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BECOMING MARRIAGEABLE
PRESENTEDBY
SCOTT ODIGIE
… Our SCRIPTURAL REFERENCE is …
Genesis 24:62-67
… Let's begin with our INTRODUCTION…
Becoming marriageable is part attitude and part strategy.
The best thing you can offer your spouse or the institution of marriage is yourself and not your assets, your body, your money, your properties
etc
The greatest challenge in relationship is not "relationship" nor
"marriage" but someone not marriageable.
Several people say or belief that there are no people to marry or to go into relationship with. But experience
and knowledge has taught us that the problem is with people that are
not marriageable.
…The concept of Becoming marriageable obeys the
following LAWS…
The law of attraction (power of imagination)
The law of reciprocity (golden rule)
The law of correspondence (your outer world experience
harmonizing with your inner world of goals)
HOW TO BECOME MARRIAGEABLE?
1. Spiritual success: There is nothing more vital to the life-line of a healthy person than being rooted in relationship with Jesus. Through this, we learn what it means to really love,
and are enabled to pour that same kind of love into our romantic
relationships as well. I
2. Destiny-oriented disposition: marriage is about
two covenant partners that are matured coming together to fulfill a
common destiny.
3. Finding purpose; who you are or the sense of significance:
4. Strive to Become the best version of yourself: this entails understanding who you are,
your distinctiveness and exploring it..
5. Personal security: It is said that a person’s level of security is
actually more attractive to the opposite sex than their physical
appearance. A person of confidence knows that their value is not rooted
in their relationship status, but rather, their identity in Christ.
6. Accepting responsibility for your outcomes: this means been responsible for your failures or
successes. It entails discipline against excuses, complaining and
procrastination.
7. Emotional intelligence
8. Life-long learning attitude: it has been said that, the
day you stop learning, you start dying and losing relevance. Learners don't see themselves as perfect but
as a project in progress.
9. Enterprising spirit: An enterprising person is one who comes across a pile of scrap metal and sees the making of a wonderful sculpture.
An enterprising person is one who drives through an old decrepit part of
town and sees a new housing development. An enterprising
10. Understanding that singleness is for life:
singleness means, to be complete, unique and whole.
… as we CONCLUDE…
What you know is what you believe and what you believe is what you become. Thank you for listening.