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WELCOME to my PowerPoint Presentation titled "Bullying In and Out of Our Schools." This presentation is geared towards elementary students. It is filled with wonderful facts, tips, media, storytelling, moving visuals (pictures), and activities of learning to wrap up the lesson! I KNOW YOU will love all it entails!!!
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Advanced Clinical Experience Project
By Desiree Ann MitzelSpring 2012
“DIGNITY FOR ALL STUDENTS”
STOP BULLYING!
WHAT ARE SIX THINGS YOU NEED TO DO IN ORDER TO STAY HEALTHY?
1.Eat Healthy Foods2.Exercise Every Day3.Stay Safe4.Get Plenty of Rest5.Positive Attitude6.Drink Lots Of Water
Bullying
In and Out of Our Schools
“There is a light at the end of the tunnel but first you'll have to find the light switch and change the bulb before switching it on yourself.“
- Tim Field
EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT!
No One Deserves
To Be Bullied!
Bullying by other students
Harassment Discriminatio
n
Some of us are tall!
Some of us are short!
Some of us are fat.
Some of us are
thin.
Some of us walk with crutches.
Some of us get
around in wheelchai
rs.
EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT!
EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT!
Some of us are good at sport.
Some of us are good at art.
Some of us are good at music.
Some of us are good at math.
Some of us have red hair.
Some of us have dark hair.
Some of us have blonde hair.
It Would Be Boring If We Were All The Same!
It’s Good To Be Different!
Some of us even come from different countries.
Remember: What makes you different, makes you special!
BULLYING CAN OCCUR
PLAYGROUND HALLWAY
Children usually are bullied by one child or a small group
Bullying is more common at school than on the way to/from school
CLASSROOM
BATHROOM
LUNCHROOM
WHERE?
If you or someone you know is being bullied...
When you are being bullied, it is hard to concentrate
You probably feel unhappy and scared.
Perhaps you are keeping the bullying a secret because the bully has threatened you.
But staying silent means the bullying won’t stop.
…Tell and get help.
If you are a bully
You will have real friends, not people, who are only there because they are afraid of you.
Becoming a good person will make you feel better about yourself
You will find some
nice friends.
….You can change your behavior
TYPES OF BULLYING….
PHYSICAL
VERBAL
EMOTIONAL
Types of bullying
Won’t let others talk to you.
Stopping other children playing with you.
Hitting you on purpose.
Won’t leave you alone even when you say “I’ve had enough.”
Saying unkind things
about you.
Thinking it’s fun to make you sad.
PHYICAL BULLYING CAN INCLUDE Pushing
Kicking Hitting Pinching Any other forms of
violence
VERBAL BULLYING CAN BE
Name-callingSarcasmSpreading RumorsThreats
EMOTIONAL BULLYING CAN INCLUDE
Excluding Others
Making fun of others
Humiliation
Tormenting
(Examples: hiding books,
threatening gestures),
Long-Term Implications of Being Bullied
Low self-esteemDepressionPerceive school as
unsafeMiss more days of
school than friends….in turn, learning is affected
STEP UP BULLY PREVENTION VIDEO
Let’s Listen To The Story Called…..
STICKS AND STONES
Luke was happily walking to school minding his own business whistling as he went. Suddenly he heard someone shout “Get out of my way Pee Wee!” As he turned around he saw Kevin, the biggest boy in school, racing towards him on his skateboard. Luckily he leapt out of the way just in time to avoid being knocked over.
MOVE PEE
WEE!
On his way home Luke saw Kevin with his dog waiting on the corner. Luke kept walking and hoped for the best. “Hey Shrimp, what’s it like down there,” laughed Kevin. “You are the most pathetic excuse for a boy I have ever seen.”What could Luke
do now?
Luke ran home as quickly as he could just hoping that Kevin or his dog wouldn’t chase him. When he got home he went into his bedroom and sat alone, quietly wondering why Kevin was being so mean to him. How do you think
Luke is feeling, sitting in his room?
The next day Luke spent all day trying to stay away from Kevin.
Unfortunately he only managed to do it until lunch time……..
“You’re so small and scrawny I could squash you and feed you to my dog Tyson. Where do you buy your clothes, the baby section?” laughed Kevin. Luke tried to hold back the tears but eventually they began to trickle down his cheeks.
As his alarm went off the next morning Luke rubbed his eyes and wished he didn’t have to go to school. “I could tell mom that I’m not very well, maybe she will let me stay home,” he thought.What do you think
would happen if Luke doesn’t go to school today?
“I’m sorry Luke but you don’t seem that ill to me. You shouldn’t take time off school unless you are really ill,” said Mrs Thomas. “Should I tell mom about Kevin?” thought Luke.
Can mom help me?
Luke started to laugh too, as he thought about what Kevin had said. “Feed me to his dog, what a ridiculous idea” chuckled Luke.
Luke’s mom said to Luke that she thought the names Kevin had called him were silly names. “Shrimp, is that the best he can do?” giggled Luke’s mom.
The next day when Kevin started to say mean things Luke didn’t start to cry. Instead he thought about how silly Kevin was and began laughing. Kevin tried again but Luke just laughed even harder.
Kevin finally got bored with Luke laughing at him and just carried on walking to school.
Luke enjoyed going to school again.
The End
Bullying Is WrongHitting them Kicking them Calling them namesSending them threatening
text messages Spreading rumors about
themDoing anything else which
is intended to be upsetting
Nobody has the right to hurt other people by….
What Does It Feel Like To Be Bullied?
Bullying can mean many different things.
Being pushed or pulled
Being hit
Beingteased
Being called names
Having rumours
spread about you
Having your
things taken
Being ignored
or left out
Bullying Hurts Bullying makes you scared and upset.
