THE RESISTANCE TO LET GO

ABSENCE OF CONSCIENCESanjay Kirimanjeshwar

August 23, 2015

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RESISTANCETO LET GO

Absence of Conscience | The Resistance To Let Go | Sanjay Kirimanjeshwar

THE RESISTANCE TO LET GO IS ACTUALLY A PERSISTENCE TO SAFEGUARD YOUR VALUE SYSTEM.

YOUR VALUES AND BELIEFS DEFINE WHO YOU ARE.


GIVER MECHANIC NURTURER ARTIST

PROTECTOR IDEALIST SCIENTIST THINKER

DOER GUARDIAN PERFORMER CAREGIVER

INSPIRER GIVER VISIONARY EXECUTIVE

CONSEQUENTLY, YOUR ACTIONS DEEPLY REFLECT YOUR VALUES.


INTEGRITY SINCERITY LOVE RESPECT

EQUALITY JUSTICE FREEDOM RELIABILITY

OWNERSHIP PEACE MODESTY JOY

LOYALTY EMPATHY MORALITY KINDNESS


WE EXPECT OUR INVESTMENT IN VALUES TO DELIVER A RETURN.

THE TROUBLE


THINK OF AN INCIDENT THAT LEFT YOU EMOTIONALLY RUPTURED.

EXERCISE


QUITE OFTEN, YOUR TRAUMA BORDERS ON

ANGERSADNESS

DEVASTATIONMOURNINGREVENGEGRUDGE

BITTERNESSWITHDRAWAL

SOLITUDESILENCE


WHEN YOU EXPERIENCE NEGATIVE EMOTIONS,IN THE SUBCONSCIOUS, YOUR HOUSE OF VALUES IS RATTLED.


I WAS SINCERE IN MY ACTIONS. IS THIS WHAT I GET?I NEVER HARMED ANYONE. WHAT DID I DO TO DESERVE THIS?I PLAYED FAIR. WHY IS LIFE SO UNFAIR TO ME?I WAS NICE. WHY ME?I WASN’T SELFISH. IS NOTHING SACRED?I WAS HONEST. IS MY HONESTY IRRELEVANT TODAY?I FEEL BETRAYED. IS THERE NO VALUE FOR LOYALTY?------------------------------AND MANY MORE.


ARE THE VALUES THAT YOU HOLD SO DEARLY, ALSO THE ONES THAT WILL DELIVER RESULTS?

IS IT WORTH LIVING BY THEM?

THE SELF DOUBT


SO, WHEN LOVED ONES SAY LET IT GO,WHERE DO YOU START FROM?


STOP EXPECTING YOUR VALUES TO DELIVER RETURNS.

FOR THE EVOLVED

1


STAY TRUE TO YOUR VALUES.AND, LET THE CYCLE OF KARMA FOLLOW ITS PATH.


DISTINGUISHING THE TWO, WILL SET YOU

FREE


RESTORE FAITH IN YOUR VALUE SYSTEM.

FOR THE EVOLVING

2


UNTIL THEN, YOU WILL CONTINUE TO FEEL MISERABLE ABOUT ALL YOUR EMOTIONALLY PAINFUL EXPERIENCES.


STAY AWAY FROM ANENVIRONMENT WHERE YOU EXPERIENCE

THE DEFEAT OF YOUR VALUES.

EMBRACE A NEW SURROUNDING WHERE YOUR VALUES GAIN RELEVANCE.


OVER TIME, WHEN YOUR ACTIONS, GUIDED BY YOUR VALUES GENERATE LOVE AND

ACCEPTANCE, YOU WILL HAVE THE FAITH TO LIVE BY YOUR VALUES ONCE AGAIN.


YOU CAN THEN LET GO AS THOSE EXPERIENCES NO LONGER SERVE YOUR PURPOSES.


AS YOU SPRING BACK AND FORTH, KEEPING YOUR HOUSE OF VALUES IN ORDER, YOU WILL REALIZE

SOONER OR LATER THAT VALUES DON’T FUNCTION AS AN INSTRUMENT OF RETURN.

THEY ARE SIMPLY A WAY OF LIFE.


OFFLOAD YOUR BAGGAGE ON TO THE CYCLE OF KARMA.

IT KNOWS. IT HEARS YOU, AND IT MAINTAINS EQUILIBRIUM WITH ACCURACY.


THEREFORE, IT IS IMPORTANT FOR EACH OF US NOT TO HURT THE OTHER. LETTING GO IS OFTEN A STRUGGLE AND

UPSETS THE CELEBRATION OF LIFE.


LIKE IN ONE OF MY PREVIOUS JOBS, OUR COUNTRY MANAGER JUST SAID THIS TO EVERY NEW EMPLOYEE

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DON’T DO ANYTHING THAT YOU DON’T WANT OTHERS TO DO TO YOU.


IF YOU MISSED READING THE FIRST ISSUE OF ABSENCE OF CONSICENCE, VIEW IT ON SLIDE SHARE.

KEEP CALM AND SPEAK THE TRUTH

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Sanjay Kirimanjeshwar is a career marketing professional based in Bangalore, India. Sanjay believes that the absence of conscience among individuals make people and organizations hollow, and causes erosion of righteousness in corporate life. It is important for everyone to introspect their actions and be good to each other.

Sanjay can be reached at [email protected]. The views expressed in this presentation are his personal.

ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

When I first saw the slide show version of Marty Neumeier’s Brand Gap many years ago, I was awestruck by its simplicity and the conversational style of presentation.

It taught me how to build slides.

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