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Sustainable Family Values as a Means to Create a Stable and
Prosperous Society and Nation
UN Headquarters, Geneva June 30 to July 1, 2014
Lynn Walsh, Universal Peace Federation
Failure to Achieve the MDGs:Can we exclude the family if the heart of the human problem is the
human heart?
The Foundation: Life, Love and Purpose
Building peace through inter-religious and international collaborations and education to support universal values and spiritual principles in order to resolve conflict and reconcile the divided human family. A core principle is that marriage, parenting and the family are the foundations of sustainable human development and the very cells for building society.
Decline of Youth Well-being• One of every four adolescents in the U.S. is currently at serious
risk of not achieving productive adulthood
• 21 percent of U.S. children ages nine to 17 have a diagnosable mental or addictive disorder associated with at least minimum impairment
• Current generation of young people is more likely to be depressed and anxious than was its parent’s generation
• Twenty percent of students report having seriously considered suicide in the past year
Commission for Children at Risk
Global Youth Violence Rises
Worldwide some 250,000 homicides occur among youth 10-29 years of age each year – 41% of the annual total number of homicides globally. For each young person killed, 20-40 more sustain injuries requiring hospital treatment. Youth violence has a serious, often lifelong, impact on a person's psychological and social functioning.
WHO report 2014
Crisis in Mental Health in Youth
Data shows in the midst of unprecedented material
affluence, deteriorating mental and behavioral health of
U.S. children, high and rising rates of depression, anxiety,
attention deficit, conduct disorders, thoughts of suicide,
and other serious mental, emotional, and behavioral
problems among U.S. children and adolescentsCommission for Children at Risk, a panel of 33 leading children’s doctors, neuroscientists,
research scholars, and youth service professionals
Main Risk Factors for Youth Violence are Instability in the Home Environment
• Low level of attachment between parents & children• Poor supervision of children by parents • Harsh physical punishment to discipline children• Parental conflict in early childhood• Mother who had her first child at an early age• Experiencing parental separation or divorce at a young
age• Low level of family cohesion• Low socioeconomic status of the family.
World Health Organization report
WHO: Evaluation of Solutions
“Parent and family-based interventions are among the most promising strategies for producing long-term reductions in youth violence. ..counseling and gang prevention programs have been ineffective.” WHO
http://www.who.int/violence_injury_prevention/violence/global_campaign/en/youthviolencefacts.pdf
Parents: Hardwired to Attach and Care, Marriage Solidifies the Stability
Oxytocin and prolactin in pregnancy, birth and breast feeding enhance maternal bonding but also residing fathers bond due to mother’s pheromones decrease in
testosterone and Increase in oxytocin. (Wilcox and Kline, 2013)
Child Benefits: Married ParentsChildren raised in intact married families are more likely to attend college, are physically and emotionally healthier, are less likely to be physically or sexually abused, less likely to use drugs or alcohol and to commit delinquent behaviors, have a decreased risk of divorcing when they get married, are less likely to become pregnant/impregnate someone as a teenager, and are less likely to be raised in poverty. ("Why Marriage Matters: 26 Conclusions from the Social Sciences," Bradford Wilcox, Institute for American Values, www.americanvalues.org/html/r-wmm.html)
Benefit of Complementarities of Mothers and Fathers
Children receive gender specific support from having a mother and a father. …particular roles of mothers (e.g., to nurture) and fathers (e.g., to discipline), as well as complex biologically rooted interactions, are important for the development of boys and girls. "Marriage and the Public Good: Ten Principles," 2006, www.princetonprinciples.org
Humans Continually Require Stable Attachment
Secure attachment predicts emotional makeup, the ability to trust, learn and develop healthy relationships throughout life.
Adolescents seek attachment & learn who they are as individuals through their relationships. Without close relationship with parents, teens will instead attach to peers who naturally lack maturity, do not give good guidance and do not care about their long term well-being.
Sexual Relations Create Attachment even when Immature
Nearly half (47%) of all high school students report ever having had sexual intercourse in 2011.
