PUBLIC VICTORYPART III & IVGroup # 3Members: Syed Jamal ShahPriya BalaniMahrukh NoorAkshah KumarSantosh KumarYashpal AdvaniAbbas Khan
The Relationship Bank AccountHABIT # 4 Think win winHABIT # 5 HABIT # 6HABIT # 7Submitted to: Maam Ambreen Ahmed
PUBLIC VICTORY PART
Presentation by: Mahrukh Noor
PUBLIC VICTORY PARTBASED ON THE ELEMENT OF RELATIONSHIP BANK ACCOUNT
THE RBA:THE STUFF LIFE IS MADE OF
Relationship with your parents,grandparents,teachers,neighbors,siblings,freinds
AMOUNTOF CARE, AFFECTION, CONFIDENCE & TRUST YOUHAVE IN EACH OR YOUR RELATIONSHIPS.RBA REPRESENTS WHAT????
MAJOR HEADS: SEAN COVEY ASKED :WHAT IS THE MOST POWERFUL DEPOSIT SOMEONE CAN MAKE FOR THE RELATIONSHIP OR THE RBA?
RBA DEPOSITS&RBA WITHDRAWALSHE GOT RESPONSES AND FIND MAIN KINDS OF DEPOSITS ALONG WITH WITHDRAWALS
RBA DEPOSITSRBA WITHDRAWALSKEEPING PROMISESBREAKING PROMISESDO SMALL ACTS OF KINDNESSDONT DO SMALL ACTS OF KINDNESS OR KEEP IT TO YOURSELF
TABLE: THE TWO HEADS OF RBA
I . RBA DEPOSIT KEEPING PROMISES
Small commitments and promises are really important to build TRUST in relationships
IF YOUR RBA WITH YOUR PARENTS ( OR WITH ANY OTHER RELATION) IS LOW, TRY TO BUILD IT BY KEEPING YOUR WORDS, PROMISES AND COMMITMENTS BECAUSE WHEN YOUR PARENTS TRUST YOU EVERY THING GOES MUCH BETTER
When someone says something really nice to you & simply make your whole day
Sometimes the smallest thing. A HELLO, A KIND NOTE, A SMILE, ACOMPLIMENT OR A HUG CAN MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE TO YOUR RELATION
II . RBA DEPOSIT. DO SMALL ACTS O F KINDNESS
REMEMBER..Small actsOf kindness dont always have to beOne on one. You can join OTHERSto make healthy & positiveRBA DEPOSIT VIDEO: KINDNESS
Loyal person Is like as precious as gold and being a loyal to everyone is like diamond
Presentation by yashpal Advani
Gossip is dangerous then dynamite.1. it can be easily destroy reputation and relation
Loyal people keep secrets
1. Just between you and me2. if you want to keep a secret you must also hided from your self.
Loyal people always try to keep out of gossip environment
It is very hard to admit your mistake but very easy say I am sorry or I apologize it can solve your problems with in a seconds
Dont be unclear or unreal stick expectation
It is big deal but try to be in first to rebuild important relationship which destroyed in past
1. Keep promise2. Do good and be good3. Try to help needy person4. Say thank you on every act of kindness Listen Good, speak Good, say sorry dont gossip at all
Presentation by Syed jamal shahHabit #4 Think Win-Win
Habit #4: Think Win-Win Win-WinWin-Win is an attitude toward life; a mental frame of mind that says, I can win and so can you It is not about me or you, it is about both of us It begins with the belief that we are all equal, that no one is inferior or superior to anyone else and not needs to be the winner Life is not all about the competition, the way it may be in business, sports and/or school
Win-Lose: The Totem Pole
Full of prideTry to get ahead at the expense of others Always insist on getting your way without considering the feelings of othersBecome jealous and envious when something good happens to someone close to you
Lose-Win: The Doormat
Looks good on the surface, but is just as dangerous was Win-LoseWeak and easily gets stepped on It is easy to be the nice person and give in all the time in the name of being a peacemakerYou will find yourself setting low expectations and compromising your standardsFin when the issue is not important to you, but can cause serious damage when the issue is important
Lose-Lose: The Downward Spiral If Im going down, then you are going down with me, sucker! War is a great example Usually happens when two Win-Lose people get together If you both want to win at all costs, than you are both to lose
Win-Win: The All-You-Can-Eat-Buffet Belief that everyone can winNice and tough at the same timeYou care about others, but want to succeed as well Plenty of success to go around
Two major blocks to the Win-Win attitude are: CompetitionComparingCan be extremely healthyComparing yourself to others is nothing but bad newsDrives us to improveWe are all on different developmental timetablesWithout it you would never know how far you can push yourselfYou end up feeling inferior one moment and superior the next Becomes dark when you tie your self-worth to winning or when you use it to place yourself above another
HABBIT# 5SEEK FIRST TO UNDERSTAND THEN TO BE UNDERSTOOD
Seek first to Understand, and then to be Understood
Listen to people sincerelyYou Have Two Ears and one Mouth
The Deepest Need of the Human heart
Types of Poor Listening
GENUINE LISTENINGA kind of practice people want to put for use when communication with someone which there are three parts of it.
