The Burden OfAttachment

by Alan Svejk

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The Burden Of Attachment by Alan Svejk

Why do the people suffer in life? It´s not the outside circumstances, which hurt us. We hurtourselves, just by being attached to many things, values and people. Your freedom begins inyour inner world, and only then, no outside events can take it from you. Learn to let go, andto respect the natural flow of things and events around you, and you will become victoriousin the whole life.

The basic problem is, that we expect too many things from the world. And any expectationmeans attachment. But the outside world can´t be controlled by us, and if we pray for ourdreams to be fulfilled, we just confirm how weak we are, how much we need other things orpeople for our happiness and fulfillment.

For example, many of us are so emotionally hungry, we would like to share our love with so-mebody special, and when we successfully meet someone special, who seems beneficial anduseful for improving the overall quality of our life, we are immediately caught in the net ofdangerous expectations. Then, we begin to be emotionally dependent on other people. But wecan´t control them, and we take their freedom with this approach. The nature doesn´t like thisbehavior, so she often punishes us by disappointment, when that people fail in our high ex-pectations.

That other people don´t spoil our relationships - we do. Not outside circumstances and eventshurt us - we do it ourselves, just by this questionable and unsustainable approach.

The key to happiness, inner peace and fulfilled relationships is to be able to let go yourdreams and all things you were holding so tight, and you were scared to lose them. You fou-ght desperately with the world, so that they won´t leave you, you wanted to stay them forever,to please you, ease your eternal hunger and your foiled hopes, that you lost long time ago,when someone or something hurt you.

The happiness is in our hands, not in the quality of the matters outside. Just let go everythingyou were so strongly attached to, and you will become the master of your life, who is able tofully control his or her emotions, because you will be independent on the world outside. Onlythen, your feelings can be stable, only then your disciline will hold and your personal andprofessional goals can be fulfilled. Otherwise, you will spend your life just waiting for so-mething that will possibly never come, and your lonely nights will be full of tears and regrets.

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Fill youself with acceptance of the world exactly as it really is... and then, no alleged loss ofthings, people or theoretical opportunities will hurt you.

And then, you will be free, no matter what will happen around you. You will be the personwho will survive all trembles and changes. Just accept them, and let go all that old inside you.You pampered your nice memories of things and people you thought you once had, but thisattachment was hurting you long after they were gone, because losses are the basic part of ourlife, and no matter how tightly you will try to hold your world together, it will run away fromyou anyway. And you just exhaust you inner power, and even love inside you.

Remember, our only mission here in life is to be happy. But it is our full responsibility toachieve this status, and nobody else can accomplish this crucial goal instead of us.

Just let go, forget, be content and open your mind to the present moment... only it matters forachieving the happiness.

© Alan Svejk 2014. Consultant in VIP Affairs | Public Relations | Copywriter | Journalist | Author. www.svejk-alan.cz

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