In Your 40s and Still Single?

What? You're in your 40s and you're still single? What could possibly be wrong

with you? Why haven't you found someone? Are you impossible to live with? Can

nobody stand your company? Are you a social outcast? The questions, the

comments, the pressure from society and the pressure from you go on and on.

But are you really different and strange?

Of course not. There are millions upon millions of people in every country and in

every culture that remain single in their 40s and there's absolutely nothing wrong

with them or you. But the problem and solution lies within you.

As we make our journey through life we are influenced by many different people

and many different experiences, some good and others not so. Some experiences

and lessons learned teach us lessons that can empower us for the rest of our lives,

yet other experiences and lessons leave enormous negative impressions that we

could do without. The so-called ideal age to find our perfect spouse is one of those

negative experiences and impressions.

So many of us become conditioned into thinking it is wrong to be single at a more

mature age, to the extent that women in their 30s feel as if time is running out for

them. People literally feel as though there is something wrong with them or their

personality if they're not married by the age of 40.

But this all comes from our conditioning in the early years of life, yet if we can

simply recondition the way we think and change our mindset the situation and the

way we feel changes very quickly. For example would you rather be miserable and

married to the wrong person at 25 or be happy and single at 40? I can almost

guarantee that most people would prefer to be happy and single at 40.

There are many different ways for you to change your mindset and of course

working with a professional confidence coach or life coach can really help. They

can lead you through several exercises and coaching sessions that can enable you

to find the root of your negative mindset and replace it with a growing and

confident view of your age and relationship status.

If you find inner peace with whom you are and where you're going in life and all

these negative views and thoughts with regards to your age and relationship status

can be banished for good from your everyday life.

Can a personal growth expert make the difference you need in both your

personal and business life?

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