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What Men Should Know About First Dates: Here’s What Should Know

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1. What Men Should Know AboutFirst DatesHeres What Should Know 2. The process of going from single to being happilycommitted really begins with the first. Unfortunately,however, most men dont get past their first dates.We've done our share of counseling for men andfound out that theyre lack of success is NOTbecause that theyre not good looking enough ordesirable enough.More info on:http://www.sirensongs.com/ 3. What usually happens is that these men are notaware of first date etiquette - the dos and donts.In this article, were going talk to you about whatyou should know on your first date so you cantake the next step in your love life the seconddate.More info on:http://www.sirensongs.com/ 4. The first thing you need toremember is that women usuallyexpect the men to pay as part oftheir gentleman ritual. Whenyoure a couple, you will figureout cover and how to separatestatements later. But for the timebeing, pick the bill up. Even ifyour date insists on paying orsplitting the bill, man up andinsist on paying.More info on:http://www.sirensongs.com/ 5. Make plans to meet at a time that is convenient andin a place that is comfortable and conducive formeaningful conversation. Although they arepopular, you shouldn't go to a move to a movie onyour first date. Watching movies will only makeyou start at the screen all night, not at each other.More info on:http://www.sirensongs.com/ 6. Be confident but be careful not to come across yourdate as cocky. Be careful not to brag about yourselftoo. If shes late, be gracious. She probably simplydoes not feel the need to be there before you arethere.More info on:http://www.sirensongs.com/ 7. How do you strike up ameaningful conversation onyour first date? The basiccommunication skills fortalking with strangers apply.Listen to what she has to say.Ask meaningful questionsbut dont ask questions thatare too personal or touch onanything she might beuncomfortable with.More info on:http://www.sirensongs.com/ 8. Use compliments appropriately. She probably putsome effort in dressing up for your first date. Tell herthat she looks amazing and say it in a way that issincere. You should also dress appropriately for theoccasion, and be on time. Again, if shes runninglate, be gracious.More info on:http://www.sirensongs.com/ 9. When she walks into your meeting place, pull up achair. Show that chivalry is alive. Sure, she is anindependent girl. But that does not mean youshould not do anything chivalrous for theindependent woman.More info on:http://www.sirensongs.com/ 10. Say goodnight. Be deliberate about saying goodbye, and start among the following: kiss, hug, or ahandshake. Do not leave her standing there at theconclusion of the nighttime. If your night goes well,make a follow-up date. Follow the three-day rule ofcalling her after three days.More info on:http://www.sirensongs.com/