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By:- Bishnu Chethri
Harsh Agrawal
Shravani
Madhusudan
Nishant Singh
Ashutosh Kumar Jha
VINAY’s BACKGROUND
• Native of Kerela
• Married against parent’s wishes and Living with in-laws in Delhi
• Working as an Accountant
• Not able to adjust neither with his in-laws nor with his colleagues
• Over-ambitious, Dissatisfied with his salary
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VINAY’s BEHAVIOURAL
INTROVERT
INFLEXIBLE
HYPERSENSITIVE
PESSIMISTIC
INCOMPLACENT
ACUMEN
INNOVATIVE
AMBITIOUS
EFFICIENT
NEGATIVEPOSITIVE
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Dilemma
Go back to his parents & start life afresh Eat his pride, give an
open apology to MD and continue with the same life
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Vinay’s Behaviour
At Home:
Emotional labor:One is expected to behave in a specific manner.Behaviour with in-laws.
Emotional dissonance:Conflict between emotions felt and emotions displayed.Behaviour with parents.
Surface acting:Hidden inner feelings in response to display rules.Behaviour with wife.
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Vinay’s behaviour
At office:
Intelligent and hardworking
Rationality and emotions conflict with each other.
Disclosing confidential information, making fun of his boss
Negative emotions, too sensitive, unfriendly, rude, rebellious.
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Moods
Dominant Side
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Johari Window model
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Johari Window model
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SOURCES OF EMOTIONS
PERSONALITY
Decisiveness
STRESS
AGE
Anger and excitement
Not an able decision maker
Fear of failure in life, insecurities
Young, passionate and impatient
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Vinay’s Emotional Intelligence
SELF AWARENESS
SELF MANAGEMENT
SELFMOTIVATION
1. No Clarity in his goals
2. Not very decisive.
1. No self monitoring
2. Type A personality
1. Impulsive
2. No Self control
Personal Competence
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Vinay’s Emotional Intelligence
Social Competence
EMPATHY
SOCIAL SKILLS
Inablility to handle relationships
• With wife
• With colleagues
• With in-laws
Lacks interpersonal skills
• With Ravinder Singh
• Bimal Roy
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If Vinay had high EI..!!
1. Instance - With MD
Actual Reaction- Walked into his room and asked for salary hike
Proposed reaction- Should have waited for the formal announcement
2. Instance - With Bimal Roy
Actual reaction- Lost temper, talked rudely and asked him to go away
Proposed reaction- Should have listened patiently and admitted his
mistake as he was wrong
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3. Instance - Let out company’s financial secrets
Actual reaction- Spoke with colleagues about the upswing in the
company and invoked them to ask for a salary hike.
Proposed reaction- Was trusted by MD, so should never have
talked about such things with anyone
4. Instance - Lying to his wife
Actual reaction- Started coming late from office for no reason
Proposed reaction- Should have shared his feelings with his wife about missing his parents. He would have felt lighter.
If Vinay had high EI..!!
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Recommendations
He needs to analyze where he went wrong and apologize to MD
o he has responsibilities and is also dependent on his in-laws
o he doesn’t have any other job in his hand
o he wants to become independent in his plans for future
Vinay should improve his EQ:-
o By being observant and reflective
o Learn from his mistakes
o Take the feedback positively
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