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A Narcissist, Sociopath, and Psychopath at Work… A Differential Analysis Christine Hammond, LMHC

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A Narcissist, Sociopath, and Psychopath at Work A Differential Analysis

A Narcissist, Sociopath, and Psychopath at WorkA Differential AnalysisChristine Hammond, LMHC

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A narcissist, sociopath, or psychopathIs He.

Is Bill Cosby a.NarcissistSociopathPsychopath

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ObjectivesDefine narcissism, anti-social, sociopath, and psychopath.Distinguish using real life examples.Discuss behavior at work. Describe impact on family and victims.Due Diligence for therapists.

ObjectivesDefine narcissism, anti-social, sociopath, and psychopath.Distinguish using real life examples.Discuss behavior at work. Describe impact on family and victims.Due Diligence for therapists.

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Which is Real?

Which is Real?Move away from the idea that all psychopaths look like Hannibal Lecter.4

Goal To education professionals in identifying sociopathic and psychopathic behaviors because an increase in narcissism may also lead to increase in sociopathy and psychopathy.

GoalTo education professionals in identifying sociopathic and psychopathic behaviors because an increase in narcissism may also lead to increase in sociopathy and psychopathy.

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Part 1Define narcissism, anti-social, sociopath, and psychopath.

Part 1Define narcissism, anti-social, sociopath, and psychopath.

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Narcissistic Personality DisorderExaggerates achievementsFantasies of successRequires excessive admirationSense of entitlementBelieves others are enviousArrogant

Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Grandiose sense of self-importance Fantasies of unlimited success or powerBelieves they are "special" Requires excessive admirationSense of entitlementTakes advantage of others Lacks empathyBelieves others are envious of themArrogant

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Anti-Social Personality DisorderCriminal behaviorLies, deceives, and manipulatesAggression towards othersDisregards safety Irresponsible

Anti-social Personality Disorder

Violation of others rights since 15Criminal arrestsLying, deception, and manipulationImpulsive behaviorEngages in fightingDisregards safety of self and othersIrresponsibility Lack of remorse 18 years old

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SociopathUntruthful and insincereLack of remorse Poor judgment Threatens suicideHighly sexualNo life plan

Sociopath Definition from Harvey Cleckley, The Mask of Insanity:CharmingUnreliabilityUntruthfulness Lack of remorse Poor judgment Incapacity for loveNo insightUnresponsiveSuicide threats rarely carried outSex life impersonalFailure to follow any life plan9

PsychopathPathological lyingCunning/manipulativeProne to boredomParasitic lifestyleCriminal behaviorPromiscuous

Psychopath Definition from Hare Psychopathy Checklist: Facet 1: Interpersonal Glibnesspathological lyingcunning/manipulativeFacet 2: Affective Lack of remorseemotionally shallowFacet 3: Lifestyle Prone to boredomparasitic lifestyleFacet 4: Antisocial Criminal behaviorOther items - Promiscuous sexual behavior

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Differential Chart

HighlightsOrigin socio environment/abuse; psycho born/malfunction in brainPopulation anti-1 in 100; socio- 1 in 25; psycho- 1 in 30Morality Lack of conscienceImpulsivity none for psychoAbuse narc-random; socio-impulsive; psycho-calculatedVocations narc- high profile; socio-steady are hard; psycho-faade

Group exercise:Pare and shareWhich client is easiest and hardest for you to identify?11

Part 2Distinguish using real life examples.

Part 2Distinguish using real life examples.

Disclaimers: Speak of males only because don't know enough femalesWhite collar crimes only - not an expert in criminology nor profiling

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Female Psychopaths Do Exist

Charlize Theron in Monster (2003) portrays true story of a Florida serial killer named Aileen Wuornas who was executed 2002.

Victims of serial killer Aileen Wuornos:

Richard Mallory, 51, body found in Volusia County. David Spears, 43, Winter Garden. His nude body was found along Highway 19.Charles Carskaddon, 40, died of nine bullets in his chest and abdomen.Troy Burress, 50, Ocala. Found along State Road 19 in Marion County. Charles "Dick" Humphreys, 56, retired Air Force major, former police chief and Florida state child abuse investigator. He had been shot six times. Walter Jeno Antonio, 62. His nearly nude body was found in Dixie County. Peter Siems, 65. His car was found in Orange Springs. His body was never found. 13

PhilScottNealCharlieReal or Composite

Are they real or composite?

