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Craig’s story TALKING AT THE DEATH

Talking at the Death by Philpot

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The best way to convey the worst. Steve Philpot highlights flaws in our approach to discussions surrounding terminal illness and palliative care.

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Craig’s storyTALKING AT THE DEATH

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We didn’t realise he was dying

Didn’t know when he was going to die

Didn’t feel certain that death was approaching

Assumed he already knew

Had the conversation but he didn’t remember

Didn’t have time to have the conversation

Didn’t feel we had the skills to have the conversation

Thought he might prefer not to know

Didn’t want to take away his hope

WHY DIDN’T WE SAY ANYTHING?

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We didn’t realise he was dying

Didn’t know when he was going to die

Didn’t feel certain that death was approaching

Assumed he already knew

Had the conversation but he didn’t remember

Didn’t have time to have the conversation

Didn’t feel we had the skills to have the conversation

Thought he might prefer not to know

Didn’t want to take away his hope

WHY DIDN’T WE SAY ANYTHING?

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We didn’t realise he was dying

Didn’t know when he was going to die

Didn’t feel certain that death was approaching

Assumed he already knew

Had the conversation but he didn’t remember

Didn’t have time to have the conversation

Didn’t feel we had the skills to have the conversation

Thought he might prefer not to know

Didn’t want to take away his hope

WHY DIDN’T WE SAY ANYTHING?

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We didn’t realise he was dying

Didn’t know when he was going to die

Didn’t feel certain that death was approaching

Assumed he already knew

Had the conversation but he didn’t remember

Didn’t have time to have the conversation

Didn’t feel we had the skills to have the conversation

Thought he might prefer not to know

Didn’t want to take away his hope

WHY DIDN’T WE SAY ANYTHING?

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We didn’t realise he was dying

Didn’t know when he was going to die

Didn’t feel certain that death was approaching

Assumed he already knew

Had the conversation but he didn’t remember

Didn’t have time to have the conversation

Didn’t feel we had the skills to have the conversation

Thought he might prefer not to know

Didn’t want to take away his hope

WHY DIDN’T WE SAY ANYTHING?

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Feedback to parent units

Plan at ICU/ED discharge

Role of MET service training

Drive culture change in hospital

Drive culture change outside hospital

WHAT CAN WE DO IN CRIT CARE?

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Patients should and want to know if they are dying

We can discuss dying in the face of uncertainty and without extinguishing hope

Much more effective outside of the critical care arena

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