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The slow killer of ‘your’ personality

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Dearest Darling Friends,

Lying is a slow killer of our personality. Nowadays lying is a widespread problem of many people. This behaviour problem seriously

affects life. It is easy to lose trust of friends, the dearest and the nearest people, because of lying. Lying also causes serious mental and

relationship problems.

When trust is lost, it is impossible to regain it. Nothing in life is worth doing if it leads to loss of

trust.

We believe it is much easier to prevent lying rather than disentangle the consequences of this

behavior.

To rectify the harm caused, we may have to spend years, yet fail.

In the presence of trust, even impossible situations can be faced. In the absence of trust even

simple situations become impossible.

Please do not let lying affect your happiness and progress.

Here is a small list of reasons to stop lying from today and start telling the truth.

1. Speaking the truth is a sign of ‘bravery’

It takes more bravery to tell a highly inconvenient truth than a lie that helps you to escape for a

little while. Truth is the priority of strong and wise people. I do agree that sometimes it is extremely difficult to tell the truth, especially when it

comes to feelings and relationships and complex people. In the long run, genuine people always stay back with people telling the truth.

2. Lies breaks down trust

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Friedrich Nietzsche once said, “I’m upset that you lied to me. I’m upset that from now, I cannot believe you.” This saying shows that no one

believes liars. Those who prefer to lie lose authority. People always doubt liars even when the liars are saying the truth. People who say the truth

are highly appreciated by others around them. Being trustworthy is a great trait of character that increases your worth and respect.

3. Distress to de-stress

When you are fighting between telling the truth and telling a lie, you may feel anxious. However, after the incident you are stress free if you

have told the truth. You will be stressed for a long long time, if you have told a lie. Choose wisely.

4. Drop your mask

Lying can create various inner conflicts and stress, which affects moods and awards one with more problems. There is a risk to get used to

lying. Often, we will have to tell more lies to cover up the first one. It usually causes inner controversy and you can do nothing about this fact.

Furthermore, it affects your confidence and self-esteem. You always feel like a thief. You always carry a mask. It rips you off peace and keeps you

always uncertain. Neither will you be genuine nor will you have people around you who are genuine.

5. Don’t be your own victim

There is a type of people who tell the lies all the time believing it is absolutely ok to do so. It doesn’t matter how serious the subject of

discussion is, they are non-chalant about it. These people usually feel the urge to lie and it often turns into a bad habit. Come out of this

psychological trap before you become the victim of your own habit. Come out of this habit before you lose something or someone who is very

valuable to you.

6. Deprived of accomplishment?

I pray you know that liars create a myth of their “successful” life, but they are depriving themselves of accomplishment. Admit that any

achievement that has the support of lies, are hollow, and you won’t run away from yourself. Give up lies you grab the opportunity to live a

genuinely accomplished life.

7. Lying never solves

Do you believe that lies help you solve your problems? If yes, then you are seriously mistaken. Lying delays but redoubles your problems. Stop

this bad game, tell the truth and face the consequences of your actions.

Face it, learn, improve, grow and solve your issues. Avoid lying and embrace the truth. In the short term it is difficult to do this. In the long term, it

reaps rewards for you.

I can promise one and all. You will NEVER find me lying. Experientially, I have found, truth and trust are much more rewarding and satisfying.

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I see lying as death and truth as life.

May you ‘live’ long and strong.

With loads of love, prayers and exceptional wishes,

Narendra Goidani

As I Live…I Learn

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