Little girl worries about her parents troubled marriage.

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You’re trying not to put the kids in the middle butyou know that they are being affected by yourmarital problems. Sometimes you feel as if youare living in a war zone, the tension so thick youcould cut it with a knife. What are you doing tosave your children?

Whether or not you tell your children anythingabout your troubled marriage, they knowsomething is off. They ask questions and it’s reallyhard to know how to answer them. In your lack ofclarity, you might be telling them more than theyneed know. If either you or your husband has saidanything negative about the other to them, theywill be affected by it.

When a child is told something negative about their parent by the other parent, the child will believe it isabout them selves. In other words this belief will become a negative self-belief that will be stored in theirmemory, one that they will use against themselves into adulthood.

Save Your Children From Listening to Conflict.

Don’t be hard on yourself, you are not to blame and you are not alone. This is one of the most challengingtimes a parent faces and most parents just don’t know how to do it any better than they are doing it. Thestress and exhaustion from dealing with your marital trouble can feel almost crippling. And on top of thatyou can add the house, the meals, the children’s schedule and your career. No wonder many children arescarred from the experience.

You have a sacred contract with your children and that contract is to love them, keep them safe and raisethem to be contributing human beings. As you work to save your marriage, you have the opportunity to alsosave your children. And it will take, you being your best at all times for them.

Save Your Children While You’re Saving Your Marriage

Imagine a year from now. You and your husband have worked through your marital problems. It wasn’teasy but you did it and you’re going to be fine! Now look back at the experience your children had. Howwas it for them as you worked to save your marriage?

Know that whatever your children are experiencing currently, in a year from now, they will mirror back toyou what they learned. What do you want your children to learn?

Be that now.