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10 QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR DAUGHTER’S BOYFRIEND
Your little girl is growing up…
Suddenly, she’s
running around
town with a new guy.
Before she goes out on that first date, here are the 10 quesKons you should ask your daughter’s boyfriend.
“Why do you want to date my daughter?”
“Why do you want to date my daughter?”
Put him on the spot right away and get a sense of what he wants with your precious little angel.
“What do you like to do for fun?”
“What do you like to do for fun?”
Give him a chance to talk about his
interests and you’ll learn something
about him.
“Are you religious?”
“Are you religious?”
Even if your family isn’t religious, you should know if your daughter’s boyfriend is!
“Are you religious?”
How he answers this question can give you a sense of his character and if he’s able to speak respectfully.
“Do you have a job?”
“Do you have a job?”
If he’s dependable
enough to hold down a job, he
must be reasonably
responsible.
“Where do you see yourself in 5 years?”
“Where do you see yourself in 5 years?”
This popular interview question will probably be unexpected, so he’ll give a candid answer. Maybe the tattooed bad boy has goals of going to med school?
“What are your parents like?”
“What are your parents like?”
Your upbringing impacts who you
become later in life, and learning a bit
about his family may show you that he has overcome a
lot in his life.
“What are your parents like?”
OR if he’s tight-lipped about his home life, there
may be something in his
past that you need to know.
Time for a TRICK question!
“What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?”
If he has an innocent, slightly embarrassing story that reminds you of your own teen years, he passed the test.
“What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?”
If he goes into detail about the time he earned a spot on the sex offender registry or “his friend” got him arrested for grand theft?
“Do your parents have any dating rules
we should know?”
“Do your parents have any dating rules
we should know?”
You have your own rules regarding
curfew and what your daughter is or isn’t allowed to do,
but his parents may be more lenient.
No pre-date grill-session would be complete without the old classic:
“What are your plans for this date?”
Get all the details. Where is he planning to take her? Who else will be there? When will they get back? Set a firm curfew.
“What are your plans for this date?”
Before you let them leave, get all of his information.
• Full name • Address • Cell phone number • The names and phone number(s) of his parents.
Before you let them leave, get all of his information.
It might seem overbearing and it will probably embarrass your daughter, but
ask yourself this question:
Before you let them leave, get all of his information.
If your daughter didn’t return from her date, wouldn’t you want to be able to give the police
as much info as possible?
Before you let them leave, get all of his information.
If you have any suspicions about the guy at all, now you can make sure he’s telling the truth
with a quick background check.
• Verify the information he told you is correct. • Check his traffic record to see if he’s a safe driver. • Make sure he isn’t hiding a violent or dangerous
background. • See if he has any known associates or family
members that are into anything unsavory.
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