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Almost any game can form the scaffolding for married life and family living. Some of these games are tolerated longer, under the legal force of contractual intimacy. Marital games can only be arbitrarily separated from sexual games .
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Marital Games
Prepared By Manu Melwin JoyResearch Scholar
School of Management StudiesCUSAT, Kerala, India.Phone – 9744551114
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Marital Games• Almost any game can
form the scaffolding for married life and family living.
• Some of these games are tolerated longer, under the legal force of contractual intimacy.
• Marital games can only be arbitrarily separated from sexual games .
Corner• Corner illustrates
more clearly than most games their manipulative aspect and their function as barriers to intimacy.
• Paradoxically, it consists of a disingenuous refusal to play the game of another.
Courtroom• Courtroom is essentially
three handed, with a plaintiff, a defendant and a Judge, represented by a husband, a wife and the therapist.
• In everyday form, courtroom is easily observed in children as a three handed game between two siblings and a parent.
Frigid Woman• In this game, the
husband makes advances to his wife and is repulsed.
• After repeated attempts, he is told that all men are beasts, he doesn’t really love her and all he is interested is in sex.
• When he resigns, wife tempts him and the game continues.
Harried• This is played by a
housewife who is proficient in ten or twelve different occupations.
• The thesis of this game is that she takes on everything that comes and even asks for more.
• This ultimately results in her burn out and being ready for hospitalized.
If It Weren’t For You• Briefly, a woman marries a
domineering man so that he will restrict her activities and thus keep her from getting into a situation which frighten her.
• She takes advantage of the situation to complain about the restrictions , which makes her spouse feel uneasy and gives her all sorts of advantages.
Look How Hard I Have Tried• This is a three handed
game played by a married couple with a psychiatrist.
• Husband is bucking for a divorce and he comes to the therapist to demonstrate that he is cooperating.
• He ends up by saying “ Look how hard I have tried” and ask for divorce.
Sweet Heart• Husband exposes the
deficiencies of the wife and save her from embarrassment of having to expose them herself.
• He ends the comment by saying “ Isn’t that right, sweetheart?”.
Thank You
Other TA topics available on slideshare1. Strokes - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/strokes-24081607.
2. Games People Play - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/psychological-games-people-play.
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http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/cycles-of-developement-pamela-levin-transactional-analysis.
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