Hormones released during sex are
Intended to bond partners. Early multiple partners can “wear out “ the natural bonding of sexual relations, disconnecting relations & sex from higher purpose. CDC. Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance System: US, 2011. MMWR, 61(-4). 2012
Fundamentally Relational and Naturally Seek Meaning and Purpose
“Children are biologically "hardwired" for enduring attachments to other people and for moral and spiritual meaning. Meeting children's needs for enduring attachments and for moral and spiritual meaning is the best way to ensure their healthy development.” Commission on Children at Risk
Human Attachment and Moral Development
The beginning of morality is primed in close genuine relationships with one’s parents
– the essential foundation for the emergence of conscience and of moral meaning
– the human child is talked into talking and loved into loving
Primary nurturing relationships influence early spiritual development “The child spontaneously attributes to his parents
the perfections and abilities which he will later transfer to God if his religious education gives him the possibility.”
Jean Piaget
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FSL 5.2.3sFSL 5.2.3s
The natural order of the family teaches natural social order
and living for a higher purpose.
Adults Need Genuine AttachmentMarriages do not need more excitement, activity, glitz
but they yearn for depth in connection.
Doha International Family Institute IYF Conference on Empowering Families: A
Pathway to DevelopmentDoha, Qatar April 16-17, 2014
UPF Secretary General, Taj Hamad
UPF Partnership in Sydney Conference and Co-sponsorship in UN NY
NGO Collaboration: Getting Family in the SDGs
Family Watch International,
Sharon Slater
Statement Submissions, Open Working Group, ECOSOC Meetings
CoNGO MembershipCo-chair of NGO Committee on the Family
http://ngofamily-ny.org
Parents Advantage
The mechanisms of attachment…– oxytocin, and vasopressin
• social bonding manifests itself biochemically in the reward circuitry located deep in the cortex of the brain
– hormones in the human bonding process• including dopamine, prolactin, endogenous opioid peptides, and steroid
hormones such as estrogen, testosterone, and progesterone
• help to trigger parental care, which in turn helps to trigger the release of more attachment hormones
ITALY: An interreligious program in Bergamo on “Faith in the Family”
NIGERIA: A conference in Uyo, Awka Ibom State
CZECH REPUBLIC: A conference in the Parliament
Programs organized inAustriaIndiaPeruUSA
March for Marriage, June 19, 2014 https://www.nationformarriage.org/
NOM Dinner Public Square Leadership Award to
Ryan Anderson and Marriage Champion Award to
Dr. Ben CarsonIntroduced by Prof. Robert George,
Princeton University
(Co-authored George, Anderson and Sherif Girgis)
Youth Risk Increasing
• Since the 1950s, death rates among U.S. young people due to unintentional injuries, cancer, and heart disease have all fallen by about 50 percent
• death rates overall have dropped by about 53 percent
– homicide death rates among U.S. youth rose by more than 130 percent
– Suicide rates (the third leading cause of death among U.S. young people) rose by nearly 140 percent
Our Intellectual Models are Inadequate…• The Pharmacological Model
– enormous benefits for millions of suffering patients
– mental illness is still under-treated in the U.S.– current lack of resources to treat children with
major mental illness is a serious problem – significant progress in many areas of individual
treatment, especially those using psychotropic drugs and specific psychotherapies
– but collectively regressing in the area of prevention
UNIVERSAL PEACE FEDERATION
Albania, Argentina, Austria, Bangladesh, Barbados, Cambodia, Czech Republic, DR Congo, Ecuador,
Finland, France, Germany, India, Indonesia, Italy, Japan, Kenya, Malaysia, Netherlands, New Zealand,
Nigeria, Norway, Peru, Switzerland, UK, USA, Zambia
CSD February 2014 “Family as Social Driver” with Ambassadors from El Salvador, Qatar, Romania,
Nigeria and IFFD, Howard Institute, Family Watch International
The Family and the MDGS: Using Family Capital to Achieve the 8 Millennium Development Goals
Published by the Doha International Family Institute Our contribution, Chapter 3 on MDG 3: Gender Equality and the Empowerment of Women
Parenting Differences
Human Beings are Relational Beings.Need Secure Bonding to Thrive