17
The Impostor Syndrome: It’s not just you! Drs. Felicia De La Garza Mercer & Lisa Meeks October 16, 2013

Impostor syndrome

Embed Size (px)

DESCRIPTION

 

Citation preview

Page 1: Impostor syndrome

The Impostor Syndrome: It’s not just you!

Drs. Felicia De La Garza Mercer & Lisa MeeksOctober 16, 2013

Page 2: Impostor syndrome

Pop Quiz Do you secretly worry that others will find out that you’re not as smart

or capable as they think you are?

Do you sometimes shy away from challenges because of nagging self-doubt?

Do you tend to chalk your accomplishments up to being a “fluke”, “no big deal” or the fact that people just "like" you?

Do you hate making a mistake, being less than fully prepared or not doing things perfectly?

Do you tend to feel crushed by even constructive criticism, seeing it as evidence of your "ineptness?“

Do you believe that other people (students, colleagues, competitors) are smarter and more capable than you are?

•Do you live in fear of being found out, discovered, unmasked?

From Dr. Valerie Young, www.impostorsyndrome.com

Page 3: Impostor syndrome

Workshop Agenda

What is Impostor Syndrome?

Why is this important to know about?

How to cope with impostor feelings

Page 4: Impostor syndrome

Feeling like a Fraud

Page 5: Impostor syndrome

One of These Things Is Not Like the Other

Page 6: Impostor syndrome

Signs of Impostor Syndrome

Self-doubt

Sense of incompetence

Frequently comparing yourself to others

Low self-esteem, self-worth

Fear, anxiety

Immobility

Stress & burnout

Under-performance

Hard to accept praise and/or compliments

Inability to enjoy your accomplishments

Page 7: Impostor syndrome

Sources of Impostor Feelings

“You’re so smart!”

You’re a student or new hire

The politics and culture of graduate/professional school can fuel self-doubt

You belong to an underrepresented group and are a minority in your school/work place

From Dr. Valerie Young, www.impostorsyndrome.com

Page 8: Impostor syndrome

Sources of Impostor Feelings

Page 9: Impostor syndrome

But I Can Explain All ThatLuck or timing

Supposed simplicity of the task

Others help or low expectations

Computer error

Likeability

Other creative excuses…

From Dr. Valerie Young, www.impostorsyndrome.com

Page 10: Impostor syndrome

Competence TypesThe Perfectionist

The Expert

The Soloist

The Natural Genius

The Superwoman/man/student

From Dr. Valerie Young, www.impostorsyndrome.com

Page 11: Impostor syndrome

Coping & Protecting Strategies

Hard work to make up for “ineptness”

Holding back

Use of charm or perceptiveness

Procrastination

Not finishing

Self-sabotage

From Dr. Valerie Young, www.impostorsyndrome.com

Page 12: Impostor syndrome

Small Changes Add UpBreak the silence and normalize feelings

It’s not just you!

Separate feelings from fact

Change thoughts and behaviors first and let feelings catch up…understand your unique “impostor pattern”

Reframe those “fraud” feelings into a sense of learning and growing

From Dr. Valerie Young, www.impostorsyndrome.com

Page 13: Impostor syndrome
Page 14: Impostor syndrome

Small Changes Add UpFind a mentor, create a support system &

community

Teach and be a mentor

Remind yourself that you are not alone“Everyone else is an impostor, too.” – Tina Fey

Remind yourself of your accomplishments

Page 15: Impostor syndrome

True CompetenceKnowing how to identify the resources it takes to

get the job done…TimeMoney InformationPeople

From Dr. Valerie Young, www.impostorsyndrome.com

Page 16: Impostor syndrome

Use Your Resources!Student Health & Counseling

• 476-1281

Student Disability Services• 476-6595

First Gen Support Services• 514-0840

Learning Resource Services• 502-0319

Multicultural Resource Center

• 502-1911

Office of Career & Professional Development

• 476-4986

Your Peers Faculty/Mentors

Page 17: Impostor syndrome