2 are real, 2 are composite

Can you guess?14

Phil the Psychopath

Killed animalsAbused by fatherCreates false sympathyThreatensManipulativeAbuses medications

Phil the Psychopath

Killed animalsAbused by fatherCreates false sympathyThreatensManipulativeAbuses medications

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Scott the SociopathStole moneySmooth talkerChameleonLied about occupationNeeds coverSeductive

Scott the Sociopath

Stole moneySmooth talkerChameleonLied about occupationNeeds coverSeductive

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Neal the NarcissistIntimidating stareBulliesVery competitiveSuccessfulBrags about moneyNeeds admiration

Neal the Narcissist

Intimidating stareBulliesVery competitiveSuccessfulBrags about moneyNeeds admiration

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Charlie the ChildThreatens harmExpelled from schoolsRequires constant attentionNo filterLies without regard

Charlie the Child

Threatens harmExpelled from schoolsRequires constant attentionNo filterLies without regard

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Part 3Discuss behavior at work.

Part 3

Discuss behavior at work.19

Neal the NarcissistTalks about selfBulliesNeeds admirationUsually industriousHigh profile positions

Neal the Narcissist

Talks about selfBulliesNeeds admirationUsually industriousHigh profile positions

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Scott the SociopathLies about accomplishmentsBlames othersUses appearanceUnnecessary risksLoose job descriptions

Scott the Sociopath

Lies about accomplishmentsBlames othersUses appearanceUnnecessary risksLoose job descriptions

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Phil the Psychopath

Perfect resumeDestabilizes environmentUndermines authorityDefiant of rulesAny vocation

Phil the Psychopath

Perfect resumeDestabilizes environmentUndermines authorityDefiant of rulesAny vocation

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Part 4Describe impact on family and victims.

Part 4

Describe impact on family and victims.23

Ten Tips for Victims

Ten Tips for VictimsName the type of abuse. Abuse can be emotional, physical, mental, verbal, financial, sexual and spiritual. Diagnosis the behavior. Recognize their patterns. Strategize. Think of this as a game of chess. Set boundaries. Rather the boundaries are for the victim. Have an exit plan. Tell a close friend or relative. Move away if possible. Be reflective. New relationships need to be checked. 24

7 Ways a Person Can Be AbusedPhysicalMentalVerbalEmotionalFinancialSexualSpiritual

7 Ways a Person Can Be Abused

PhysicalMentalVerbalEmotionalFinancialSexualSpiritual25

Part 5Due Diligence for therapists.

Part 5

Due diligence for therapists.26

Analyze This

Analyze This

1999 gangster comedy movieBilly Crystal plays psychiatristRobert De Niro plays mob boss who has developed panic attacksSeeks out help from psychiatristLanguage in clip is strong but consistent with psychopathsListen for Billy Crystals question.Same question we as therapists need to ask

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Patient Kills Psychiatrist in Murder-Suicide (2011, VA)

Police: Cleaver-wielding Man Kills Psychologist (2008, NY)

Patient Admits Killing Psychiatrist, Police Say (2006, MD)

Therapists Killed by Patient

July 2011, Dr. Mark Lawrence, 71, Psychiatrist, killed by a patient in a murder-suicide. Shot in his home office of McLean, Virginia by Barbara Newman, 62 when she showed up for her appointment. February 2008, Kathryn Faughey, 56, Psychologist was attacked and murdered with a meat cleaver by David Terloff, 39 in her upper East Side Manhattan office. Dr. Kent Schinbach, a colleague and psychiatrist in the same office, attempted to help her but was serious wounded in the face and neck. September 2006, Wayne S. Fenton, 53, Psychiatrist, was beaten and killed by his patient, Vitali A. Davydov, 19. 28

Safeguards for Therapists

Safeguards for Therapists

Obtain psychologic testing confirming the type of personality disorder. What do they want from therapy? Hint: It is not about healing. Set unspoken, basic, and personal goals for the sessions such as gaining trust. Ask for a signed release to speak with family members. Take notes on everything, especially the stories. Expect to be lied to on a regular basis even about small and insignificant matters. Do no harm. This is not about harm to the client; rather it is about whom the client might harm. Listen, ask questions and offer no advice. Emotional detachment is essential. Do not allow emotions of empathy to cloud judgement. Don't take intimidating personally. Have limits already established. Therapists can fire clients. Be careful about disclosing personal information. Be safe by having a co-worker on alert. Talk to another therapist. 29

Which was real or composite?

Which was real or composite?30

Questions & AnswersResources

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