• Bullying can make you so worried that you can't work well at school.
Some children make up excuses so they don’t have to go to school.
Bullying can make you feel that you are no good, that there is something wrong with you.
Bullies can make you feel that it's your fault.
Why do you bully certain people?
She’s quiet and won’t tell on me.
She’s the teacher’s
pet.
He’s got more
friends than me
You look scared I can easily make
you cry.
KINDNESS
COMPASSION
LET’S WATCH THE VIDEO ABOUT RACHEL’S CHALLENGE
You May Just Start A Chain
Reaction”-Rachel Scott
“THINK ELEMENTARY”
RACHEL’S CHALLENGE
RACHEL’S
5 MESSAGES
RACHEL SCOTT’S KINDNESS ESSAY
THINGS WE SHOULD DO…..
THINGS WE SHOULD NOT DO…..
THINGS WE SHOULD DO…..
Seek adult help
Do not participate in the harassment of the victim
Offer kind words to the victim
Do not become involved in rumors and gossip
If you can effectively communicate with the bully, tell the bully that he is doing inappropriate things
Do not become involved in physical or verbal fights with a bully
THINGS WE SHOULD NOT DO…..
Don't try to deal with the problem on your own. There is nothing wrong with asking for help.
Don't hit the people who are bullying you. You might end up being accused of bullying yourself.
Always tell the truth about what has happened. Don't exaggerate. If a small part of what you are saying is shown to be untrue then it throws everything else into doubt.
Don't hide what is happening from the adults you trust. Keeping things secret is the bullies' biggest weapon. That is why they go to so much trouble to stop you telling.
CYBER BULLYING
Other Names For Cyberbullying…
Electronic Bullying
Online Social Cruelty
CYBER BULLYING IS…
Being cruel to others by sending or posting harmful material using technological means
An individual or group that uses information and communication involving electronic technologies to
Facilitate deliberate and repeated harassment
Threat to an individual or group.
Distribution of cyber bullying venues used by young people in the US, according to the Centers for Disease Control
CYBER BULLIES’ TECHNOLOGY E-mail
Cell phonesPager text messagesInstant messagingPersonal web sitesOnline personal
polling web sitesChat rooms
DIFFERENCES
BULLYING DIRECT
Occurs on school property
Poor relationships with teachers
Fear retributionPhysical: Hitting, Punching & ShovingVerbal: Teasing, Name calling & GossipNonverbal: Use of gestures & Exclusion
www.stopbullyingnow.hrsa.gov
CYBERBULLYING
• ANONYMOUS
Occurs offschool property
Good relationships with teachers
Fear loss of technology privileges
Further under the radar than bullying
• Emotional reactions cannot be determined
{McKenna & Bargh, 2004; Ybarra & Mitchell, 2004
How Can We STOP BULLYING?
Let’s STOP Bullying Together
BEING BULLIED?What Can You Do?
STAND UP Straight
Look The Bully In The Eyes
Walk Away Without Saying A Word
If the Bully Continues to
Bother You
Take a deep breath and say ‘No!’ very loudly NO!
How would you feel?
How would the bully feel?
Let’s Stop Bullying
Together
TELL, TELL, TELL!!
Practice what you want to say.
Keep a note or diary of what is happening.
Don't give up.
Ask your parents to visit the school.
Talk over what to do with a friend, teacher, your mom or
dad or someone you trust
If you are being bullied, you can do something
about it. You can make a
difference
Too Many Letters!
Linda is tearing her hair out because she has too many bullying letters. Can you help by answering some of the letters for her?
LETTER #1
Dear Linda,
I am 9 years old. When I play on the yard in school I get tripped up and bigger boys keep taking my dinner money. I hate going to school, whatcan I do?
Gavin
What would you do?
LETTER #2Dear Linda,I have seen a group of childrenin my school picking on anotherboy. They steal his money andoften hit him. Once theysmashed his glasses and threw them in the toilet. I feel really sorry for him. I would like totry and help but I don’t want to get on the wrong side of thebullies. Is there anything I can do?
JoshWhat
would you do?
LETTER #3Dear Linda,I am a 12 year old girl and I am being bullied through a website.Everyone in school goes on there but a group of girls have been posting really nasty things about me. I tried talking to the girls but they told me that if I tell anybody they will post more messages and beat me up on my way home from school.
Joanne
What would you
do?
Bullying Quiz Show
Quiz Time
Find out how much you know about bullying. Do you know what makes a bully and what to do if someone is being bullied?
Question 1You and your best friend Dean
have an argument and you decide not to speak to him anymore. Is this a form of bullying?
YES NO
Question 2As well as not speaking to Dean yourself you tell everyone in your class that they should not speak to Dean. Is this a form of bullying?
YES NO
Question 3During a school soccer game, an
opposition player comes behind you and you and kicks your ankle. You can’t play the rest of the game, have you been the victim of bullying?
YES NO
Question 4You think it is funny to pass
notes around your class that say untrue things about a girl or boy in your class. Are you a bully?
YES NO
Question 5You see a year 6 girl
picking on a year 3 boy on the school yard. What should you do?
Tell an adultwhat has happened
Ignore it, she isn’t
doing anything to
you.
Question 6A boy who is 2 years older
than you has taken your sandwiches off you everyday this week so you have had nothing for lunch. What would be the best thing to do?
Tell an adultwhat has happened
Ask your motherfor lunch money
instead
Remember!
Say “NO!” really loudly
NO!
PRACTICE EACH DAY!
Stand up straight, in front of a mirror
Look at your eyes -make them
look stern
Remember!
Everyone is different and you should be proud of who you are!
Remember!
Treat others the way you would like to be treated and you’ll find making friends is easy.
THE END!!!