Presented by Santosh Kumar
FIRST, LISTEN WITH YOUR EYES, HEART & EARS
The first positive listening is listening with your eyes, heart and ears. Listening with your ears isnt good because only 7% of people communicate by words.Listening with your eyes and heart contains 40% of people communicate with feelings and 53% of people communicate with body language.
SECOND, STAND IN THEIR SHOESAnother positive listening is standing in someone's shoes. This phrase means that you must try to see the world as people see it and try to feel the same feeling as people feel.
THIRD, PRACTICE MIRRORINGThe last positive genuine listening skill is practicing mirroring. This simply means REPEAT BACK IN YOUR OWN WORDS WHAT THE OTHER PERSON IS SAYING AND FEELINGSMirroring isn't mimicking remember.
GENUINE LISTENING IN ACTIONSGenuine listening can work for many situations especially when youre trying to communicate with your PARENTS. Try listening to your parents like they are one of your friends. They experience defeat, hurt and all of the same emotions you do. Genuine listening will do 2 great things for you;You will create a greater respect for your parents,If you take time to listen to and understand your parents, you will also get your way much more often. This isnt manipulation or magic; JUST GENUINE LISTENING IN ACTIONS.
CONCLUSION OF GENUINE LISTENINGSo those were the three main parts of genuine listening that can lead to a positive experience. With listening with your eyes, heart and ears, standing in someone else shoes and practice mirroring, people can understand and listen to your feelings.
SYNERGIZEPRESENTED BY ABBAS KHANHABIT 6
WHAT IS SYNERGY ?
When two are more people work to gather to create better solution then either could alone .
Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much(HELEN KELLER)
SYNERGY SHOULD BE EVERYWHERE
LETS SEESYNERGY IS : Celebrating differences. Team work Open -mindedness .Finding new and better way.
SYNERGY IS NOT:Tolerating differences.Working independently.Thinking you are always right.Compromise.
WAYS TO HANDALE DIVERSITY THERE ARE THREE POSSIBLE APPROCHES LEVEL
3. Celebrate diversity.
WE ARE ALL A MINORITY OF ONEDR. THOMAS Armstrong has identified seven kinds of smarts LINGUISTIC. LOGICAL-MATHEMATICAL.BODILY-KINESTHETIC.SPATIAL.MUSICAL.INTERPERSONAL. INTRAPERSONAL.
GETTING TO SYNERGYWhether we are arguing with our parents over dating and curfew guidelines or planning a school or college activity with our peers, or so simply not seeing eye to eye ,there is a way to get to synergy.STEPS PROCESS:Define the problem or opportunity.Their way.My way.Brainstorm.High way.
ROAD BLOCKS OF SYNERGY
Although there are, many ,three of the largest road blocks of synergy are.IGNORANCE.CLIQUES.PREJUDICE.
SHARPEN THE SAWPRESENTED BY AKASH KUMAR
Habit 7 is taking the time to sharpen the sawBy this habit we can work more quickly and effortlessly. It helps to keep the balance of Personal Production Capability . Sharpening the saw is about constantly renewing our self.
Balance is BetterBalancing yourself helps you work better in all aspects.Balancing and moderation in all things.
Take Time for a Time-Out You need to restore your health and take care of yourself to be prepared.
Caring For Your BodyEat good foodRelaxGet enough sleepPractice yogaPlay sportsTake walksStretch outAerobics workout
TipsYou are what you eat.Use it or Lose it.Its all about how you feel.Looks dont matter.Dont believe in images.You can stop at any time.
Caring for Your BrainEducationExtracurricular activitiesHobbies JobsOther experiences
Find your talent!
Sharpen Your MindRead newspapersVisit a libraryWrite a storyDebatePlay board gamesPlay an instrument
You have to want something to get it.
Post-High School EducationYour DesiresStandardized test scoresExtracurricular skillsLetters of recommendationGrade point averageCommunication skills
Caring for Your HeartRelationship Bank AccountKeep promisesBe loyalSay youre sorryDo small acts of kindness
Love and Cry together
Caring for Your Heart2. Personal Bank AccountKeep promises to yourselfBe gentle to yourselfBe honestRenew yourself
You can SURVIVE!
Caring for Your SoulRenew and awaken your inner self.Look for your convictions and values.
Meditate, prayDraw, write, readWalk, listen to music
Keeping a JournalExpressing your feelingsStrengthens self-awarenessFind yourself
Your Spiritual DietFollow your conscienceTreat your soul with respectDont disturb yourself
Walk away, turn it off, throw it awayGet realYou can do it.
Summary:Before you do anything in life, make sure you prepare your body, brain, heart, and soul for it. This is the only way you will be able to complete your task successfully and with a positive outcome in return.