO TEACH US TO COUNT OUR DAYS   THAT WE MAY GAIN A WISE HEART.

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HOW HAS GROWING OLDER CHANGED THE PRIORITIES OF YOUR

LIFE?

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GOD HAS PROMISED TO HELP YOU ESTABLISH THE PROPER PRIORITIES

IF YOU BUT ASK HIM.

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GOD CAN PROVIDE WISDOM AND INSIGHT INTO YOUR MOTIVES BY HIS

WORD AND BY SHARING WITH A TRUSTED BELIEVER FOR THEIR

OPINION.

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KNOWING YOU ARE PURSUING THE BEST THINGS WILL BUILD

ENTHUSIASM AND JOY INTO YOUR EFFORTS.

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REMEMBER THAT CHOOSING YOUR PRIORITIES IS ULTIMATELY YOUR

TASK AND RESPONSIBILITY. NO ONE ELSE CAN DO IT FOR YOU.

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ACTION

NEVER SAY YES TO ANYTHING TILL YOU HAVE CHECKED YOUR

CALENDAR

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ACTION

BEFORE SAYING YES TO ANYTHING DECIDE WHAT YOU WILL DROP FROM

YOUR CALENDAR.

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WHAT ARE TWO THINGS YOU COULD DROP FROM YOUR CALENDAR THIS WEEK IF YOU NEEDED TO DO SO?

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ACTION

IF YOU DON’T FEEL YOU CAN TAKE SOMETHING ON, SAY SO

IMMEDIATELY.

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ACTION

SAYING NO NEEDS NO EXPLANATION. THOSE WANTING AN

EXPLANATION WON’T ACCEPT IT ANYWAY.

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“EVERY TIME YOU MAKE A CHOICE YOU ARE TURNING THE CENTRAL

PART OF YOU THAT CHOOSES INTO SOMETHING A LITTLE DIFFERENT

FROM WHAT IT WAS BEFORE.”C.S. LEWIS

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PRAY A PRAYER ASKING GOD TO HELP YOU KEEP THE FIRST THINGS FIRST AND THE STRENGTH TO SAY

NO WHEN NEEDED.