The Ultimate Mediocrity Guide!

The Ultimate The Ultimate Mediocrity Guide!Mediocrity Guide!

THE SELF-HELP ‘HOW-TO’ GUIDE TO THE SELF-HELP ‘HOW-TO’ GUIDE TO LIVING THE LIFE YOU WERE NOT LIVING THE LIFE YOU WERE NOT DESTINED TO LIVE! DESTINED TO LIVE! OR NOT!!!OR NOT!!!

© 2013. Thabo Selepe | Life Coaching | Business Incubation. All Rights Reserved.

Intro… How to use this Guide!Intro… How to use this Guide!The Header on Top – suggests how you can lead an ordinary, mundane, and/or mediocre life.

What follows is the information to learn by heart in order to turn your life into extraordinary – The Life of Self-Leadership, Success and your full potential. #unleashyourtrueself


1. I am always Negative!1. I am always Negative!

Negative thoughts manifest themselves into Negative Beliefs! When you believe you will not achieve something – you are so right, it won’t come to you. But it will gravitate itself towards the one who believed in achieving it.Self-leadership is about believing in yourself beyond depending on someone else to believe in you.


2. Success is for others, Not Me!2. Success is for others, Not Me!

You were born into greatness. Remember how successful a child becomes in learning to walk? Yes, they fall a lot of times, but rise again and keep focused on their goal. Walking and running becomes second nature. You can unleash this greatness in your life forever.You miss all the opportunities to win/succeed if you do not practice and stumble; keep on keeping on.


3. But, Only a chosen few succeed!3. But, Only a chosen few succeed!

Ordinary people that have created extraordinary lives for themselves and those around them began by creating extraordinary beliefs around what they aim to achieve. Mediocrity leads to loss of hope and self-belief, if stuck in it some serious exceptional work cannot be attained.“Nobody succeeds beyond his or her wildest expectations unless he or she begins with some wildest expectations.” – RALPH CHARELL.


4. I touch nothing, because nothing 4. I touch nothing, because nothing turns into Gold!turns into Gold!

A great outcome WILL NEVER come from consistent ‘daily acts of neglect’ carried out over a long time. Successful people on the other hand perform small consistent ‘daily acts of excellence’ that can be invested in their success bank – the outcome becomes top-class.“The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any.” – ALICE WALKER.


5. I am a No-Body! I’m not some 5. I am a No-Body! I’m not some great CEO or Business Owner!great CEO or Business Owner!

Self-leadership requires no fancy titles to being the best one can be. If one is called to be a housekeeper in a Hotel, they should clean the rooms as Michael Jackson performed on stage or Michael Jordan took the game winning shots.“Authenticity is about being true to who you are, even when everyone around you wants you to be someone else.” – Michael Jordan.


6. I do not have what they have to 6. I do not have what they have to make it all possible.make it all possible.

Perhaps what you do not have is a comprehensive list of areas of your life (career/personal) that needs improving, where you are not taking accountability and where being a victim is much more comfortable than taking ownership and beginning to take leadership by making changes.“Money, influence, and position are nothing compared with brains, principles, energy and perseverance.” – ORISON SWETT MARDEN.


7. Say I have a list, then what?7. Say I have a list, then what?

Small Daily acts of excellence can help you move forward. What mini goals can you set as daily activities to move you towards your BIG goals in those areas of your life? Start with daily baby-steps.“I will persist until I succeed. I was not delivered into this world into defeat, nor does failure course my veins. I am not a sheep waiting to be prodded by my shepherd. I am a lion, and I refuse to talk, walk, and to sleep with the sheep. I will persist until I succeed.” – OG MANDINO.


8. I fear being overwhelmed!8. I fear being overwhelmed!

Mostly when we do not find strength to adapt and embrace the change, we fail to relax and ease into it. It is OK not to know all the answers and not to know the possibilities held by the outcome. Use the energy hidden in the fear to expand your limits and to test your determination.“Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.”- NEALE DONALD WALSCH.


9. I don’t have guts! 9. I don’t have guts!

Setbacks will occur, people around you will tell you that you can’t. In your pursuit you will come across a lot of obstacles. The critics will lie in those comfortable in the old ways of doing things. BUT, you beliefs, faith, commitment and persistence has to be bigger than your fear.“Jealousy is the tribute that mediocrity pays to genius.” – FULTON SHEEN.


10. So, How to I begin Unleashing my 10. So, How to I begin Unleashing my genius (Mediocre to Greatness?)genius (Mediocre to Greatness?)

# Prioritize# Innovate# Be Authentic # Be Ethical # Have Guts# Be The BEST You # Speak with Confidence# Help & Uplift Others# Live Clean and Healthy # Take Care of Family / Community

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The Ultimate Mediocrity Guide!