21 rulesPuneet Biseria’s

to win every argument

Just follow these 21 rules to win every argument.

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Rule # 1

Know a bit about what you are questioning about .

You must at least have some idea of what you are talking about.

If not, you will always end up asking dumb questions.

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What is a dumb question?

A question that you could have answered if you just used your brain.

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Rule # 2

Be very clear about “what-will-you-achieve” thing.

If you give this a thought, you will appear more intelligent than you really are.

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Rule # 3

Know more & more about less & less. So that you can literally trap the person.

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Rule # 4

Asking more questions shows that you are really processing the information they are giving you.

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Learn the intricacies of the topic.

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Rule # 5

To shut the person up, learn the intricacies of the topic.

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Look for the points which are very intricate & confusing.

Know the correct answer if you ask a intricate & confusing question.

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Be very particular about it, as your reputation rests on it.

Research thoroughly, if you truly want the image of a MOTHER F***ER SOB, who knows how many hairs are there on his A***OLE.

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Rule # 6

Always frame the question first, in your mind.

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biseriapuneet.comIt gives you the edge.

Use the most correct grammar and the most correct

pronunciation when you ask the question.

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Rule # 7

Speak clearly & loudly.

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Speaking the most correct grammar and the most correct pronunciation, clearly & loudly, will establish you as the master of your domain.

Most of the times, it intimidates the person you are talking to.

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Rule # 8

Always ask politely.

Politeness is the mark of a true gentleman.

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Rule # 9

A true master never gets angry. biseriapuneet.com

He always keeps quiet while measuring the shallowness of others’ knowledge.

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Rule # 10

Keep the questions simple.

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Do not explain more than once.biseriapuneet.com

If the person is unable to answer it, change the question.

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It puts the answering person under stress. And you can keep him off guard.

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Keep them off balance.

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Rule # 11

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Ask

Ask open ended questions.

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When the person finishes his answers, ask questions using words like, What? Who? Where? When? Why? How? Whose?

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Even the experts cannot answer all the whys, whos, wheres, whens, hows, whose.

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As soon as the person fails to answer one of your questions, look unimpressed.

Do not let the person explain or clarify his point, ask another question.

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Rule # 12

When the person fails to answer you convincingly, behave apologetically.

This will establish your intelligence subtly in his subconscious brain.

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Rule # 13

Never use fillers.

Words like erm…, umm…, uh…, ah…, em…, like…, well…, you know…, you see…, etc should never come out of your mouth.

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If the words are not coming fluently, pause for a while, it is okay to pause.

Moreover, it establishes your authority.

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Rule # 14

Always explain why you are asking (have asked) certain questions.

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It clears any misunderstandings and the person understands (or pretend to understand) why those intricate questions were heaped on him.

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Rule # 15

Never question in an aggressive manner.

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It shows that you are trying to show that you are right and the other person is wrong.

It also shows that you are argumentative.

We do not want to create such image.

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Rule # 16

If the person gets angry and answers in a confrontational manner, keep on smiling, and this will further aggravate his anger, and he will commit some mistake.

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In such situations always apologize later. Say

"I am sorry that this disturbed you." "I am sorry that we had this misunderstanding." "I apologize, I must have made myself more clear." "Let us figure out what went wrong, and how to set it right.“

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Rule # 17

If you feel that the person is beginning to feel uncomfortable and is unable to answer it, it is the exact opportunity to press the question.

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Rule # 18

Wait

unless the person speaks something as answer.

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It is impossible that such a situation will not mentally disturb the person, at such instance, most of the people say such things which they should not.

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Rule # 19

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Be all ears

When the person is answering you.

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Always let them complete the answer.

If you want to get the ammunition, listen, and of those answers, you can ask most of the unanswerable questions.

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Rule # 20

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If it takes more than 1 minute to complete his point, you can tell the person, that he was beating around the bush.

And that he should have cut short, and used fewer words.

This usually embarrass every one.

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Rule # 21

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If you are unable to ask a question (or counter question) immediately, ask for clarification.

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Whatever, clarification they give, ask the “how” or “why” question 5 times.

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How ?How ?How ?How ?How ?

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Why? Why? Why? Why? Why?

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Never test these rules with your wife.

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However, since everything that is

worth learning cannot be taught.

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Therefore, practice it to perfect it.

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If you really want to win every argument

effortlessly

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Just follow these 21 rules

and, visit

http://www.biseriapuneet.com/topics/something-about-everthing/641-about-controlling-the-conversation-winning-every-argument

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very much for your time.

Puneet Biseria8962512015

Faculty of Communication Skills (RGPV)

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